1. Ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi ngokuchanekileyo ukukrazula. Ukuba uqonda ukuba awukwazi ukunceda ummelwane wakho, vele uzibandakanye kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa uvakalelwa kukuba ungakhululekile.
2. Ukuze angabi nzakonakalisa ngokupheleleyo, yena kunye naye makangaphambukeli kwintsindiso, njengokungena emanzini ngokukhala komntu ocolileyo, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba bayazi ukuba bahambi. Kungenzeka ukuba amandla ommangaliso aya kukuthatha zombini, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba uya kudibana.
3. Cinga ngendlela onokuyenza kube lula ngayo umntu ogulayo. Chaza ukuba awuyena umlingo, kodwa ufunde kuphela - kwaye ungathembisi ukumsindisa, kodwa uchaze umbono wakho wengxaki-mhlawumbi, uncedo. Usebenzise iseshoni yengqondo kunye naye. I-Amateur, eqinisweni, ukusuka kwigama elithi uthando. Emva kwakho konke, umntu ongamthandiyo akakwazi ukuzisa inzuzo yangempela.
Iworkshop yokuqala yefestile. Ukuthuthuzela umntu akunzima kakhulu. Kule nto uyidingayo: Ngenyameko kwaye uyiphulaphule kakuhle. Ukuthetha, khala kumntu okhuthaza ukuzithemba - oku kuphela yiletha ukukhutshwa. "Isigulane" sinokukwazi ukuqonda oko akufunayo. Masiyeke umntu olwaziyo ukuba akaye yedwa kweli hlabathi. Nika imizekelo yendlela oku kwenzeka ngayo kubahlobo bakho, nokuba bhetele - indlela owake wajamelana ngayo nengxaki efanayo. "I-Pierrot ebuhlungu" idla ngokungena kwixesha elikhoyo: kubonakala ngathi ubomi buhlulekile kwaye akukho nto iya phambili. Ukunceda ummelwane wakhe, kukufanele ukukhumbuze ngetyebi elidluleyo - "Ndiya kuthi ke, ungalibali! Kwaye yonke into iya kuvela, oku akuyona nje iqela eliphumeleleyo. " Ekugqibeleni, ningagxininisi ekubandezelekeni, kodwa kwiingongoma ezithile "zeprogram yokunqoba ingxaki." Izenzo zangempela zixhalabisa. Ukuba umnxibelelwano unomyalelo ngeendlela ezihlekisayo, unokumlungisa "ukuhleka".
Ukuncedisa ukufumana uhlangothi oluhle kwiimeko, ukuzisa "ukukhupha" ukuya kwindawo yokungazi. Emva koko, umntu onokusihleka ubunzima bakhe, sele eqala ukuwunqoba.
Umphili, waphilisa. Ukuze ungalimazi ngokupheleleyo kwaye uzenzele, ulandele ezinye ze-psychoanalysis yakho efanelekileyo. Kutheni ufuna u kunceda abanye? Ukusuka kwi-self-assertion: ukuziva ulungile kakhulu; ukunceda abantu, uya kuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwakho.
Ukuzincama: xa iyona nto ibhetele, kunye nomntu ombi kwaye onzima, uzive ungakhululekile. Ukusuka kwintliziyo yokubulela: abaninzi baye balahla ingxaki ethile, bazinikele ekuncedeni abazalwana kwimeko yangaphambili yentlekele. Ukusuka kwiminqweno yokwabelana ngamava: uyazi into - kwaye kuyimfuneko kumnye umntu. Ihlala ikwazi ukuzibona kwaye ukwandisa inani elihle ehlabathini. Ukunceda ummelwane wakho ngempumelelo, musa ukunyamezela intlungu yakhe ngomonde: bathi, zonke iingxaki zakho ziyizatha. Musa ukukhawuleza ngokugqiba iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso. "Ndiya kutshabalalisa iingxaki zabanye ngezandla zam" akusiyo imigaqo ebalulekileyo.