Icebo 1. Kufuneka ulinde ukuqala. Musa ukumgijimela, makhe acinge ngako kwaye azenzele isigqibo sokuba uya kwenza ngaphandle kwakho okwangoku. Ndikholelwe, ukuba unothando nawe, ngoko ngaphezu kweengcamango ngawe akayi kuba nantoni na izinto ezintsha, akayi kutsalwa.
Icebiso 2: Udinga ukuphumla. Kukho nawuphi na, kukho uxhulumano lwamandla phakathi kwakho. Yaye xa ufumana kwaye uhlupheka kakhulu, unika amandla akho kuye. Yeka ukwenza intando kwaye uza kubona umphumo ohluke ngokupheleleyo. Musa ukukhawuleza ukukhangela umthandi omtsha, vele uvuselele amandla akho kwelinye icala. Ndikholelwe, umthandi wakho uya kuziva ngokukhawuleza. Kubomi bam kwakukho imeko enjalo, xa ndaqhekeka nendoda yam intanda, endibudlelwane obude naye. Andizange ndihambe ngokugqithiseleyo, ndandisiya ku tyelela umhlobo wam kwesinye isixeko. Ukuba khona, ndalibala malunga nazo zonke iingxaki kwaye ndaza ndaza ndaza ndaza ndahamba nentloko yam. Kwabonakala kum ukuba andizange ndifune enye. Kwaye kwangoko umthandi wam waqala ukundibiza rhoqo kwaye ndizibuza ukuba kutheni ndaya khona? Kwaye xa ndandisoloko ndihamba kumhlobo wam ngaphambili, andizange ndibone oko kwenzekayo ngaphambili. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndiyaqonda ukuba kunzima ukugcina ukungabi nandaba.
Andiyi kubhala kuwe, ukuba kufuneka uqaphele ukubonakala kwakho, zithande wena, kuba sifuna ubudlelwane obuphezulu.
Icebo 3. Yiba nesisa. Awuzange ucinge ukuba abafazi abathanda ukufumana izipho kuphela, kodwa amadoda afana nokufumana izipho ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba umthandi wakho unomdla omtsha, ngoko mhlawumbi ulindele isipho esivela kuye kunokuba asenze. Basenalo luhlobo olude kwaye alufanelekanga ukuba anike umntu isipho. Kwaye kufuneka uvele. Emva koko, uyazi ngakumbi, omnye nomnye unelungelo lokumnika into angenakuyenza, ekubeni unamalungelo amaninzi namathuba oku. Kwakhona akufanele ulibale ngokuxhasa ngokuziphatha. Emva koko, kwiimeko ezinzima zobomi kunokuncedisa, ngumhlobo omdala kuphela, owaziyo ixesha elide kwaye uthembe ngakumbi. Xa ususa umqhubi wakho, umthandi wakho uya kulindela ngaphezulu kuwe. Kodwa ekuqalekeni, injongo yethu kukuphelisa umchasi, kwaye ke siza kukunye into.
Icebo 4. Kufuneka uhlale kwintsimi. Yiza kufuphi nabahlobo bakhe kwaye uzama ukwakha ubudlelwane nabo, ziphendulele kwiibambisene zakho. Kwakhona ufumane indlela kumama, nangona akakuthandi, kodwa akadingeki ukuba azi malunga nalo.
Icebiso 5. Yenza izinto ezinqabileyo zakhe zibe ngumqobo wakho. Usube ngabahlobo, kodwa umfazi wakhe omncinci uyambiza njalo, ubhala imiyalezo kwaye ngeli xesha, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba unomsebenzi ophuthumayo. Kwaye ngoku uyeke uthethe ngento ebalulekileyo, shiya incoko engapheliyo kwaye uhambe. Kwaye ngeli xesha, umthandi wakho uya kuqala ukucinga ukuba umonde wakhe omtsha uyithintelo kuwe.
Icebiso 6. Yenza uncomelo ngentshiseko yakhe entsha. Akukho mfuneko ukuba uhlale utsho ukuba ugcwele iziphoso. Iimigodi zayo zibonisa ngokucokisekileyo ngokuncoma. Emva kwakho konke, yena ngokwakhe uyazi into ephosakeleyo kuyo, kodwa uthetha ngenye indlela, malunga nalo ngokungathi uyaphulazela.
Icebiso 7. Kumele umbonise ukuba lubuthathaka. Emva koko, amadoda afana nokuziva abakhuseli kunye namaqhawe. Mnike ithuba kwaye mkhumbule njalo le nto. Mbonise ngandlela-thile ukuba ngaphandle kwakhe awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na kwaye ufuna ukukhusela rhoqo.
Thetha malunga nendlela yokubuyisela umthandi unokuba ixesha elide. Ungesabi ukuzama, kwaye mhlawumbi uza kufumana into entsha. Emva kwakho konke, umfazi kufuneka abe nobuqili, kwaye nguwe kuphela owaziyo zonke izinto ezibuthathaka.
Sikholelwa ukuba ngokukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokubuyisela umthandi wakho, uya kuphumelela kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuphinda buyakhe.