Igumbi lomsindo lomntwana lilungelo elungileyo apho umntwana engagqithisi kuphela, kodwa ufumanisa iingcamango ezintsha ngehlabathi, ukuvakalelwa okutsha, kwaye uhlawuliswe ngamandla kwimisebenzi esebenzayo.
Amagumbi ahloniphekileyo asungulwa ngowe-1970 eHolland. Ekuqaleni, zazisetyenziselwa kuphela iinjongo zokwelapha: kwindawo yokuphumla kwendawo yokuhlala, iiseshoni zaqhutywa kunye nezigulane ezinokukhubazeka kwengqondo kunye nabantu abanengxaki yokugula. Kwamagumbi anjalo yonke into yayicatshangelwayo: imithombo elula yobunzima obuhlukeneyo, umculo othobileyo, ama-massagers, imithombo kunye nezityalo eziphilayo. Emva kweeklasi kunye neengcali ezigumbini zengqondo, izigulana zikhawuleza zancinci, zaqala ukuziva zithembeke, zahamba ngokulula ukudibanisa nabanye.
Isinyathelo sesibini ekuphuhlisweni kwendlela yokwakhiwa kwamagumbi ezenziwayo yenziwe ngabasosayensi baseBrithani eNgamileyo. Basebenzisa lamagumbi kungekhona kuphela unyango, kodwa nokukhusela uxinzelelo kunye neurosis. Ngelo xesha, kwaqatshelwa ukuba izigulane ezincinci zithandwa ngamagumbi okuqonda. Ngaloo ndlela, ukusetyenziswa kwamagumbi okuvakala kwinjongo yokufundisa.
Ingaba yintoni igumbi lokukhathazeka lomntwana, yintoni umphumo umntwana ophu
Eli gumbi lidla ngokuba ngumlingo: nantoni zonke ziyakhupha, zikhanya kwaye zizwakala. Kulo gumbi umntwana ufunda ngokuvakalelwa. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zatshengisa ukuba abahlwempuzekileyo behlabathi abavakalelwa ngentshiseko yomntwana, ukhula ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokuziphatha kunye nokujonga, izinto ezininzi ziba. Umntwana onjalo uvale ngaphakathi kuye, kunzima ukudibanisa naye, akwazi ukuziphatha kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga.
Ukungabi ncamango kweengcinga zenzululwazi zibiza ukulamba kwindlala - kulo mntwana umntwana ufuna ukunyusa ingqalelo, ukunyamezela, ukuthintela ngokunyanisekileyo. Konke oku kunceda umntwana ukuba avule, azive efunekayo kwaye ethandwa.
Esi siphumo sinceda ukufezekisa igumbi lokubona. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ilungiselelo lezingane ezinengqondo lilula kunegumbi esikolweni okanye kwi-psychologist, kodwa kukho imithetho jikelele apha.
Ngoko ke, njani ukulungelelanisa ubuncinci?
Into ephambili ukufezekisa ezininzi iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ngokunokwenzeka. Ukulungelelanisa ngokufanelekileyo abantwana abanentsingiselo abachaphazela umntwana ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuvuselela - ukukhanya okuchukumisayo, okuchukumisayo, ukuvumba, umculo. Zama ukuqwalasela zonke izinto xa uceba igumbi labantwana.
Ukuhlakulela imbono ebonakalayo, sebenzisa imithombo yokukhanya eyahlukileyo: umkhane okhanyayo, izibani ezixubileyo, izikhanyiso zobusuku. Kulo donga, unako ukuxhoma umgca weNtsha kaNyaka - abagcini nje ukutshintsha ukukhanya, kodwa nokudala umkhosi wokuzonwabisa. Faka i-aquarium ngokukhanya kobusuku.
Ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ezigqityiweyo ezahlukeneyo kuncedisa ekuphuhlisweni kwengqiqo yokucoca. Makuye kwigumbi kuya kuba nemikhaphethi okanye iindlela, apho umntwana angayidlala khona. Ngomhlobiso weendonga, sebenzisa iphepha lodonga, iphepha leplastiki kunye neeplastiki. Izithambathiso ezihlukeneyo ngokufanelekileyo: amakhethini, izitya zokulala, iingubo zokulala. Misa isikhungo somculo, sithathe iidiski ezifanelekileyo kumntwana wakho ngomculo, ngeenganekwane okanye kwimibongo yabantwana. Ephakathi, sebenzisa imibala eyahlukileyo, ungesabi ukudibanisa ngesibindi. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, zama ukudibanisa iifenitshala kwi-nurseries: ungatshintsha indawo yokulala kunye ne-mattress yamanzi, ufike ngokubumba kwetafile ezithakazelisayo, uthenge izihlalo ezijikelezayo.
Kubantwana, ubunye besitayela akubalulekanga, into ephambili ilula kwaye imnandi! Kulo mntwana onjalo kumnandi ukudlala nokufunda.
U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza