Amaxesha amaninzi kunye namaxinzelelo malunga neziganeko kunokukhokelela kwinto efana noxinezelo, leyo leyo isenza isiseko semvakalelo efana nokuxhalaba, ukukhathazeka nokucaphuka. Konke oku akuyona ndlela efanelekileyo yokuchaphazela umzimba. Ikhono lomgwebo ogqityiweyo linyamalale, ngoko ke, nayiphi na, nokuba yinto engabalulekanga, ibonakala ibonakala ingxaki enkulu kwaye ingenakukhutshwa. Kwakhona kubonakala ngokugqithiseleka komsindo. Ukuze ugweme le meko, ungazama ukulandela imigaqo elandelayo.
Xa ubamba.
Izithuthi zihamba phambi kwamehlo akho, kwaye ukufika kwalowo olandelayo kuyaziwa. Inani labantu abalindele ukuthutha landa. Uvakalelwa kukuba ukuphefumula kwakho kuya rhoqo, kwaye ubushushu buza kuphuma.
Njani?
- Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukushiya ibandla labantu abalindileyo, kuba abantu abangaphezu kwabo abanomdla ongekho phantsi kwabo banokubakhokela. Gcoba phantsi, uthathe umoya okhululekileyo uze unqame ukulinda, ukhangele kude kwaye ulinde ibhasi ukuba ibonakale.
- Kufanelekile ukucinga ngezinto ezintle, umzekelo, khawucinge ngabantu, mhlawumbi ingubo yomntu izakukhangela, okanye ubukele uhlobo, luhlala luhle.
- Ndiphinda ndiphinde ndibhale inqaku: "Uphi ibhasi! Akakho! Yintoni oyenzayo! Akayi kuhamba! ", Ngoko uziva nje iingxaki zakho, kwaye kule ndawo ithutho ayiyi kukhawuleza. Yaye ukuba amehlo akho awela kwindawo engena kwindawo apho ibhasi ibonakala khona, phinda ngokwengqondo "Ekugqibeleni kuyahamba!". Emva koko, naziphi na iingcinga zizinto eziphathekayo.
Ukuba ulibaziseka.
Awuqapheli ukuba ixesha elikhawulezayo libaleka ngehora. Ukungaphumeleli ngexesha lokubonakala kwindawo ethile. Akukho zizathu zokulondoloza. Akukho ukulibazisa kwibhasi, okanye ezindleleni - awukwazi ukugcinwa.
Njani?
- Xa ucwangcisa i-aphoyintimenti, soloko u lumkisa ukuba ungahlala ixesha elide. Kwizixeko ezinkulu, oku kubonwa njengesiqhelo. Xa uhlela intlanganiso, zama ukukhetha indawo onokuyilindela. Ngokomzekelo, gwema ukunikezela indawo ezifana nesitalato, ukulinda ixesha elide ebandayo okanye phantsi kwelanga elivuthayo alikho kakuhle. Makube kwindawo efana ne cafe okanye ivenkile kwimeko yengxamiseko.
- Ngokukhawuleza, zama ukuzincama. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba usuphelile, isiphelo sehlabathi asiyi kwenzeka. Ukunganeliseki komntu elinde wena kulindele wena. Yaye le nto ayiyona nto ebalulekileyo, ngenxa yoko kufuneka ukhathazeke kwaye uphawule inkqubo yakho yeentlanzi.
- Ukuba kukho inketho apho unokutshintsha iimeko zokuhlala, sebenzisa oku. Umzekelo, fowuni iteksi, okanye uyibambe kwisitrato, ngoko unokunciphisa ixesha lokufika. Amathunga abaluleke kakhulu kunanoma yimaphi imali.
Uyacaphuka.
Kwi-sashier esitolo kwakungekho tshintsho, kunye neengxelo zakho zebhanki, kwaye, yabona, kukunikezele ingxaki yonke kwisihloko sabantu abangenayo imali encinci. Kwibhasi okanye nasiphi na isithuthi, waxoshwa, wahamba, wamemeza emva kwakho. Uziva ngathi igazi liza entloko, kwaye ubilisa nje ngomsindo.
Njani?
- Thatha ukuphefumula okukhulu ukuze uphinde uphumelele. Hlaziya yonke imisipha emzimbeni wakho. Cinga ngcamango indlela ovulekileyo ngayo isimo esinokufudumala.
- Unokubalwa kwi-oda elandelelweyo, umzekelo, ukususela kwi-100 ukuya kwe-1. Oku kuthobisa.
- Cinga ngezihlandlo ezimnandi ebomini bakho, uze uphephe entloko yakho kwakhona.
- Cinga ngendawo apho uhlale ukhululekile kwaye uzinzile. Mhlawumbi lu lolwandle, okanye ivenkile epaki.
Xa uziva ukuba ucaphukile.
Kwizothutho enye, ixhamle isihlwele sabantu, ihlala ihlala kwindawo yokuhlala. Isiseko salokhu kukuphulwa kwesithuba somntu. Inyaniso kukuba kwiingqondo zeso sikhombisi njengesithuba esiseduze, esiyi-10 centimeters. Ukuba umntu ongenasizathu aphule lo mmandla, ngoko kwinqanaba elincinci lithathwa njengento enobubi.
Njani?
- Unokucinga ngomngcele ongenakunqandeka okwahlula kunye nomdlali wakho.
- Ungangenanga ngokucatshulwa. Cinga ngento ethile.
- Kukho izinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-vampires zamandla ezithi zihlawulwe kwiinkalo zengxabano. Ngenxa yoko, bahlala becaphukisa. Ngomnqweno ngomntu onjalo impilo kunye nolonwabo.
Bavavanya imizwa yakho.
Eerily ngasekupheleni, ukhangele umfanekiso wendlela i-ofisi yomnini-cashier izalisa ngayo iifom kwaye ixhomekeke kwifowuni kubangaphandle. Ngokucacileyo udlala kwimisipha yakho.
Njani?
- Cinga malunga nokuba ufuna ukuziva uvakalelwa ngaloo ntombazana.
- Zama ukuncinisa uxhalaba.
- Mthandayo impilo kwaye konke okusemgangathweni. Mhlawumbi le nto ayenayo ebomini.