Umbhali uzame ukutyhila zonke iimfihlelo zamandla ebhinqa phezu komntu. Naliphi na ibhinqa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ufuna ukufunda iindlela zokutsala kunye nokugcina into efanelekileyo kwaye ifanelekileyo indoda yakhe. Kwakhona, ngokwenene ndifuna ukumnxusa lo mntu unomdla wokwenene. Ndiyazibuza ukuba kukho indlela ethile yokuxhaphaza ingqondo yomntu. Iingcali zengqondo zithi kukho iindlela ezinjalo, kwaye ngamnye umfazi angayisebenzisa.
Ebomini kukho abafazi abahlukeneyo kunye nabafazi abazithobileyo, kunye "nabazingeli". Akukho mfazi kwihlabathi omele ahlale elololiwe ebusuku kwaye azilalele ukuba kutheni yedwa. "Umzingeli" wangempela akayi kumshiya umyeni wakhe okanye uya kuhlala ejikelezwe ngabalandeli. Ungakwazi ukulawula amadoda angcono, kodwa oku kufuneka uguqule ukucinga kwakho, ngoko unokuziva ukuba kulula kakhulu kwaye kunjalo. Ngobudlelwane nomntu, kufuneka umnike into ayengayifumana kwabanye. Ukulawula abameli abangcono kakhulu besondo esinamandla xa kunokwenzeka ukuba umfazi ungayifumana kwisangqa somntu. Kule meko, ayinandaba nokuba umntu uza kumphatha njani umfazi. Ngomatshini walo ungatshintshwa naliphi na ixesha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ibhinqa likwazi ukukhawuleza kwakhona lize lizame ukuzenza imodeli nayiphi na indima evela kumama onomusa kwi-courtesan enobuncwane.
Amandla yinto enhle nekhohlisa. Emva kokuyifumana, intombazana ngokukhawuleza iyaqonda ukuba ayinanto okanye idalli engenanto, kodwa inqoqo yeentliziyo zabantu. Ngaba umfazi unokufunda ukuyala amadoda angcono kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko, okokuqala, ibhinqa lifanele libe lingenakunyaniseki kwaye litshatile. Abantu abaninzi banalo uluvo lokuba abafazi banokufumana ezi mpawu kuphela ngokwemvelo. Izibonelo ezininzi zibonisa ukuba ungafunda oku. Indoda ingakwazi ukuthobela kuphela abo bafazi abafuna ukunandipha ubomi bokuzonwabisa. Ukwenza oku, umfazi kufuneka aqonde kakuhle ulwimi lomzimba, usethe kwakhona zonke iingxaki kwaye ukhule ngokwakho ukuzithemba ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa okokuqala kufuneka ukhulule umfazi oyinyaniso kunye nomzimba. Ezi ngxaki zixhalaba kubo bonke abafazi. Umnqweno wokunqoba abantu, ukuze baxakeke ezinyaweni, yinto yemvelo kubo bonke abesifazana besintu. Amandla phezu komntu uya kunceda ukufezekisa kuphela uthando, kodwa uvuyo lwabantu.
Ngokucacileyo, isixhobo esikhulu samadoda "esixhobo", esiza kuqinisekisa ukubayisa, ubuhle bentombi kunye nokukwazi ukukhohlisa. Okokuqala kufuneka ufunde indlela yokukhawuleza, inqabileyo kwaye ingenakuphikiswa. Okokuqala kufuneka ukhethe i-wardrobe efanelekileyo, uze usebenze ngeenwele uze wenze, uhlalutye indlela oziphatha ngayo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, ufunde ulwimi lwezandla kunye nokuziphatha, kwaye usebenze ngemikhwa. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqala "kokuhlaselwa" ibhinqa kufuneka lifumane inkolelo ecacileyo yokuba konke oku kufezekileyo kwaye uyindlovukazi oyinyaniso ngamaphupha kunye nenene. Okokuqala-ntokazi kufuneka ibe yinto enomdla kubantu. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uchaze "amakhodi enxilongo".
"Iintonga" ziyi-parameters yesibalo, ukubonakala kunye nemikhwa, enokuziqhayisa ngayo kwaye ubonise loo ndoda. Ezi "trumps" kufuneka "ziphoqele" amadoda, ekuboneni ibhinqa, zithi: "Mhlekazi! "Ezi ngxaki ziza kufuneka zikhishwe ngobuchule kwaye zingabonakali loo mntu ukuba ubuthathaka bakhe. Oku kulula, nangona kukho imigaqo yamanani kuya kufuneka ilandelwe:
1. Kubalulekile ukunyamekela ukuba zonke i "trumps" zokubhenkcezwa kwabasetyhini zinikezelwa ngempumelelo;
2. Ukusilela kufuneka kufihliwe kwaye ungabonakali ubuthathaka;
3. Kubalulekile ukuvuselela ukucinga komntu;
4. Ipropati ephambili yowesifazane ibheno lakhe ngesondo. Yonke intokazi kufuneka ifunde indlela yokuzikhohlisa kwaye ingenakuphikiswa. Ngamafutshane, ukuba abe ngumfazikazi wenene weentliziyo.
Umntu onqotyisiweyo kunye onokutshatyalaliswa angenza izinto ezintle kwaye ezingalindelekanga. Ukuze ulawule, okokuqala kufuneka 'uthathe' ingqondo yakhe. Kukho iindlela ezilula kunye ezingenakuqhelaniswa zokukhohlisa, kodwa ukunyenga rhoqo kukubonakalisa umzimba ongenalutho. Ngendlela, abakhisholi bathi bangekho iingubo ezingenako ukuzenza. Ngokomzekelo, uhlobo olulula kwaye lusebenza kakhulu lweengubo yengubo. Kubonakala ngathi le yinto nje yengubo yokugqoka esetyenzisiweyo kwixesha elibandayo, kodwa umfazi okhaliphile unokuthabatha isambatho esinjalo esiya kugxininisa ngokucacileyo isibalo sakhe esifanelekileyo kwaye ambonise imilenze ende, enye yekhadi lamacilongo yowesifazane. Ingubo ye "mzingeli" kufuneka iqhutywe, kwaye ngenxa yezinto ezinzulu ezibonakalayo umntu uyakwazi ukubona imilenze yakhe enhle neyincinci. Isicwangciso "sokukhohlisa" sisigaba sokuqala sokunqoba komntu, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ibhinqa ifuna ukunqoba indoda, kufuneka ibe nesibindi kwaye ungabi nokwesaba izenzo ezishukumisayo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukubonakaliswa kweentlobo zesini kubonisa ubukho kwintombi into encinci, kunye nomoya wokwenyuka. Ngokubhekiselele kumfazi okwazi "ukuzithoba", impumelelo iya kuxhomekeka.
Ewe, isifuba esihle nesinqe esincinci akuzona izinto eziza kunceda abesifazana bazuze indoda. Nangona kunjalo, naluphi na ubuhle lungcono ngengqondo! Kukho imizekelo embalwa apho abafazi abangabonakaliyo nabangenangqondo "benza iintambo" ngaphandle kwamadoda. Abasetyhini abanjalo basebenzisa ezinye "iikhala zamacilongo" -engqondo, ubulumko namava. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga, kuphela amadoda angamangalelwa ekuqaleni kwemfazwe. Isibhamu saseMakarov okanye isibhamu saseKalashnikov sisisombululo samadoda kuphela. Kodwa ebomini bokwenene, umdlalo owonyukisayo ukhokelwa ngabasetyhini abangayazi into embi ngemicimbi yempi okanye kwisixhobo samkhosi. Nangona kukho i-trophy, ophumeleleyo ufumana umntu obalaseleyo kwihlabathi.