Ukuncelisa , kungekuphela kokutya umntwana, luhlobo lomntu ongabonakaliyo kunye nomama ongumntwana. Emva kwakho konke, xa umfazi ebeka umntwana esifubeni sakhe, umntwana usuvakala ngephunga kunye nokuthintela, kwaye oku kukukwenza uzive ukhuselekile. Ngethuba esesesibelethweni, inyane liyakhumbula umama wakhe, kwinqanaba elincinci, ngokuvumba, ilizwi. Akukho nto, nangona umntwana omncinci athatha umfokazi kwizandla zakhe, uqala ukukhala, kwaye xa umntwana esesandleni sikayise, uyacima. Lo ngumzekelo ongcono kakhulu wokuba i-subconscious yomntwana ayiyinto eyimfihlakalo. Kukho imizekelo engapheliyo yale mizekelo, kodwa le nto ayiyona nto, kubaluleke kakhulu, umama uyazi ukuba umntwana ufuna ntoni kwaye unokunika yonke into eyimfuneko.
Iimeko ezintle zengqondo zithetha ngezibonelelo zokuncelisa. Ekubeni ubisi lwebele lubona "mveliso" efanelekileyo kwaye iluncedo ekunceliseni iintsana . Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, nayiphi na umsebenzi isisu somntwana esisandul 'isisu, ekuqaleni kwekhondo lobomi, asinakugqithisa ubuhlungu. Ekubeni izitho zangaphakathi zeintsana azikakulungiswa kwinkqubo enzima kangaka. Emva koko, xa umntwana ezalwa, yonke imisebenzi yenziwa yinkqubo yokugaya umama. Umntwana ufumene zonke izinto eziyimfuneko kunye neengxenye kwi-placenta, kwaye ngoku yonke umsebenzi kufuneka uyenze ngunyana ngokwakhe. Kodwa izitho zintsana azizalwanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye zithinteka kalula kwizinto eziyingozi. Ukukhusela iziphumo ezimbi, umama kufuneka anakekele isondlo sakhe, kuba ngexesha lokuncelisa ibhinqa ibhinqa lidla amabini, ngokokuthi umama uyidla, kunjalo na umntwana.
Unina ongumongikazi kufuneka alandele ukutya, ngokukodwa kwiinyanga zokuqala emva kokubeletha. Emva koko, kongeza kwinto yakho yokutya entsha. Izinto ezisetyenzisiweyo, izinto ezincinci kunye nezixhobo ezincinci, amaminerali kunye nokunye kufuneka ukuba zibe yimimandla eyimfuneko yesondlo sesondlo samanina. Ukutya ezahlukeneyo kuya kunika yonke into efunekayo. Imifuno, iziqhamo, iimveliso zobisi ezimuncu, inyama, intlanzi. Kungcono ukupheka yonke into yeso sibini, siya kusindisa i-cholesterol eyongeziweyo kwaye ulondoloze i-vithamine ngaphezulu. Kubalulekile ukukhuphela zonke iintlobo zokutya okutshayiweyo, kuba zinokubangela ukuphendulwa komzimba.
Ehlabathini lanamhlanje, i-ecology iyashiya into enqwenelekayo, isiphumo sokunyuka kwamazinyane kwiintsana. Ukuze uphephe isifo esinjalo, kucetyiswa ukuba ungabhubhisi umphendulelo, kwaye ungasebenzisi ukutya okunjalo njengama-strawberries, njengokuba kungangowamangalisa, ubisi olunomlilo, iziqhamo ezingakhula ezweni lakho. Ekubeni izinto ezisengozini zisetyenziselwa ukuthutha iimveliso ezinokutsha.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, wonke umama uyazi into ebaluleke kakhulu kumntwana, ngokungazi okanye ngokungazi kakuhle, kodwa ufuna ukukhusela umntwana kuyo yonke into. Ingaba kunxilisayo, iingxaki zasekhaya, imo okanye indawo yentlalo. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba umntwana uneminyaka engakanani, amabini okanye amabini, kuba unina umntwana uya kuhlala efana nenkwenkwana okanye intombazana ebomini. Into eyona nto kukuba ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya ekubeni ngumdala, abantwana banokuthandwa, ukunyamekela novelwano lwabazali babo.