Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo sifuna thina kunye nabathandekayo bethu rhoqo imihla ngemihla kwaye, kwinto ethile nezinto ezingabonakaliyo: impilo, uxolo kwintsapho, imali eninzi. Siyathanda kuphela, ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kokucinga ngendlela zonke ezi zinto zingenziwa ngayo. Kanti asikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba. Ngoko awukwazi nje ukuphupha, kodwa kufuneka ufune! Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kuyimfuneko ukwenza ubuncinci amanyathelo ephupha lakho. Indlela yokubeka umgomo kwaye uphumelele impumelelo, kwaye iya kuxutyushwa ngezantsi.
Into ephambili yimiqathango yesicwangciso esicacileyo
Kunokwenzeka ukuzenza ngokwakho phambi kweziganeko ezibalulekileyo nokwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye abantu bazithengela ngokwabo, bathi: "Ndiyiphumelele!" Yaye ukuba inhlanhla iyamamatheka ngokukhawuleza, bacinga ukuba bayibamba ngomsila kwangaphambili. Ewe, ukuba ingazange isebenze, ithetha ukuba ayilunganga kakuhle! Abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, besoyika i-jinxing, babuyisele nabo nabo bonke abo bajikelezayo ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba lo msebenzi uya kuphumelela. Kodwa ukuba kwenzeka, kuya kuba mnandi! Nangona kunjalo, izazi zeengqondo zaseMerika, ezalandela iqela labafundi, zafika kwisigqibo esichaseneyo: abo babekulungele ukungaphumeleli kwiimviwo babengenwavuyo ngokusindiswa okungalindelekanga. Imvakalelo engafanelekiyo eyenzekayo "phambili" yaqhubeka icinezela entliziyweni ngomthwalo ongathandekiyo.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukulungelelanisa impumelelo? Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi: ukuba andidlulanga udliwano-ndlebe kulo msebenzi - yonke into, ubomi abuphumelelanga! Ukuba andiyi kuthatha indawo yokuqala kumncintiswano, ndiza kufuneka ndenze i-hara-kiri. Kwaye ukuba i-pie yanamhlanje ingaphumeleli, akuyi kuba kufuneka uvule umnyango weendwendwe - akukho nto iyakubakholisa ... Kuya kubonakala ngathi ngamaxesha afanelekileyo ukuba siyakwazi, akukho mfuneko yokuba siqokelele yonke imikhosi yethu kwaye sizalisekise ngempumelelo izicwangciso zethu. Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni ekwenzeni? Enyanisweni, sininzi kakhulu sifuna into, thina, njengengqungquthela nge-Stirlitz, "sisondele ekungaphumeleli, kunanini ngaphambili." Amandla amaninzi aya kuphazamiseka, ukonakalisa kakhulu ukwesaba impazamo ekhoyo.
Nangona kunjalo, amathuba okuphumelela kumntu ongenamdla kumsebenzi wakhe ncinane. Kakade, oku kuqondakala ngakumbi kwaye kunokwenza ukucacisa - akukho nwabisa, inzala, inzondelelo ... Nantsi umphumo awufi.
Ngubani na onokubeka lula umgomo kwaye uphumelele? Ngubani ofumana ithuba lokuphumelela? Lowo ufuna ukuphumelela, kodwa ngaphakathi kwinyani. Lowo ongayi kuwufezekisa nayiphi na indleko, uya "kwizidumbu". Lowo ongayi kukulibala ngokuzihlonela yena kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umphumo wobuchule bakhe, nangona angathanda ukugqiba ngempumelelo ishishini, efumene zonke iinjongo ezinxulumene nalo. Iimeko ezinjalo zengqondo zibizwa ngokuba yenzululwazi "enkulu yezinto ezikhuthazayo". Ngamanye amagama, ngoncedo lwe-motivation moderation, sinokufikelela kwisiphumo esikhulu. Oku kulungele ukukhunjulwa naliphi na isigqibo sokuthatha nayiphi na ibalulekileyo ibhizinisi.
Amaqhinga? Ba libale!
Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa i-sandwich ayisoloko iwa ngeoli. Ngamanye amaxesha (kunye nokuchaneka, malunga nesiqingatha seemeko) bahla ioli ukuya phezulu! Ayikho inzululwazi, iinombolo eziqhelekileyo kunye nenkolelo enokwenzeka. Unokuzijonga ngokwakho. Yaye izigqibo ziya kuba luncedo kuwe nangomso wobomi. Inyani kukuba yinto yemvelo kwimithetho yeemathematika ukuba ayisebenze kuphela ngokubhekiselele ekuhlaleni isanti. Umlinganiselo wenhlanhla kunye nokungaphumeleli kwimpilo yethu yemihla ngemihla iphinda ibe malunga namaqondo alinganayo. Ngoko ukuba unethamsanqa ngokukodwa, unako ukuthatha ithuba kule ngqungquthela ukuze wenze enye ibalulekileyo ebhizinisini, kodwa ngekamva kuya kuba neengqiqo ukuyeka. Vumela iqela leenhlanhla lichaphazele ezinye iziganeko ezingabalulekanga. Kungcono ukufumana imvula emvula okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumtya, kunokuba ungaphumeleli kwiintengiso ezinkulu okanye ukutshata ungaphumeleli. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe: ebomini akukho nhlanhla engapheliyo. Indlela efanelekileyo kunye neyona ndlela ephumelelayo yokuphumeza ukuphumelela kukusekela injongo kwaye ukhethe ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuphumeza isicwangciso.
Kholelwa kuwe - yonke into iya kulungiswa!
Kukho indaba endala yaseMpumalanga malunga nebhinki owayesaba bonke abantu. Iwididi yababonisa intlonelo kwi-hare kwaye yayijika ibe yingonyama. Kodwa ... inkosi entsha esandula eyenziwa yinyama yaqhubeka ifihla kwi-fox neempisi kwaye yayisenokuba yincinci. Ukuphelisa: ngamanye amaxesha ukujonga kwangaphakathi kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokwenyaniso. Iyintoni inzuzo? Eyona ngqo. Singaqala ukwenza ngoku, singalindelanga ukuphumelela kwangempela impumelelo enkulu, njengokungathi uye wahamba nathi ixesha elide. Ngaba ufuna ukuba ngumntu onokulungele konke? Emva koko uyeke ukuhamba ngombono wokuxolisa ngonaphakade, bubula buhlungu kwaye ugobe phantsi kobunzima beengxaki. Nomaphi lapho uya khona - eofisini, kwintlanganiso yabazali okanye kwisitoreli sezambatho - kubonakala esidlangalaleni ngolu hlobo ngathi ufike izolo e-Concorde ukusuka eParis okanye ufumene i-Oscar ngendima enkulu yabesifazane. Umfanekiso kunye nemikhwa yomntu ophumelelayo ithambekele ekutsaleni inhlanhla, njengemethini. Yaye uya kubona - iziganeko ezivuya ngokwenene aziyi kukugcina ulinde!
Utshintsho lwendalo: misela umyinge wemali
Ukwenza isigqibo sokuqalisa indlela ekhokelela ekuphumeleleni, akufanele nanini ukulibala ukuba le ndlela yendlela. Zizikhethele ukuba yintoni kanye kwaye uzimisele kangakanani ukutshintshanisa iziqephu zokunqoba. Ubukhulu balezi zigaba zihlala zihambelana neendleko. Ngokomzekelo, akunakwenzeka ukwenza umsebenzi odibanisayo, ehleli eofisini esuka kwifowuni ukuya kwifowuni kwaye ngaphandle kwesazela sonyango esinyamekela unyango lomntwana. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ube ngumcebisi ontle kwiimeko ezinjalo. Awunakubukeka umangalisa xa ungakulungele ukuvuka ekuseni kusenzela i-hairdo kunye nokugqibelela, ngokuhlwa, kunokuba ufunde incwadi yakho oyintandokazi, wenze iimpahla zokuhlamba izandla kunye neiparafini, kwaye ukhuthazele ukuhlanjululwa kunye ne-cellulite massage kunye ne-epilation ngeveki. Kodwa unokufumana umfanekiso ophantsi kwindleko kwaye ugcine imbonakalo enhle ngaphandle kwengxaki enkulu. Kwaye njalo. Kufuneka uqikelele umlinganiselo wempumelelo ekulindelekileyo, ubale iindleko kwaye uqale ukunyuka kwakho phezulu. Emva koko uza kuphumelela - kwaye usethe iinjongo uze uphumelele impumelelo!
Vumela imfihlo ibonakale!
Dlala umdlalo ngomthandi wakho! Zama ukuzalisekisa iiminqweno zomfihlelo zabanye. Umdlalo awugcini nje ukuphakamisa umoya, kodwa uqinisa ubuhlobo.
• Yilowo nalowo makabhale ngokuzimeleyo uluhlu lwezinto abathanda ukuzenza kwiqabane lawo. Faka ngaphakathi kuye yonke into ongeke uyithabathe ukuyibuza.
• Qhathanisa uluhlu lwakho ngokuwafunda omnye ngexesha. Ukuba uziva ungakhululekile, ukuvakalisa zakho iiminqweno, zitshintshanisa uluhlu.
• Emva kokuthelekisa uluhlu, ukutshintshana kunye neqabane lakho iimvakalelo kunye nokubonakala kwakho, xubusha iinkcukacha. Nika imihla yokuzaliseka kweminqweno.
• Ukufezekisa iminqweno yesiqingatha sakho, sithathe ngokubalulekileyo, bonisa ubulumko. Zama ukuthatha ingqondo yakho kuzo zonke iingcamango, zithande!