Indlela yokuhlala yedwa

Xa uThixo wagxothisa abantu bokuqala e-Eden, wabathumela elinye i-vice-loneliness.

Akusiyo sonke esilungelelanayo ngokusesikweni isisombululo, kungekhona nanye esenzekayo, ebomini bomntu - ingxaki. Xa sifika kweli lizwe, kubalulekile ukuba siqonde umehluko phakathi kwento yokonwaba kunye noluncedo lokwenene. Akunjalo njalo into efanayo: kwenzeka ngathi - ukuhlala yedwa, umntu akaziva elolo. Ngethuba lokulondeka, kunokuphelelwa lithemba ngokupheleleyo, okubangela ukuba kudala uxinzelelo kunye nokunganakwa, kwaye kwezinye iimeko, ugonyamelo.

Kwaye ke, ushiywe yedwa, njengoko ihlabathi lonke lifuna ukubeka ityala kwaye likhwaza: "Abantu, niya kuthiwa yinto emele yinto yonke!" Kodwa, isizathu sokulondeka sihlala kuphela kumntu ngamnye. Ukufunda ukufumana uluntu, kufuneka uqonde ngokuchanekileyo, ukuphulaphule, yintoni esiyikhoyo. Zama ukuzalisa le galeko. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba umntu onesizungu ongenamsebenzi ukucebisa ukuya kwiklabhu aze azi umngane okanye intombi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhlolisise ngokucacileyo loo niche engabandakanyiyo yendalo eyinkimbinkimbi yokuzithoba, ngaphandle koko isenzo esingahambelani nxamnye nesiphumo esingafanelekiyo singakhokelela ekuchaseni ngokupheleleyo. Xa umntu ekhangela into engeyonto ayinayo, kwaye kwaye uzama ukufaka isicelo ebomini bakhe-ke umphumo obulindelekileyo awuyi kuba. Kwaye ukunyaniseka kwandisa ngakumbi. Kwaye konke-kuyimfuneko-ukulandela indlela efanelekileyo kwaye ufumane iindlela ezichanekileyo zokusombulula uxolo lwabo.

Yonke into eyahlukileyo kangangokuba umntu onesizungu uyimeko yokuthuthuzela, kodwa kumntu kunzima kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, isizungu asinayo ingxaki, kodwa ukhetho lomntu wonke. Mhlawumbi umntu olungileyo yedwa - ithuba lokusebenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye uzive engcono. Loo mntu akavumelekanga ukuba axhumane naye, akafanele athotyelwe ukuba azi kakuhle kwaye wandise isangqa sazana naye. Ukunceda nokuxazulula ubunyulu njengengxaki kuyimfuneko kuphela kwabangenakulinganiswa nenkampani.

Umntu uyaba yedwa xa engayiqondi ukusetyenziswa kobudlelwane bakhe nabanye. Phantse bonke abantu bexesha elifanelekileyo lobomi babecala. Ukubandezeleka ekubeni yedwa kuyinto yokungaqhelekanga kolwazi okanye ukubonakala. Indlela yokusinda yedwa yinto ephambili ukuqonda ulwazi kunye nokubonakala, luhlobo luni lomntu olungekhoyo. I-Tactile indlala (thintela, ukunxibelelana ngokomzimba) kule meko kungcono ukuya kumbuthano womdaniso okanye irejista kwinkambo yokubamba i-massage, ayikho imibala enamandla eqaqambileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuya kwindawo yokudlala. I-TV kule meko ayinqatshelwe - kuba ubunyulu buzithelekisa kwabanye. Xa sibone ubuhle obuvela ebomini obuhle, sisoloko silahlekelwa ngumdla kwihlabathi elisijikelezayo, sizibeka kwindawo yedwa. Ngenxa yoko, kulandelelana ukuba isilingo sokulondeka kukungaqiniseki ebomini nasekuziphatheni, okukhokelela ekukhuseleni abanye abantu ukuze bangagwetywa. Kule meko, akuyimfuneko ukunxibelelana, ukufunda, nokuphucula ngokukhawuleza ukuzithemba kwangaphakathi. Kwaye ngenxa yokungabikho koqhagamshelwano kunye nokuzithemba, kwawa ngakumbi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lokulondeka, iimvakalelo zivela ngenxa yokungabi nampawu okanye iimpawu zomzimba, ukungathandabuzeki komntu, kwaye ngenxa yoko - ukuhlazeka okanye ukwesaba ukuthotywa xa uzama ukuqhagamshelana. Ngako oko ubuchule obuphantsi ekuxazululeni iimeko zokungqubana kwabantu.

Ngoko, uvakalelo lwentlanzi yinto yokuqala yokubiza ukuba ingqibelelo yangaphakathi yenkqubo yethu yaphulwa. Uxhala lunokunika ithuba lokufunda indlela yokulungisa iimpazamo zakho ngokwakho, ukuqondisa ubomi bakho ngendlela efanelekileyo.