Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukulala?

Kungekudala, kukho ukuthambekela ngendlela umntwana alala ngayo ebhedeni elinye nabazali bakhe. Oku kuyimvelo kumncinci, xa umama kubo ungumthombo wokutya, ukufudumala nokuthandana. Nangona kunjalo, xa umntwana ekhula kancinci, kungcono ukuba sele elele ngenye indlela. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana osetyenziselwe ukulala ecaleni komama wakhe wenqaba ukulala yodwa. Unokumfundisa njani ukuba alale kwisibhedlele?


Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba loo ngxaki ingavela phambi kwalabazali, abavela ekuzalweni, bafundise umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo. Kodwa ngabazali, umntwana ajwayele ukulala nawo, unokufuna ixesha elininzi kunye nomzamo. Indlela efanelekileyo kukufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ngokuthe ngcembe.

Lilixesha elihle lokuqala ukwenza oku? Phantse kwixesha lesigama sonyaka, xa ungadingi ukutya okuninzi ebusuku kwaye umntwana uqala ukujika ephupheni, uzama ukuthatha indawo ekhululekile, unokuqhubeka. Ngelo xesha livumelekile ukuba ufundise umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo kwaye unyaka kunye neyemva.

Ukuba ngaba abazali banquma ukuba baya kufundisa umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo, kufuneka bahambisane nesigqibo. Ngethuba loqeqesho, ngokungaqhelekanga unikezele kumntwana kwaye amnike ukuba alale nabazali bakhe, ngaphandle koko uqeqesho luya kuphumelela.

Okokuqala, umntwana kufuneka abekwe ubusuku bonke ukuze alele ixesha. Ukulala kufuneka kukhonjiswe uhlobo oluthile lwesithethe, okufuneka kwenziwe njalo imihla. Isithethe esifanayo singaba lullaby, ukusilalisa, iindaba zobomi bobusuku, ukukhwabanisa amathoyizi ozithandayo, ukubukela imifanekiso kunye nemifanekiso, njl. Ngokwesiko, yonke into iya kuyenza, into ephambili kukuba kufuneka ihlaziye kwaye ayifanele ibe yinde kakhulu (ixesha elifanelekileyo li-10-15 imizuzu).

Ngokukhawuleza emva kwesithethe, ufanele uhlale nomntwana ade alele, emva koko abazali bafanele bahambe ebhedini. Ukuba umntwana usukuma, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuza kwaye uyilawule, kodwa ungayifaki imibhede yayo. Emva kokuba umntwana elele ulele - kufuneka uhambe kwakhona. Ukuba umntwana uvuka ngokukhawuleza, ke ithuba phakathi kokubiza kwakhe unina kunye nendlela ahamba ngayo kwisibhedlele kufuneka sonyuka ngokukhawuleza, ngasinye sichaza umntwana ukuba abazali basondele kwaye abesabi nto. Ekuqaleni kwexesha lokufundisa, umntwana uyavuswa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa njengoko isetyenziselwa iyahamba, uze umntwana afunde ukulala ngoxolo ubusuku bonke.

Eyona nto inceda ekusebenziseni umntwana ukuba alale ngokwahlukileyo, indlela "yokufaka endaweni" yomama, xa, ukuba unina kufuneka ahambe, uyishiya, eshiye umdlalo wakhe ozithandayo aze athi into enjenge "bunny, jonga ngamehlo ngelixa ndingasondelanga." Ekubuyiseni umdlalo kufuneka ubulelwe "ngongamela". Kancinci, umntwana usetyenziselwa ukulala ecaleni kwesitokisi, oko kukubonakalisa ukunyamekelwa ngumama kunye nokufudumala.

Ukuba umntwana ulala egumbini elilodwa, ngokoyika ukulahlekelwa ngumama kunokubandezeleka ngenxa yokwesaba ubumnyama. Ukunceda umntwana akhuphe olu loyiko, abazali bangalala ixesha elilodwa kwigumbi elinye, ukuze umntwana aphiliswe, ukuba akukho ngozi. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona isibane kule njongo.

Abanye abazali benza oku: - linda de kube umntwana elele embhedeni wakhe, emva koko amthabathe etaweni. Ukuba umntwana uyabakhathalela ukungabi nako kwabazali, umntwana ukhululile, kuya kukwazi ukusebenzisa le ndlela.

Ziziphi ezinye iindlela zokufundisa umntwana ukuba alale kwisikhumba? U-Odnozhenschina wasungula le ndlela ngengozi. Xa wagqiba ekubeni umntwana ahlukane ngokwahlukileyo, wabiza isikhalazo ngentombi yakhe. Ikhefu lafakwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa umatila phantsi kwalo wawulibaziseka. Umama wayevame ukuxelela le ntombazana ukuba yayiza kulala ngokumangalisayo embhedeni wakhe, nje ngomntu omdala, xa umatshini ekugqibeleni wanikelwa, intombazana yona yacela ukuba ilale embhedeni wayo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukulindela into enomdla kunokuba luncedo olukhulu kulo mbandela wokufundisa umntwana ukuba alele ebhedeni lakhe.

Inqaku lokugcina lamama: thembela iimvakalelo zakho, kuba nawuphi na umama ovakalelwa yinto engcono kumntwana wakhe. Yenza ngokwale mvakalelo, kwaye ukulungiswa komntwana kwisibhedlele kuya kudlula ngokulula kwaye kungenabuhlungu.