Sinemibono eninzi malunga nosapho lwaseSweden ezingqondweni zethu. Isebe lentsapho eSweden lifanele liqwalaselwe ngokubanzi kwaye linamanani amanqaku. Enye yeentlobo zeentsapho zaseSweden yiSerbia.
Ubomi bentsapho kwintsapho yaseSweden
ESweden, ngaphandle kokubhalisa ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane, omnye umtshato uqhutyelwa - iSerbia. Lo ngumtshato wesityezelo, xa umtshato ngamnye ehlala kwintsimi yakhe, uhlala ubomi obuhlukile, abafazi badibana kuphela ngeveki kunye nokuphumla kunye. I-Serbo yinto eyahlukileyo yomtshato wethu womtshato. Ukwahluke kwaso kwimiba yethu kukuba ubudlelwane obunjalo buyabonwa ngumthetho. Ipropati kuphela ehlala ehlukeneyo. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yesi sizathu, ezo zibini eziye zahlala iminyaka emininzi, zenze ulawulo oluhlukeneyo lwabiwo-mali. Kuqwalaselwa ngokuqhelekileyo, xa kwindawo yokutyela iphelelwa ngumntu ngamnye. Ukuhlala kulo mtshato, isi sibini sithumela isicelo kwipolisa yerhafu kwaye siphetha isivumelwano kwixesha elithile. Abantu baseSweden abayinyamezeli ukungathembeki kwaye xa behlangabezana nayo, baqhekeza ubudlelwane. Ngoko ke, ipesenteji yezibini eziphukileyo ziphezulu kakhulu. Into eqhelekileyo yayinguqulelo lomlingani, obizwa ngokuba ngu-monogamy.
Kwintsapho yaseSweden, ukulingana
ESweden, ukulingana phakathi kwabasetyhini kunye namadoda kufakwe kumthetho kwaye kuqhutyelwe kwinqanaba likarhulumente. Ikhefu lokunakekelwa kwengane linikezelwa kubaba nonina. Upapa akayi kukwazi ukulahla ikhefu ukuba anakekele umntwana ngokuthanda umama. Xa umntwana oqhawule umtshato echitha ixesha elifanayo kunye noyise nonina. Ngaphambili, iminyaka engama-37 ayizange idale intsapho. Abafazi abasemva kokubeletha abantwana, baba ngumama abaneminyaka engama-40. Intsapho yaseSweden inezingane ezi-2 okanye ezi-3. Amadoda aseSweden ngaba ootata abakhulu, banakekela abantwana kunye nabasetyhini. Bahamba nabantwana badlala ibhola. Ubaba waseSweden unokupheka kwasekuseni aze atshintshe i-diaper.
Isimo sengqondo kumntwana
Isici esahlukileyo sokukhuliswa komntwana kwintsapho yaseSweden kukumphatha njengomntu ozimeleyo, akayikumiselwa kwisigqibo sabadala kwaye uphathwa ngokuhlonipha. Uxanduva lwezenzo zakhe kunye nezigqibo. Ukuba umntwana ucela isiselo, unikwe ukuba akhethe. Umzekelo, umntwana angamthobeli aze agibele emgodini, ngelixa akayi kubeka izimvo. Kodwa xa iqhwabile kwaye imanzi iya kubuya ekhaya, ngoko esi sifundo somphefumlo uya kufunda ngaye.
Abantu baseSweden baphakamisa umyalelo osisiseko kwimali kubantwana babo. Umntwana ngokwakhe ulahla imali kwaye uceba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Abantwana kanye ngenyanga okanye kanye ngeveki banikeze imali ethile, abazali abayikulawula ukuba kuphi na le mali iza kuchitha. Emva kwakho konke, unako ukuya kwi-cinema okanye kwi-cafe, kwaye unako ukugcina encinane uze uthenge into ebalulekileyo.
Ubundlobongela kwiintsapho zaseSweden kugqithiselwa ngaphandle kwabantwana babo. Umthetho ukhusela umntwana. Kukho imeko ezininzi xa izalamane zifikile ukutyelela, zidibanisa kunye namaqumrhu okunyanzeliswa komthetho. Xa ugogo okanye umkhulu-ntloko ebudeni bemvakalelo, wabiza amapolisa. Emva koko inkundla yalandelwa kunye nentlawulo yentlawulo.
Imfundo yezesondo kwintsapho yaseSweden iqalisa ngeminyaka yobudala. Esi sihloko esiqhelekileyo kwingxoxo evulekileyo nekhululekile. Kungcono ukuchazela umntwana kwiminyaka emihlanu, xa kungekho nxaxheba ekhulayo kwesi sihloko kwaye xa imisebenzi yesondo ingasebenzi.
Isebe lentsapho eSweden lihluke kwisiko saseRashiya. Akunakulungile ukuthetha ukuba kubi okanye kungcono. Kuli lizwe, amadoda azibonakalise ngokwenene kwindlaliba kayise, kwaye ngeli xesha abafazi benza umsebenzi. Ukuqhathaniswa kwamabhinqa kuye kwaholela kwinani elikhulu lomtshato. Amadoda amaninzi afuna abafazi baseRashiya, eSweden abafazi baseRussia bafumana impumelelo enkulu.