Unceda njani
Ukuvakalisa iingcamango ezifihliweyo ngokupenda, ukhulule umnqweno wakho kwiphepha okanye ngokubunjwa kwemifanekiso, uqonde into ebalulekileyo yenkinga, susa "iziqeshana" zangaphakathi. Izifundo zaseMerika zamva nje zibonise ukuba izigulane zomhlaza eziye zenziwe ngokucatshulwa okanye zidweba iinyanga ezine kuphela, zangezibuhlungu ezincinane, zalahla ukungazinzi nokunyamezela. Isiphelo: utyando lwezobugcisa ludlulisela amandla angenamandla kwisitishi esihle. Ngonyango lwezobugcisa - uncedo kumntwana omncinci, unokuqonda indlela umntwana abonakalisa ngayo kuloo nto okanye enye ishaneli yokudala.
I sebenza njani
Xa udweba, ungacingi ngaphambili ukuba uza kwenza ntoni na. Yonke into ifanele ibe yintsikelelo yomphefumlo, ngokukhawuleza. Ngexa izandla zisebenza, ingqondo ikhululekile ngokupheleleyo kwiimvakalelo ezimbi. Ekupheleni komsebenzi i-psychologist ibuza izigulane ukuba zichaze ngokucacileyo kwi "masterpieces" zazo, ziyiziphi na ezizidalwa kunye nendlela eziyichaza ngayo ngoku.
Ngethuba lomsebenzi, izigulane zifumana iimpendulo eziphilileyo kwiimbuzo ezixinzeleleko. Nangona umntu engakwazi ukuyiqonda ekugqibeleni, ngoko ngexesha lokudweba ulahla uxhalaba.
Imidwebo yabantwana kunye nokutolika kwabo
Ulwaphulo lwezobugcisa lusetyenziswa ngokusetyenziswa xa usebenza nabantwana. Uvavanyo olulona luqhelekileyo ukuba iingcali zengqondo zicebisa kubantwana kukuthaya intsapho apho umntwana ehlala khona. Ngokubhekiselele kubani kunye nendlela ebonakaliswa ngayo, sinokuthi malunga nobudlelwane bosapho.
Umntu obaluleke kakhulu ngumntwana omele umzekelo wokuqala, udwebe ngokucokisekileyo. Ngoko ke, ngokubonakalayo, umama onqabileyo, onqabileyo, kodwa umama olawulayo akanako nje ukuba akhule kunye noyise, kodwa naye uphakeme ngaphezu kwakhe.
Umfanekiso omkhulu kunye "nemihlobiso" eyahlukeneyo ingqina kwi-egocentrism yayo. Umntu omncinci "uthetha" ngokuxhalabisa kunye nomvo wokugatywa.
Lahla umzobo
Uloyiko lokwenza impazamo, abantwana abaninzi banqabile ukuphinda baphinde baphumelele. Ukususela kwimpazamo, akukho mntu ukhuselweyo, zama ukubuyisela lo msebenzi umntwana.
Vula ukukrazula umlomo, izibonda, izihlunu, amazinyo abukhali, ameva, ameva, imifanekiso yezilwanyana ezixhambileyo, iidinosaurs, i-robotic killers, izixhobo, iintlekele zemvelo - ulwaphulo okanye ukwesaba.
Ukungcola (izambatho ezinxibekileyo, izibonda ezantsi, izitya ezingcolileyo, njl.) - ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi komntwana, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ingxaki engapheliyo yecala.
Umfanekiso wezitho zangasese kwimidwebo yabantwana ngumqondiso ophazamisayo. Imizila eqinileyo, enokuzithemba kwimidwebo - ukuzimisela, ukulinganiswa kwemvakalelo.
Imidwebo kwiphepha elipheleleyo-ubungqina bokuzithemba ngokuzenzekelayo, ukutyekela.
Ubukhulu obuncinane bemidwebo - ukuzithoba, ukuxhomekeke kwimeko yokuziphatha, ukuxhomekeka kwimeko yokuxinezeleka.
Ngokuncedisa unyango lobugcisa, abantu abadala baya kuba nako ukunquma indlela umntwana afunyenwe ngayo kumnye umsebenzi okanye omnye umsebenzi, yintoni eyoyikrokisayo kunye nantoni na. Uninzi lwabantwana abathanda umdlalo osebenzayo kunye nabahlobo okanye bahlala bengenangqondo, banokwenza umvelelo womntwana onobuhle kwaye onokuthula olwaphilo lobugcisa. Ulwaphulo lwezobugcisa lunceda umntu nomntwana ukuba baqonde konke okulungileyo okanye okubi, kwiphepha lephepha umntwana angakwazi ukuvakalisa iingcamango zakhe, amava.