Abanye abamama abangaboniyo bajonga ukuba umntwana wabo uyanyuka okanye awunayo. "Lapha uqale ukuhamba nguwe! Kwaye akunakudinga ukukhwela konke, "bacinga, kwaye kubonakala ngathi abanye banenkxalabo yokuhlala kunye ne-crib bobuxoki, ngeli xesha ixesha lokukhwela mhlawumbi libaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo kunye nokwenyama kwemivumba. indawo yokuhlala emva kokuhlala kunye nokujika ukusuka ecaleni ukuya ecaleni.
Ufumanisa ii-horizons ezintsha , izifundo ezihlukahlukeneyo, uqala ukwenza izigqibo: kuphi na kutheni ufuna ukuhamba. Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana abe neenjongo ezingaphezulu, kwaye efumana ithoyizi, ufunda ukuzithuthukisa: uye waqhawula - ufumene. Izinto ezithandekayo ziza kuba malunga nomntwana, ngakumbi ukukwazi kwakhe ukukhuphuka. Kwaye enye into enomdla, ngokukhawuleza uza kufunda ukunqoba izithintelo, ukuphucula amandla kunye nokunyamezela. Ukongezelela, ukufunda iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba-phambili, ngasemva, kwindlela yeplastiki, kuzo zonke ezine, ukutshintsha isantya sokunyakaza - i-slider encinci iya kuqala ukufunda isizathu kunye nolwalamano olusebenzayo. Eentloko zakhe ezinjalo zizalelwa: "Ukuba uhamba unyawo lwakho njengaye, ndiya kukhwela ngokukhawuleza, kwaye xa ndixhomekeke kwisibambiso njengale, ukunyakaza kuya kuhamba." Ukusebenza okunjalo kunengcinezelo ekuphuhliseni imvumba.
Ufunda njani?
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukuba yi-slider? Qaphela i imvuthu. Ukuqala malunga neenyanga ezi-6 ubudala, uya kuba nomdla ngokubanzi kwizinto ezizungezile, uya kuba nomnqweno wokubafumana, ukuthintela, ukufunda. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, ingcinga iya kufika entlokweni yakhe: "Ndingakwenza njani oku?" Ngokumgxotha kumnqweno wokufumana ithoyilo, uya kwenza ukuba izakhono zomntwana zikhawuleze.
Ngexesha le midlalo, ngokufuthi ukubeka ithoyizi phambi komncinci kwaye ubone indlela eya kuzama ngayo ukuyifumana. Ekuqaleni, umntwana uya kukhwela izibambo, aze aphonse umzimba wakhe wonke, aguqe phantsi kweemilenze zakhe. Emva koko, ukutshintsha i-center of gravity, i-esile yakhe iya kuvuka, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba, okokuqala, iya kuphinda ibuyele. Mhlawumbi, ukwenzela ukufezekisa injongo efunwayo, umntwana uya kuqala ukunyuka kuwo ngendlela ephazamisayo. Kodwa ngolunye usuku umntwana uza kuza kuzo zonke ezine. Isihlandlo sokuqala akayi kukhululeka ngenxa yeemeko ezinzima kakhulu: isisu esinzima siyakubhidliza.
Emva kokuma kangako , uya kuqala ukulungelelanisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhahlela. Mhlawumbi kuya kubonakala kukulungele ngakumbi ukuhamba kunye neengqungquthela ezixinzelelwe phantsi, kunye ne-esile ecaleni. Okanye, ngokuphambene noko, inxalenye ephezulu ye-trunk iphakanyisiwe, kwaye iphantsi ixinzelelwe phantsi, kwaye umntwana uya kuhamba, encike ezandleni zakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha inkunzi iphosa umzimba phambi kweejerks, iphosa iinyawo zakhe. Le ntshukumo ifana nokuxhoma i-frog encinane. Abanye abadibanisi abafuni ukuqhubela phambili, kwaye onke amaxesha emva. Oku kubangelwa kukuba umntwana uphonsa ukuphatha phambi kweemilenze kunye nezibamba. Ngexesha lezo zilingo musa ukumphazamisa kwaye unike ithuba lokuzama yonke into.
Kodwa ngelixa umntwana engazange aphule isisu sakhe esingaphantsi komhlaba, okwangoku, umkhonto ogcweleyo uphambi kwakhe. Ngolunye usuku uya kugcina umdlalo omhle: umntwana uza kuhamba kuzo zonke iine, kwaye ngaphantsi kwamandla okuvumba, i-pussy iya kuwela phezu kweesile okanye isisu, uze uvuke kwakhona, uguqe emva nje ngekiti encinane kwaye, uncike kwiintonga kunye nemilenze, uya kuhamba phambili ngokuzithemba ngakumbi iinjongo.
Ukuhambela phambili
Ekuqaleni uya kuzama ukukhwela, ukuxhoma umphathi ofanayo kunye nomlenze phambili. Kodwa ukuhamba okunjalo kuya kubonakala kunzima kakhulu, ngoko uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukuze agcine ukulinganisela kwakhe, kubalulekile ukwenza ezinye iindlela kunye nesandla sakhe sokunene nesokunxele kunye nonyawo lwakhe. I-Kid iya kuzama ukutyhoboza isibambo kwicala elinye kunye nomlenze kwenye. Ingxaki enjalo iya kumnceda ukuba alondoloze ngokulinganisela kwingalo nasemlenzeni njengoko ephakamisa enye ingalo nomlenze. Oku kuya kuba ngumzuzu apho kuqaliswa khona ixesha lokusebenza ngokuchanekileyo nokuchanekileyo. Uya kufunda ukugcina ukulinganisela kwakhe kunye nexesha elincinci liza kuthoma ukunqoba umgama omde kuye, uya kufinyelela ngokukhawuleza injongo yakhe, kwaye ingqiqo yakhe iza kuqala ukuphuhlisa ngakumbi.
Uncedo no khu seleko
Ukuba i-crumb ayifuni ukukhawulela, yiba nomonde uze uzame ukumnceda kule nto. Yenza ingubo phantsi, ubeke umntwana kuyo kwaye uhambe ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngasecaleni. Akayi kuyika ukufumana indawo entsha, kuba umama usondele. Uya kuthatha isibindi aze asebenze ngokuthe ngqo.
Ukongezelela, bonke abantwana bayinkwenkwe encinci kwaye bathanda ukuxelisa abadala. Ngoko vuka kuzo zonke ezine uze ubonise ukuba wenze ntoni.
Ncoma, umomotheka, kwaye njengomvuzo, thabatha i-toy uze uyibonise umntwana. Emva koko uyifake phambi kwakhe, uze ufake i-roller phantsi kwezithende. Uya kukhwela aze enze yokuqala iphose phambili. Ngamanye amaxesha umdlalo awuyisisusa somntwana, apho ufuna ukuzama. Zama ukutshintsha izinto, khangela abo banomdla. Abanye abantu bathanda amaqabunga amaphepha, i-candy kwi-wrappers yegolide okanye "izinto ezindala" izinto ezikude-kude kwiseti yeTV, ifowuni ephathekayo. "Ukubona injongo enqwenelayo, inkunzi yenzana nayo.
Ukwandisa umnqweno wokukhenkceza kuya kunceda ikhosi yokusila.
Zama ukwenza imisebenzi ekhethekileyo nge-roller. Beka phantsi kwesifuba somntwana, thabathe imvumba yemilenze uze uphinde uhambe, uyeke izandla zakhe zihlale phantsi. Ukuba umntwana uswela kuphela kwiplastiki, uzame kangangeentsuku ngemini ukuzisa imilenze kwisisu sakhe kwaye ubencitshise kancane. Kungekudala uya kuziziva ekhululekileyo kwaye uya kuvuka emadolweni, exhomekeke ngaloo ndlela. Emva kokuba uqala ukuzithemba, uyamnika imisebenzi yokwandisa ubunzima. Umzekelo, unqobe umqobo. Beka i-roller phakathi kwakhe kunye nomdlalo wokudlala, makabe esama ukukhwela phezu kwayo. Mhlawumbi okokuqala, akukho nto iya kuphuma, iya kubetha kwaye ifuthe.
Thu thuzela kwaye uphinde unikezele ukuphinda. Abantwana abanobuqili abangaboni, kodwa bajikeleze abajikelezileyo. Umntwana osisilumko ngokuqinisekileyo uyisihlandlo sokuzikhukhumeza kwabazali! Ngamanye amaxesha ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zokuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaxiswa yikholo eqinileyo yabazali ukuba isondo asiyindawo yesikhwama. Kule meko, sasaza ingubo okanye ingubo phantsi. Ugqoke umntwana ngomzimba ovulekileyo, ngoko ke izandla zakhe neenyawo ziya kulungeleka ngaphezulu.
Ukuba i-crumb iqala ukuhamba ukusuka kweli nqanaba ukuya kumgangatho, yifake emilenzeni yeengxowa okanye i-slide. Yishiye iinyawo zakho zivulekele, kuba kwiisokisi ziya kudibanisa kwaye ziphazamise ukuzinza.
Vumela amakilasi ekufundeni ukukhwela izakhono zibe ngawe kunye nomntwana umdlalo othakazelisayo. Emva koko umncinci wakho uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwindlu.