Xa ulala, uhlala esithi "Ewe! Oo, ewe, umntwana! Yiza ... "Ngaloo mazwi abonisa imvakalelo, umntu wakho ngumntu odala. Kodwa kukho abanye abavakalisa izimvo zabo kwizenzo zabo. Abaninzi baze basebenzise ulwimi oluthileyo, beqonda amaphupha abo. Ukuba awuyikhangeli umdlalo womntu onjalo, unako ukudlala kunye.
Kukho namadoda azama ukubonisa iimvakalelo zabo. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziqwalasela la madoda ukuba abe ngamalingani athembekileyo. Bakwazi nje ukuvumela ukufutshane okukwanelisayo. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonisa iindlela ezinjalo kukuba uhlala ephapheme ukukhusela umfazi wakhe xa kwenzeka ingozi. Ndicinga ukuba eli qhinga liyinto enhle kumfazi, ukuba neqabane elithembekileyo elinjalo.
Amadoda amaninzi akhetha ukuphulaphula izandi zomlingane kuyo yonke i-jolt kwaye umlinde. Uzama ukuqonda ngokuphendula kwakhe, ngaba wenza konke okulungileyo, uyayonwabela? Kwaye xa ebona ukuba umfazi wakhe uvutha ngentshiseko, ngoko uguquka kwaye ulahlekelwa ngumlawuli, kwaye ngoko, akanakuzifihlela iimvakalelo zakhe, azichithe.
Musa ukuhlala uqonda loo madoda, ngexesha lesini, ephosa okanye ephosa. Yonke into ebangela ukuba ayenze ibonakaliswe kukuba uyaphakamisa ubunzima. Wayevutha ngomsindo, kwaye awukwazi ukuqonda ukuba unomdla okanye utyhile. Ukuba awukwazi ukucacisa ngokucacileyo, ngoko kungcono ukujonga emehlweni akhe, abayi kuze bafihle iimvakalelo azivakalelwayo. Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe kwezobudlelwane, ngoko ke umbono wakhe uya kucacisa. Yaye ukuba ixhambile, ngoko unamandla okuva.
Abantu ababuhlungu ebhedeni bayazi ukuba banomdla kwaye banako ukuzisa iqabane labo kwinqanaba. Asebenza nje kuphela embhedeni, kodwa nakubomi.