Okanye, njengendlela yokukhetha, Ingxoxo Yowesifazane. Umntu ohlala phantsi kwesiqubulo esithi: "Ndiphe izizathu - kwaye ndiza kubonisa ukuba ngubani ohlakaniphileyo apha." Ewe, wonke umntu - uyazi ngubani. Ndandinomhlobo onokujika nayiphi na ingxoxo "malunga nantoni" kwimfazwe yeengcamango. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba uyayiqonda kangakanani into engxoxwa ngayo: xa ekwazi ukuxubusha kwizinto ezikhethwa ngumdlali omnye odumile kunye nomntakwabo! Utshwenyekile, wahlonywa eludongeni kunye neengxabano ezintle kakhulu kwaye unqabile "Kodwa ndiyazi!".
Ngena kuyo nayiphi na ingxabano kunye noDee Dee-ishishini eliza kulahlwa kwangaphambili. Okokuqala, akukho mbambano ayikwazi ukujamelana nokuthanda kwakhe, kwaye okwesibini - uza kwenza iintshaba.
Ingxabano yabantu abanjalo ayikho indlela yokugcina ingxoxo okanye ukufuna iimpembelelo zokuthakazelisa, kodwa isiphelo ngokwayo, esinesizathu esilibini: okanye ukuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nokuntuleka kwabachasi (ngubani onokubeka umququzeleli ozikhukhulayo endaweni yakhe), okanye ukuzama ukuziphatha ngokuzimela ngokufihlakeleyo ukufihla ukungaqiniseki kwakhe kwaye, ukuyibeka ngenyameko, ingabonakali kakhulu.
Ukuba "unenhlanhla" ukuba ubhekane no-Arbiter, isigqibo esona silumkileyo siza kuphelisa naluphi na ukucaphukisa ukuqala ingxoxo ekukhangekeleni inyaniso engunaphakade malunga nokuphuhliswa komntu, ukuqinisekiswa kokuzithemba. Emva koko umqhubi uya kuphelelwa ngumdla kuwe ngokukhawuleza aze atshintshele kwixhoba elitsha.
Isikhathi esibuhlungu, kodwa abaninzi balabo abanelungelo lokufikelela ezintabeni ezithile ezisezantsi kwi-Olympus, bafuna ukufumana abantu abathembekileyo ngenxa yokuhluleka kwabo kwangaphambili. Okanye, ngokuchasene noko, isikhundla abahlala kuzo asihlangabezani neenjongo zabo zobungqingili baze bathabathe isimo sabo esibi kumntu owonakalisayo-ukukhulelwa kwengqondo ngenxa. Khumbula ingxoxo evela kwi-movie "Night Fun":
- Wenza ntoni na uyihlo? - oyiNtloko.
- Enkulu okanye encinci? - Ncinane.
- Kubi. Ukuba ngumphathi omncinci uyahlazisa!
Kukho enye inguqu yeeNtloko zeMpiki-eziqhelekileyo ezicinga ukuba izikhundla zabo zokuphatha zibe yinto efana nemvume yokuzenzekela ngokungaqhelekanga kubo bonke abantu. Icandelo lokugqibela - ityala elimangalisa, ngokungaqhelekanga luchukumise, imfundo encinane ngaphandle. Kwintetho enjalo nesikhombiso, isikhali sakho esona sikhulu sangaphakathi (nangaphandle!) Isidima kunye ubuncinci bentukuthelo: zivumele ukuba uzibambe, ungonwabi. Ukuba ubumnandi kuye kukuphela kovuyo ebomini, unokukwazi ukuvalela kuphela.
Icala likaDobrolyubov liya kuhlala ngonaphakade! Ndiyavuma, ndandisoloko ndihlaziswa yintsimizo yalowo ugxeke obalaseleyo: njani loo nto ilula, njengobunene, ihlala kunye nohlobo lwayo lomsebenzi? Kuyathakazelisa ukuba izigulane zihlala zigxeka izigwebo zabo ezintle njengomnqweno owenene wokwenza ihlabathi libe yindawo engcono.
"Kulo mlo, unxibe kakhulu!", "Awusaboni namhlanje." Iingxaki? "," Hayi, ziphi izivalo phantsi kwemehlo akho! " - ingqalelo "I-Dobrolyubovs" i-kite iphambuka kwiyona nto ibonakalayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayibonakali. Ekuqalekeni konke kubonakale kukuhloniphekileyo kwaye kungenacala: umhlobo omhle uhamba malunga nokubonakaliswa kohlobo lwakho kunye nemeko. Nangona ... Ingaba kaninzi kakhulu kwaye kuya kwinqanaba lokuba ingaba uyakwenza?
Ngoncedo lokugxekwa ekuphuhliseni ubuntu, ukuqinisekiswa kokuzithemba, ngokuphindaphindiweyo amadoda angenakho ukuphepha. "Nenza konke okuphosakeleyo! - amazwi anjalo awonakele ngokunyanisekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, intombazana enqabileyo emva kwayo kukho ukuqonda ngokukhawuleza kokunyaniseka kwakhe kunye nomnqweno wokukhupha iqabane lakhe nayiphi na indlela.
"Awuyikugxeka!" - umloli ongenakukhuseleka ubulungisa uyacaphuka.
Ukujonga ubungcwele beempembelelo zakhe akunzima: kuyimfuneko kuphela, ukhetha umzuzu, ukubonisa (kodwa ngokucokisekileyo nangendlela engenanto engenanto) nayiphina impazamo. Uze ujonge impendulo. Ukuba uphoswe okanye ukhubekile, kuthetha ukuba ujongana nelinye uhlobo lokuzimela ngokwemali yomnye umntu.
Uhlobo oluthambileyo lokuzimela ngokwabo luyintetho kodwa inkani inokuthiwa yiyona nto. Ngokomzekelo, uthengela ingubo entsha kwaye ungazitholi ngokukhawuleza malunga nomhlobo wakho: makamxabise lobu bumnandi phambi kweqela elithandayo. Intombi iqikelela. Kwaye iqela liza ... kwisigqoko sendlela efanayo, kodwa kuphela ngombala ocacileyo kwaye uzalise ngezinto zokusebenza eziqhayisa. Ngenxa yoko, uyathandwa njengonkulunkulukazi, kwaye ubhalwa kubaxelisa abanomdla - wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ungumhlobo!
Kumsebenzi Owona Msebenzi oPhezulu ngowona mzekelo unikezela ngezinye iimbono zabantu, ngokwabo ubudlelwane bomntu-okhokelayo kunye nabalingani boqobo. Izakhiwo zabo kunye nokuhluleka ukuhlakulela iingcamango ngokwabo, baqhelisa ngobuchule umnqweno wobunkokeli kunye ne-aplomb ngokuzithandela. Okunye-ke kulula kakhulu - ukusebenzisa imisebenzi eyenziwe ngabanye!
Ukuthetha kunye neyona nto ibhetele - yinkampani enzima. Ngomhlobo onjalo uhlale elinde inkohliso engcolileyo: awukwazi ukuba ufuna ukuthintisana nani ngeli xesha.
Kubuhlungu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iimpawu zale ngqondo yengqondo zivuka nakumhlobo, zivivinywa ngomlilo, amanzi kunye nobhedu bombhobho - ngaphantsi kwefuthe lobunzima bomntu okanye ubuthathaka obuthathaka. Umsebenzi wakho kukuyeka ngexesha lokuzama ukusebenzisa wena njenge-springboard yokuqinisekisa. Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo - ukuba ungagxinwa kwisilingo sokuzimela ngokwakho ngendleko yomntu ongenakukhathalela. Emva koko, ezilungileyo zifana nomoya nencazelo, kwaye kungekhona ngokuthelekiswa nabanye.
Ukuhleba kuluhlu olukhethekileyo lokuziqinisa. Abanye abantu abasondli isonka kuphela, makabeke bajonge emehlweni abo bajikeleze nabo "ngolwazi lwamakhosi". Ukuqaphela ukuba yedwa kuphela owaziwayo (enye) yimfihlo eyimfihlelo, ngokuqhelekileyo igqiba umntu onamandla amakhulu.
"Masihambe, ndiza kukuxelela ngoVasechkina onjalo ..." - eyaziwayo, eyaziwayo "i-telegraph" isasazwa. Yaye uthobela ngokuthobeka: isantya sokufuna ukwazi ukungaziqondi kakuhle! Imizuzu embalwa uvele uyayazi zonke iinguqulelo zothando kunye nomsebenzi kwimeko yakho. Ngelixa ugalela ubuninzi beendaba ezifunyenwe, "i-telegraph" ineliseko olwaneliseko (olukhankanyiweyo!) Kwaye ukhangele ukukhangela umphulaphuli omtsha.
Andiyi kubufihla, ngamanye amaxesha ubukho beentlepho ezikufutshane nalo lunokuba luncedo kakhulu: zingaphi iindaba ezincinci ezingakuzisa ngazo. Nangona kukho ukuphazamiseka okubalulekileyo: ulwazi lwaso aluqhathaniswa kwaye luvame ukukhutshwa, ngenxa yamagama abomvu. Ngoko ke, kukufanelekile ukugcina engqondweni umgama. Okokuqala, ubukho bokuba ngabahlobo benkohlakalo abukho mpe mbelelo emihle kwigama lakho. Okwesibini, ngubani owaziyo ukuba yiyiphi inxaxheba ebomini bakho inokubakho njengethuba leendaba ezilandelayo? "I-Telegrafu" ayayiqondi ukuba ngubani lo mhlobo, kwaye ngubani otshabayo, kwaye ugaya amathambo kuwo wonke umntu.
Sonke sikude neyona nto, kwaye senza iimpazamo, sinalo ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Kwenzeka ukuba enye okanye enye yezenzo okanye amagama ethu angabangela buhlungu omnye umntu. Ngamanye amaxesha kulungile, ngamanye amaxesha akunjalo.
Abanye abantu baziva bebuhlungu bezenzo zabo ezizungezile ezingahambisani nezimo zabo zengqondo, ukuba baqonda ukuziphatha kakubi kangangoko kube ngumngeni. Wenze ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwimikhosi.
Ukucaphukisa (kunye nobunzulu bomphefumlo) umntu osongelayo angenza nantoni na. Akukho mbonakalo, ukubingelela okanye ukuhleka okuqhelekileyo ukusuka kwicala: "Uyazi, kodwa bandixelele ukuba awuyithandi L". "Ukhuselo olungcono kakhulu kukuhlaselwa," uRaider owonzakeleyo uyagqiba isigqibo ngokukhawuleza kunye neengxaki ze-counterstrike. Kwishishini kukho iincinci ezincinci kwidilesi yomenzi-mthetho-mthetho, kunye namaqhinga angcolileyo anjengeengcamango ezingaphaya kwamagqabantshintshi emva komva, kunye nemigaqo ngaphambi kokuphakanyiswa.
Kuhlekisayo, kodwa abo basithi bayama ngasemva kwamacebo amaninzi abaxolisi "inecala" kwaye baxakeke ngokwenene ngokuziphatha kakubi komntu ongeyena mntu. Ingqiqo engaqeshwanga ayiqeqeshiwe ngumntu: umntu akanako ukubala ukuba ibinzana lakho okanye isenzo sinokubangela ukuba intukuthelo yomntu engafanelekanga.
Kukho indlela enye kuphela yokuphuma, kwaye, hayi, kuphela emva kwe nyaniso: uthethe ngentetho enganeliseki. Musa ukuhlasela, ungenzi ibango, kodwa uzama ukufumanisa oko ukulungele ukukwenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo indlela enengqiqo yindlela ebalulekileyo yokukhuphaza - iAvengers ngokwabo bayesaba ukucacisa ngokucacileyo ubudlelwane bokufa.
Kubonakala ukuba ukubethekisa kungasetyenziselwa ukuzithethelela. Akukuphela nje ukufezekisa kuyo injongo ethile, kodwa nje ukuba uzive nje njengengcali enkulu kwimiphefumlo kunye ne-manipulator abanolwazi.
Njengokuba kukho abagxeki abahlalutya kakubi kubo bonke abantu kunye nayo yonke into, ngoko ke kukho abantu abangacingi ubomi babo ngaphandle kokucokisa imihla ngemihla (abachwephesha abanezakhono ezifana ne-PR abantu, abathengisi kunye nabathengisi bazo zonke iintlobo, ngokuqinisekileyo, abakhathaleli olu hlobo). Banikezela ngokuzikhethela kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bangabikho nto yokudumisa: bayakwazi ukuyikhetha ngokungazenzisiyo i-hairstyle okanye iingubo kwaye banikezele ukuncoma okupheleleyo kwiprojekthi engaphumeleli emsebenzini. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ukunyanzela ukunyaniseka kuyinqobo yokugculelwa kwenzelwe ulwalamano lomnxibelelwano. Kwaye oku kudla ngokufanayo!
Nangona kunjalo, ngokufanelekileyo, kuyafaneleka ukuhlukanisa enye i-subspecies. Abanye abantu abanenzondelelo-ntliziyo banqatshelwe ukuba abantu bahlale bekulungele ukuthetha ngokuncoma, ukuba nje bayamomotheka baze babuyisele imizamo yabo.
"Namhlanje ulungile nanini!" - uxelela umngane ngelo xesha, njengoko udidekile ucinga ngeso sibuko umbala oluhlaza obomvu bakho obomvu kwaye ubomvu emva kobusuku bokulala buso. Impendulo yakho yokuqala kukucaphukisa kwaye usityholwa ukubetha. Musa ukukhawuleza. Mhlawumbi lo mntu ufuna nje ukukwenza uzive kakuhle, nangona uncedo lobuxoki.
Ukuzithemba, onothando kunye nokungabikho nto yothando kunye nokunyamekela, abantu abanqabile ukuba babuze imibuzo yokuxinzelela abanye-abananto yokuba nomona, kuba banelungelo lobomi babo ngokwabo.
Ukuziqinisekisa ngokubakho kwabanye kukukhetha ukulahlekelwa ngamabomu, kudala kuphela ukukholelwa kokuphumelela. Umntu uya kuhlala eziva uloyiko lwesikhundla sakhe kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba alahlekise izakhiwo eziqhelekileyo.