Ngaba uyayazi ukuba ukuba umntwana omncinci ophethwe ngumlingo waba ngumntu omdala, uya kuba ngumntu ongaqhelekanga. Yaye kungekhona nje loo nto, engaqhelekanga, ayiyi kuba ngumlinganiselo.
Kwiintsana, ubude bomgudu buyi-20 cm ukuya kumashumi amabini anesithandathu ububanzi, kwaye nangona iguquguqukayo kwaye iplastiki, ukubunjwa kwayo akukapheli, kuba ukugoba komgudu kungabonakali. Kuomntu omdala, umlinganiselo wobubanzi bentloko kunye nobude bomzimba ngowesibhozo, ngaloo mzuzu njengoko umntwana enesine kuphela ukuya kwezine. Intloko engenakulinganiswa yintsana, kwindawo yokuqala, kuxhomekeke kumhlathi ongaphuthukanga kunye nokuntula kwamazinyo, kwakunye nokuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Ubuso bentsana bufutshane nje - olu ngenye yezinto eziphambili zentuthuko yangaphandle yomntwana kwinyanga yokuqala yobomi bakhe. Unomzimba ongaphantsi kweengcambu kunye nemisipha yomzimba, isithuba esincinci sempumlo, impumlo encinci, kwaye ibhuloho yempumlo ibonakala ibanzi kakhulu, kwakhona, ubungakanani buso bunokuphazamiseka ngeendlebe ezikhulu kunye neembande ze-tympanic ezisezantsi.
Umlomo wesibeleko usana lufutshane, kodwa ngenxa yamanqatha amancinci angaphantsi akhangeleka ngokwaneleyo. Iimfudu zithinteka, yingakho umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa engakwazi ukubamba intloko yakhe.
Ubume besifuba buhlukile ngenxa yemiphunga ephosakeleyo kunye ne-diaphragm ekhoyo. Kwaye ngoko umntwana akanako ukuphefumula.
Isisu sesisu, xa siqhathaniswa nezinye izitho, sisona sikhulu kwaye sinesimo soguqu, sijoliswe phantsi. Ngenxa yentsholongwane enkulu (ngokumalunga, ngokuqinisekileyo), inxalenye ephezulu yomzimba omncinane ibonakala ikhulisiwe. Zonke izitho zangaphakathi zentsana zineempawu zazo ngokwakheka, ubungakanani kunye nesimo.
Ungakulibali ukuba ukubunjwa kohlobo lomntwana kuqala ngeentsuku zokuqala zokuphila kwaye ngokukodwa kubonxibelelwano lwakho. Yonke into iqala ngeengcamango: ezilungileyo kunye ezimbi. Ukukhathazeka kokuqala kwabazali kunokwenzeka kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngezinto ezintle zokucinga kunye, ngokwemvelo, njengento encinci. Imvakalelo emihle kumntwana kukutya okuqhelekileyo, kuhlambulukile, kwaye oko akuyona nto ebalulekileyo - oku kukuthetha kwakho, ukumomotheka kunye nokugcoba. Iintsana kufuneka zibone ukunakekelwa nothando kuyo yonke into. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba ukucaphuka kwakho nentlungu kukuchaphazela kakhulu umntwana wakho. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana angakhula, kwaye oku kuya kuphazamisa ubomi bakhe (kwaye mhlawumbi, kungekuphela kwakhe).
Xa ufika esibhedlele, kwiintsuku zokuqala kufuneka uhanjelwe ngumongikazi kunye nesigqirha sesidanga sesithili, unganqikazi ukubabuza imibuzo echaphazelekayo, echaphazela impilo yakho yomntwana kunye nokunyamekela. Iingcebiso eziya kulandela ziza kwandisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
Nciphisa rhoqo umntwana wakho. Oku kunokwenziwa kokubili kwikliniki nasekhaya. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, kucetyiswa ukuba ulawule ubunzima bomntwana kunye netafile - uya ku soloko ubona: nini kwaye kuninzi kangakanani kwandisa ubungakanani. Kwitheyibhile, umgca onqambileyo kufuneka ube buthathaka ngaphandle kokutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa nangona umntwana engabi niselo ubuninzi iintsuku eziliqela - ungakhathazeki, kufuneka adibanise kamva. Kwiinyanga ezintathu zokuqala, umntwana ophilileyo kufuneka athole igrama ezingamashumi amabini ukuya kutsho amathathu ngosuku. Musa ukugqithisa umntwana wakho, kuba ukukhululeka kunokwenza izifo.
Le nzululwazi ayinzima kakhulu: umntwana ulala ngakwesokunxele sakho nangesandla sokunene, kwaye intloko ngeli xesha ixhaswa ngumlenze. Kwaye ukuqinisekisa ukuchaneka kwezenzo zabo, qaphela ukuba umzimba womntwana kufuneka usekelwe kwimiba emithathu: umva wekhanda, amahlombe kunye nekhontsi - kwaye yonke into iphezulu kwinqanaba.
Ungethuki xa uva ukukhala kokuqala komntwana. Uphuhliso kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi lunikeza ukukhala rhoqo. Kodwa oku akusiyo impawu yokuba umntwana uyakhathazeka ngento ethile. Ukukhala komntwana kuluhlobo lwe-gymnastics kwiimisipha ezininzi zomzimba: umlomo wesibeleko, i-thoracic kunye nesisu. Ngexesha lokumemeza umntwana udala amaphemphu, utshintsho lwegesi luya kwenzeka. Musa ukugijima kumntwana ekukhaleni kwakhe kokuqala, makamememele imizuzu embalwa, kuba iyayinceda. Kodwa ukuba akayi kuhlalisa, ngoko kukubaluleka ukukhangela isizathu sokukhala kwakhe. Kukho uninzi:
- waya kwi-diaper okanye i-diaper kwaye uziva ungonwabi;
- Uhlushwa yindlala okanye ukoma;
- kubetha kwiingubo;
- I-crumb ishushu kakhulu (ibanda);
- intestinal colic.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, into yokuqala yokuyenza yitshintsha i-diaper ukuba umntwana akahlalise phantsi-hlola ngokufanelekileyo iingubo. Mhlawumbi kufuneka kudliwe. Ukuba i-crumb ikhathazeka ngumbungu, unako ukumnika i-dill vodichki encinane, ethengiswa kuyo nayiphi na ikhemisi.
Ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungalonakalisi umntwana. Musa ukuyithatha ngezandla zakho ngaphandle kwesizathu - umntwana uyasetyenziswa ngokukhawuleza kulolu hlobo unyango kwaye akakwazi ukulala ngaphandle kwezandla zakho okanye ukugula kwesibhambathiso, kwixesha elizayo kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kwaye ikhule ibe yimvakalelo kunye nokuhlambalaza.
Abazali abaninzi abancinci banenkxalabo yokuba umntwana wabo ugxotha rhoqo. Akukho sizathu sokuva, unokwenza ibhizinisi lakhe ngamaxesha 10-12 ngosuku - oku kusemthethweni. Ukuba nje uqaphele abazali abancinci bamele bazi kwaye bangabi ukoyiko lokuba umxhesho wokuqala womntwana ubumnyama kakhulu, kwaye ke isihlalo siya kukhanya kwaye sibe nombala ophuzi.