Abanye - nabanye ubomi
Ngaba unguye kum? - Aha ... "
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Ubomi babantu buhlukile. Akukho mntu, nokuba neembono kunye neengcamango malunga nendlela yokwenza into echanekileyo, akanalo ilungelo lokuphucula, umyalelo, njalo njalo. Emva koko, eqinisweni, ebonisa "inkqubo echanekileyo" yokulungelelanisa inkqubo, umcebisi ngelo xesha kufuneka aphinde athathe uxanduva malunga nesiphumo. Isiphumo sesenzo (okanye uluhlu lwezenzo), umphumo wesigqibo okanye imfundo ... Kodwa yintoni enye? Kwaye, le nzakalo "omnye umntu", cinga - cebisa ucebise, kwaye uthathe uxanduva - alithathi! Yiyiphi i-bastard?
Nangona kunjalo, makhe sicinge ngenye imeko yansuku zonke. Umama weza kumtyelela intombi yakhe okanye ukunyamekela umzukulu wakhe ngelixa abazali abancinci beya kwindawo yokudlala. Kwaye kuza umzuzu onzima kakhulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba unina osemncinci ubonakalisa ukuzithemba okuphantsi kunye nokuzithemba kwakhe, uya kuvuma indlela yokufunda imakhulu ka-ugogo kwaye angathethi igama "ngaphesheya." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba umsebenzi wakho wenzelwe wena, yintoni uhlobo lokulawula esinokuthetha ngalo? Ndiyabulela kuphela!
Kwaye kufika umbuzo wendalo: njani ukuzithoba nokuzithemba kunye nokuphila komntu, ubomi obuyingqameneyo budibene? Emva koko, siphila thina, kwaye akukho namnye oya kubakhokela ubomi bethu ngathi!
Ubani umbono osekelwe kuwo?
Omnye uthi: "Akamhle." Omnye: "Uyingozi nje." Okwesithathu: "Akunanto nto intombazana, ejusi!" Ngubani omele akholelwe? Ngubani na omele ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba - abo abangenakunqwenela ukuvakalisa izimvo zabo okanye ngokwabo?
Kubomi bam kukho imeko ezinjalo. Ngokomzekelo, ugogo wayethetha ngokuthi: "Wonke umntu wenza oko!" Kwaye nangomdla wobutsha owawuyimpawu kum, ndathi: "Ngubani na? Ngaba uncokola naye wonke umntu owaziyo? "
Ngokuqhelekileyo, akunakuncedo ukukhankanya ingcamango. Kwaye ukuba umntu uthi wonke umntu wenza oku, okanye kule meko kunendlela eyodwa kuphela-efanelekileyo, kufuneka uzinakekele. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba uthatha imbono yomnye umntu ngokungathandabuzekiyo okanye njengowona yedwa oyinyaniso, unokufumana ukuzithemba okuphantsi kwinqanaba elinganayo kwaye ufumane oko kungathandekiyo ngexesha lethu lokungaqiniseki kuwe.
Sisiphi isiseko sokucinga ngawe, yintoni umphumo wokuzithemba?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuzithemba ngokusemgangathweni kuyinto ebalulekileyo kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi. Yingakho kubalulekile okokuqala ukuba sibone oko kuyimfuneko ukuba yenziwe. Njengomthetho, lo ngumyinge we:
- izimvo zabanye kulo mbuzo okanye lo mbuzo;
- ulwazi ngabantu abasondeleyo ngawe;
- ngendlela owenza ngayo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo;
- oko uyaziyo, uyazi njani, njani, kunye nendlela ojamelana ngayo nemisebenzi.
Ukuzithemba akuyona yolwazi lwangaphambili "nayiphi na into endiyenzayo, yonke into iya kuvela." Le yile nkcukacha yangempela, inyaniso yobomi, apho kunokwenzeka khona ukukrazula. Okwenza ngakumbi phambi kwabaphulaphuli abakhulu, ukuzithemba ngakumbi uya kuziva ngokuzayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo uyasula - ngokusondele ngakumbi kwiinkcukacha, oku kuthetha ukuba bhetele umsebenzi ogqityiweyo uya kukhangela. Ngoko ke, ngokukhulu, uxolisa kwi-pun, kunokuthiwa ukuzithemba kukuzithemba.
Uphi "umqhele"?
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sithatha ukungaqondi kakuhle kwaye siqonde iziganeko zobomi bethu. Ndenze into engazange ndiyenze ngaphambili, kwaye yavela-kwaye sithi: "Yiza, kwakungokwemvelo. Okuqhelekileyo! "
Kakade, umgaqo wesiqhelo unemiqathango. Kuyo nayiphi na intsimi, nakwi-physics. Ziziphi - "iimeko eziqhelekileyo"? Ngendlela echanekileyo ("ngokuqhelekileyo") ukuthatha isenzo kule nto okanye kwimeko - ukuhlukanisa okanye ukushiya umntwana? Kwaye ukuba ubukho kwezinye iimeko - ngaba unokusombulula ingxaki?
Ngoko kunjalo. Ukuba ubeka isiqhelo, ezo zinto zenziwa, kunye nezenzo ezingaqhelekanga zifunyenwe ngathi ngokwazo-ngoko ubomi buya kuba nzima ngakumbi. Kuvela ukuba yonke into engazange isebenze okanye ayenzekanga ngokukhawuleza, ayiyiyo ngokupheleleyo - le nto isenzo "esibi". Yintoni ephosakeleyo.
Kwakusesikolweni kuphela esibucelwa ekhaya ukuba sifunde isifundo kwaye sihluthelelwe kuyo yonke impazamo. Ebomini, kufuneka uhlaziywe, uhambele kwenye imodeli yobudlelwane nehlabathi. Iphutha liva amava aluncedo okuya kuba budenge ukuphosa. Ngoko, masizidumise ngeempazamo! Ukuze udumise kwaye ukhulise ubulumko, ukuze ulandele indlela engenayo inzuzo.
Ubomi bakho yindlela yakho
Ukunganeliseki ukwesaba ukwenza amaphutha. "Ngoku, ndiya kunyuka kuye, qalisa ukuxubha kunye ne-stutter. Uya kucinga ukuba ndingumntu oyisidenge! "Kwaye kulungile! UDura unako ukwenza nantoni na. Unelungelo lokwenza impazamo. Yaye ukuba esi si sidenge sihlakaniphile, ngoko siya kukhangela kwisiphoso njengokuba luncedo njengoko unako. Kwaye oku kuphela kwindlela efanelekileyo kuya kuphazamisa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Wow, omnye uhamba-kwaye akazange akubone, kodwa ndaqonda ukuba (a, b, c ...)
Kwaye ngaphandle koko. Kuhlala kunamandla kunabo bonke. Yaye ukuba uthe wucinga ngokucinga okulungileyo, ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba nokufumana ukuzithemba, unokuhambisa enye impawu ebalulekileyo. Awukwazi ukugxeka xa ukuzithemba kuya kuba yiqhayiya, kwaye ukuzithemba okuphezulu kukuthintela ekubeni uthathe izifundo zokuphila kwiimeko. Yaye ukuba iphantsi - unako amandla amakhulu okuphuculula ...
Yiba nawe, ujabule noko kukuthi, kodwa qaphela i-horions ezintsha - kwaye uya kuphumelela.