Phantse bonke abantu abahlala kwiidolophu ezinkulu kunye namagacities bahlala bekhawuleza kwaye bahamba. Nangona kunjalo, ngomzuzwana othile, ubomi bebaninzi buba nzima kwaye buncipha, kunye nokufumana ezininzi iimpawu zobomi obumnandi, njengemoto, izithuthi ziba ngaphantsi nangaphantsi. Omnye uqala ukulimaza aze ayeke ukuhamba konke, kodwa ngeze. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukunyakaza okungadingekile kubangela intlungu kunye nempilo ebuthathaka, kodwa kuyahluke. Yiyo ntshukumo-lo bubomi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuthethwa njani.
Ubomi kwisigqi somdaniso
Wonke umntu kufuneka asebenze ukuze agcine isimo esihle sempilo. Ukuba ufumana kunzima ukugijima okanye ukugijima, ubuncinane benza udaniso. Kule nto, akudingeki ukuba ufunde ukunyuswa okukhethekileyo kwaye uzama ukuvelisa ngokuchanekileyo, kufuneka uhambe ngokuphantsi komculo ohle kunye nesigqi. Ubuncinane imizuzu elishumi okanye elishumi elinesibini ngosuku, ukunikezela umdaniso awuzukufumana nje impilo, kodwa kunye ne-charge enkulu enamandla.
Iingcali zenzululwazi, ukuvavanya impembelelo yengqondo yengqondo yomzimba kunye nomzimba womntu, yafika kwisigqibo sokuba uyise unokukunceda ukuxazulula iingxaki ezininzi kulabo bantu, kubonakala ngathi, akunakunceda. Yimidaniso ekhokelela umntu ukuphumla nokuphumula. Asikhulumi ngemidaniso yeengcali, okanye ezo ntlobo zemidanso ethathwa njengezemidlalo. Kuthe malunga nokuhamba komdaniso olula, enoba ngubani na onokukwenza, nokuba akaqhelani nokudansa.
Udokotela unyango lusetyenziswa njengoluhlobo olongezelelweyo lwenyango yokuvuselela emva kokuphela kweMfazwe Yehlabathi II. Kwakukho abantu abaninzi abafuna kuphela ukuzivuselela ngokomzimba (ngokomzimba) nokuvuselelwa kwengqondo. Umsebenzi osebenzayo wenziwa ngamaqela anabantu abanjalo, impembelelo enkulu yanikezelwa ukunyakaza kwisantya somdaniso.
Ukuvulwa kwale ndlela yokuvuselela kwakuboniswa kuqala ngokungakholelwa, kodwa iziphumo ezingazange zilinde zona zigqithise konke okulindelekileyo. Ngaloo mihla, ukusetyenziswa komthambo kwakusetyenziswe, ngokukodwa, ngokubhekiselele kubantu abanezifo eziphathekayo, i-seychasona ihlose ngakumbi ukukhulula ukuxhatshazwa kwengqondo kunye nemizwelo.
Ingundoqo yonyango lomdaniso
Udokotela unyango ludibanisa iindlela kunye neendlela apho umntu ezama ukubuyela kwindawo eqhelekileyo, enempilo, emzimbeni nangokomzwelo. Ingundoqo yonyango enjalo kukuba xa izihlunu ziphumla, kungekhona nje ukukhathala ngokomzimba, kodwa kunye nokuphazamiseka kwemiba. Zonke iisiphako, yonke iseli yomzimba iza kwiimeko zokuphumla kunye nokuphumla, nangona, ngokwenene, umzimba wonke uhamba kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza. Into eyona nto kukuba umdaniso kufuneka ulethe uvuyo. Akukho zihambelaniso ezicacileyo, imithetho eqinileyo, akudingeki ukuba ungene kwisigqi somdaniso, kufuneka nje ujonge.
Udokotela unyango, ngokuyisiseko, luqhutywa kumaqela aphakathi namaqela amakhulu. Oku kwenza kube nakho ukunqoba zonke iingxaki ezinxulumene nokulungelelaniswa kwezentlalo, ezinokuvela kubantu abanjalo. Ukunyakaza kweMdaniso kusebenza kule ngxaki, njengendlela yokunxibelelana phakathi kwehlabathi elihle kunye nabantu, kwaye kunika umntu ithuba lokuziveza ngokudansa. Ukongezelela, ngaphakathi kwesikhokelo sonyango lomdaniso weqela, umphumo walo ukhangeleka kakhulu ngaphambili.
Ingundoqo yonyango lomdaniso kukuba ezininzi iingxaki zengqondo zithintela ukuba umntu angahlali ekhululekile kwaye ebonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Le ngqungquthela yengqondo ikhokelela ekubambeni kwenyama. Iimisipha zixakeke ngokupheleleyo, i-vertebrae ingena ngaphakathi, njengezilwanyana ngexesha apho zixutywa kunye noyiko. Kwaye ngokuchanekileyo oku kulondolozwa kwalo mbuso wengxabano eseleyo umntu uchitha onke amandla akhe angaphakathi. Ngenxa yoko, kukho iingxaki zempilo.
Udokotela unyango, ngokukhawuleza, luvumela umntu ukuba aphumle, akhuphe ukuxhatshazwa, amandla akhululwe aze ajikeleze kuwo wonke umzimba.
Ziziphi izifo abantu abajamelana nazo?
Okokuqala kunye nokugqithiseleyo, ukunyanga kumatye kukuvumela ukuba ulahlekelwe phantsi kweemeko zokudandatheka apho indoda ibonisa ukunganeliseki kwakhe. Kulo rhulumente, umntu ulahlekelwa ukudibanisa nenyaniso, nabanye abantu kunye naye. Umdaniso uyakwazi "ukukrazula" umntu nokumbuyisela kwihlabathi leemvakalelo ezintle. Iingcamango ze-Psychoanalytic zisitshela ukuba ezinye izinto ezininzi zengqondo, umzekelo, iingcinezelo, zinokutshatyalaliswa ngoncedo lwengqungquthela yokunomdaniso.
Ewe, imidaniso ixazulula ezinye iingxaki kwimpilo, efana nezempilo. Umdaniso usetyenziswa ngokusisigxina kwixesha lokubuyisela ukubuyisela izigulane ezithe zatshutshiswa, umzekelo, isifo. Ukuba umntu ube esesibhedlele esibhedlele ixesha elide kwaye izihlunu zakhe ziqala ukucoca, ke apha umdaniso uza kunceda ukufumana indlela yokuphuma.
Unomdaniso kakhulu kumabhinqa, ziqinisa yonke imisipha, uncede ukulahla ubunzima obuninzi kwaye wenze ubomi busebenze kwaye buphilile. Enyanisweni, umdaniso luyi-panacea kuzo zonke izifo. Ukuba uthatha imizuzu elineshumi ngemini, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuneliswa ngumzimba wakho kunye nomoya.