Umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa akakwazi ukuqonda oko abazali abafuna kuye. Kodwa ukuba ngokumalunga nosana yonke imihla ukwenza izenzo ezithile, ngoko uya kuhlakulela umkhwa othile. Umzekelo, kufuneka uchithe yonke imihla ekuseni kwaye kusihlwa indlu yangasese - usule ubuso bakho ngephini lesimanzi, uhlambe abantwana abadala ngamanzi ompompo. Iindlebe neempumlo zihlanjululwe ngeboya yekotoni, amehlo asula nge-discton disc, engaphambili eyanamanzi kwi-decoction ye-chamomile.
Ukuba umntwana usuhlanza, kufuneka ahlambe ubuso bakhe aze atshintshe iimpahla zakhe ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukubamba umntwana kumabhobho amanzi, xa umchamo, kufuneka athatyathwe ngokukhawuleza. Emva kweenyanga ezi-2, qalisa ukulahla umntwana phezu kwesitya okanye ebhodweni. Okokuqala kufuneka uhlale phezu kwayo imizuzu engaphezu kwe-10, kodwa kwindawo ethile eneminyaka eyi-6 umntwana uya kuqonda oko kuyifunayo kuye kwaye uya kukwazi ukujamelana ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. Njengokuba kunqabile kunokwenzeka, sebenzisa i-diapers ezilahlayo, umzekelo, ugqirha okanye ukuhamba.
Xa umntwana ekhula aze agcine i-spoon, phambi kwesidlo ngasinye, hlamba izandla. Xa uqala ukuzisa iindlebe, umntwana usondliwe kangcono uhamba-ze, ngoko akudingeki ukuba uhlambe iimpahla ezinqamle iinqathe okanye iiplums. Emva kokutya, hlamba umntwana wakho ubeke iimpahla ezicocekileyo.
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Xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba ngokuzithemba, uya kugcina oko abazali bakhe benza kwaye baqale ukuyikopisha. Nantsi into ephambili ayiyikuphosa umzuzu. Umntwana uye waphuma inxalenye enkulu yamazinyo - sele sele ehlambulukile. Amagqabhagqabha akhethekileyo kunye neentshontsho zabantwana bathengiswa kwiivenkile. Zihle, ziqhakazi kwaye zenza umdla omkhulu kumntwana. Thenga le nto kwaye uqale ekuseni ukuxubha amazinyo akho kunye nosana. Xa ufika ngokuhamba kwaye ngaphambi kokutya, bonisa umntwana wakho ukuba uhlambe ubuso bakho nezandla ngokufanelekileyo. Kwinkwenkwe ngokuzithandela, yithenge ithawula elikhanyayo.
Ingane imele ilandele abazali. Ukuba umama waqala ukwenza ukucocwa, umntwana sele sele esondele kumama, kwaye ulungele ukumnceda. Ungazami ukumisa le mizamo. Abazali bahlala bekulungele ukwenza yonke into, kodwa kuphela ukuba umntwana angaphazamisi. Abaqondi ukuba benza iphutha elikhulu. Ngaba kunzima ukumnika umntwana umgqomo kwaye umbonise indlela yokususa uthuli? Okanye xa uhlamba izitya, makabe ahlambe iplastiki yakhe ekhanyayo? Uya kubona ukuba umntwana uya kuvuya.
Abazali bahlala bekhalaza ukuba umntwana wabo akafuni ukucocekisa amathoyizi. Nantsi kunokwenzeka ukubonisa ubuqili, vumela lo kucoca ube ngumdlalo. Tshela umntwana ukuba amathoyizi akhe amakhowe, kwaye kufuneka aqokelelwe kwibhaksi. Ukuqikelela, kukho iindlela ezininzi. Umntwana kufuneka abe nemisebenzi elula. Into ephambili kufuneka ajongane nayo. Umzekelo, unokuqokelela amathoyizi, usule uthuli, uhlambe isitya sakhe, ususe iimpahla ezicocekileyo kumatshini wokuhlamba. Umgaqo oyintloko kukuba ube nomonde.
Ekuqaleni, zonke izinto ziya kuvela ezandleni zakhe, kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kufunda. Musa ukuzama ukuzithoba, musa ukumgxeka. Unokujika yonke into ibe yihlaya okanye umdlalo. Ngaba kubi, ukuba umntwana uhlambe izitya kwaye ngelo xesha ujikeleze aze ahlabe? Ngokomzekelo, mxelele ukuba uyinkosi yeitya ezihlambulukileyo kwaye kufuneka ubeke ezi zihloko ukuba zibuke kakuhle. Musa ukulibala ukuba nayiphi na into oya kufundisa ngayo umntwana wakho, uya kuhlala esenza umzekelo kuwe. Kwaye lo mzekelo ungenziwa ulungile, usemandleni akho.