Abafazi abakhulelweyo balungiselela ukuzala

Uya kufuneka abelethe kusasa, kwaye ... uhambisa ifenitshala, kuba, njengoko kubonakala kuye, akukho ndawo yokubeka isikhalazo, konke oku kuhambelana nento enye - abafazi abakhulelweyo balungiselela ukuzala.

Njengomthetho , umnqweno wokwakha isidleke unamama olindelekileyo malunga neveki yama-30 yokukhulelwa. Ihomoni ye-estrogen iphambanisa ngemihla ngemihla. Dowry for the baby? Emva kokufunda i-assortment yazo zonke iikhathalogu nazo zonke izitolo! Ukucoca? Ukuhlawula! Ngamanye amaxesha isicatshulwa sithatha kwaye siyayidla ifom. Uphawu: ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo unesisu esikhulu sigqibo, ngeendlela zonke uhlamba iifestile, emva koko uzala. Kuba ngumama ozayo, ezi ziyiminqweno yemvelo ukuba ayidingi naliphi na izimvo. Kwaye indoda yam ... Ukuze uyibeke ngokuthobeka, uyadandatheka. Kwaye ipapasho elimangalisayo kwientyatyambo zegolide alinakuyiphi na into edibana neengcamango zakhe malunga nekhaya elihle. Dear utata! Bamba iindleko ze-humor ekuncedeni kwaye uziyekele ekungenakukhunjulwa: ityala isidleke. Ubomi bakho bube ngumzingeli wezaphulelo? Izifundo azikho phantsi kwengqondo. Sikumema ukuba ujoyine ulawulo oluphezulu lomfazi wakho kwaye ujonge inxaxheba yintloko yentloko. Khumbula: intloko yentsapho - nguyena owenza konke aze ahlawule isisindo.


"Umfazi ukhulelwe , kwaye akafuni ukuthenga iliso lomntwana nge-manual drive kunye nolawulo olude!" Ngokuqhelekileyo. Ungumntu onomzimba. Unako ukufumana imali, kodwa awuyi kwenza ukuthenga okungonelanga. Vumela kunye nebhokhwe. Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile uyacaphuka. Ngenxa yintanda yakho, ulindele ukuzala, izinto eziphathekayo azikhathazeki nhlobo. Uvavanya umgcini wesondlo: kodwa uya kukwazi ukubonelela nokukhusela amatshontsho akhe? I-Instinct yezilwanyana idinga isenzo. Yaye indlela eyona ndlela yokuqinisekisa ukuzithemba kumama wakho ukuvula i-akhawunti egameni leemvumba. Ngokomzekelo, ezininzi iintlobo zeentaka zondla. Xa ibhinqa liphanga (oko kukuthi, lilungele ukuvelisa), lizibonakalisa njengenkukhu encinci: yenza izandi ezifanelekileyo, zizenza ngathi ayikwazi ukuhamba. Yaye indoda kufuneka imlethe into ethile kuyo kwintonga - imbongolo, i-bug okanye i-twig. Yaye makazame ukuyenza! Ukhawuleza ukumthanda, kuba abaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo bayilungiselela ukuzala. Ngoko kuya kufuneka ufumane, daddy, yintoni inambuzane ethandweni ejongene nayo. Ukugijima emva kwesebe!


Kuphela ngaphandle kobuqili

Uloyiko ukulibala ngezinto ezincinci. Yingakho efuna enye i-shoe ne-bread maker. Kusemfuneko ukuba ujobe enye ingqolowa enengqiqo ekufezekeni kwendalo. Sicima indawo. Ukususela ekulungiseni ukucoca konke okufanayo akuyi kuphuma. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo wena, umfazi wakhe uya kukwenza. Kwaye kunobungozi ukuphefumula upende kwaye uthwale izisindo. Kodwa akayi kuthatha ingxabano. Kungcono ukudlala umdlalo othakazelisayo: zibonise intshontsho, oko kukuthi, umncinci, ongoko konke, eqinisweni, kwaye iqalile. Okokuqala, sivumele "i-karapuz" yethu phantsi phantsi - ingabanda? Akulunganga ukufudumala. Makhe ahambe kancane kancane kuzo zonke ezine - kungekhona i-skvozit? Ukuba kunjalo, kuya kufuneka udibanise i-gap. Okwesibini, misela ukuba ingozi yintoni. Tshintsha iifestile, usethe umnyango wokhuselo. Thabatha abaqokeleli basothuli. Phinda uhlaziye udoti-ekugqibeleni kwaye ungenakucinganiswa. Kwaye akukho nto yokwenza ingxolo malunga nekhaseteti ezilahlayo. Ibhinqa elikhulelwe alikho kwiimpahla. Kubalulekile ukuba akhulise indawo yakhe yokuhlala.


Ukulungiswa kwezibonelelo

Umama wesikhathi esizayo wayithatha entloko yam ukwenza ulondolozo? Ndikholelwe, uya kwenza. Yaye ifomu elungileyo yabalingisi bokuqala (ukukhupha izinto ezingenalusizo!), Njalo, ziya kuthenga. Gcina yonke ihlole njengeapulo lakho iso! Emva kokubeleka, izinto ziya kufuneka zibuyiselwe.

Jabulela ukuba intandokazi yakho ayiyena i-beaver ebudeni bexesha lokutya lokunciphisa imithi kwaye iguqula nayiphi na indawo engabonakaliyo. Umfazi wakho ufuna ukuzithinta ngothando. Ngokuqinisekileyo, emva kokuzalwa, kuya kubuya kwinyani, kwaye kunyaka okanye iphepha elitsha liza kuba ngumbukiso wemidwebo yabantwana. Kodwa ngoku akanomdla. Kubalulekile: ukutshintsha into! Kulungile, ukuba kunqunyelwe kwi-ryushechkami. Kunzima ukuchaza isizathu sokuba ungeke uthathe kwaye uhambele eziqithi. Ngaba unako? Emva koko hamba. Ngaphambi kokubeletha, kunjalo!


Ayiyixinzelelo, ngokobugwenxa ...

Umfazi wakho wenza umsebenzi wokungakhuselekanga, uzama ukuguqula ube yithemba, kuba abaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo balungiselela ukuzala. Umntwana wakhe ukhuselwe ngumbeleko. Kwaye umama uphinda uphinde abuyele kwikhoko elifanayo elithembekileyo. Nceda umfazi wakho! Ulungile ngokunyamekela! Musa ukucaphuka xa intanda ethandekayo iziphatha kakubi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ibuhlungu. Emva kwakho konke, isisitho sendawo yokukhusela sivusa umbuzo oyintloko: ingaba ngumama olungileyo? Yaye nganye yezenzo zakhe (ekufundeni iincwadi ezizodwa zokuhlamba iipileni) ziyamsondeza kwimpendulo: "Ewe, ndinako!" ... Kuya kuza imini xa intanda ethandekayo iya kumisa imisebenzi esebenzayo kunye nekratshi kwikhoneni. Njenge-kitty, ngokukhawuleza ibangelwa. Oku kuthetha ukuba indawo yokuhlala isiphelile.


Ukuzalwa kuza kuqala

Ukuguqula ikhaya lakho kwindawo ehle kakhulu kwaye enhle, musa ukulibala ukuba ikhefu lokubeleka liqala kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo iholide! Yiba neqela lokukhupha! Kukho iingcinga ezintathu.

Mema intombazana ukuba ithenge. Baya kunceda ukuzisa iingxowa ezinobumba kunye neengubo. Kwaye baya kukhetha njengesipho kwizinto ezifunekayo.

Lungiselela i-sandwiches, ijusi, iziqhamo kwaye uphume kunye namantombazana epakini. Thatha imifanekiso, udwebe uhlobo lwentwasahlobo. Kamva, ngokusebenzisa le zithombe kunye nemidwebo, ungaphinda uvuselele isimo esihle.

Thenga izinto ezilungiselelwe ukulungiswa kwempahla kwaye uzibeke etafileni kunye nabahlobo bakho. Khangela ifilimu yothando, ukudanisa kwiingoma zomculo ...