Ungaziqonda njani umfazi?

Bantombazana abathandekayo, sonke sizama ukuzimangalisa kumadoda anomdla, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba imfihlakalo yethu ibangela ukungaboni kakuhle phakathi kwethu kunye nesondo esinamandla. Ngethuba sasibaphazamisa ngemigqomo, bekhathele ukuqikelela kwaye ngamagama athi "ukuyeka" okanye "ukhathala" washiya intsimi. Njani? Emva kwakho konke, thina sinye, sinomnqophiso, sihlanganiswe ngesigqubuthelo semfihlelo. Kwaye, bamemeza "abaziqondi", baqambe amahlaya ngathi kwaye bahlekise ngelogi yethu. Kwaye siyaphalaza iinyembezi size sibambelele kumnandi. Hayi, linda, masiqonde.


Bacinga ukuba bayazi

Iziza ezininzi kwizengqondo, kunye neemagazini zamabhinqa eziqhelekileyo zikwazisa amadoda malunga noko siyiyo ngokwenene. Kwaye le nkcazelo sizinikela yona. Ukuze abantu bazi ukuba benzani nathi. Kufana nomyalelo onokuwusebenzisa. Ewe, uyabona, asiphosoli amanqaku ngamagama alingqambileyo "Yintoni amadoda ayithandayo ngesondo?", "Ndingayifaka njani kwiofisi yokubhalisa?" Okanye "Kutheni itshintsho?". Amadoda awayekho, awanaka ingqalelo kwiimibhalo ezifanayo kuphela ngathi. Kwaye emva kokufunda udidi olulandelayo "Indlela yokunyamekela ibhinqa?" Baqala ukuzenza njengento ephezulu. Kuyinto edangalisa ukujonga ukuba bahluphekile, basebenzisa iindlela zabo kuthi, ngokuqinisekileyo becinga ukuba baye bachonga ikhowudi yethu kwaye ngoku banamandla.

Ngoko, makhe sibone iimpazamo ezisisiseko zomntu ekusiqondeni.

Bonke-abafazi bafuna into enye-batshata

Kwaye akukho apha! Yonke intombazana ibaluleke kakhulu ngomtshato, oko kuthetha ukuba nayo isebenzela ukhetho lomlingane. Ewe, xa le ntokazi izimisele ngokubaluleka komtshato kwaye iyaqaphela ukuba yayivuthile umtshato, iqala ukujonga nayiphi na iqabane njengendoda enokuthi, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ixhala malunga nozinzo kunye nobudlelwane obukhulu, obaluleke ngakumbi kunetampu kwipaspoti. Ungesabi ukuba ngomso kusasa uya kukudonsela kubhaliso lwabantu abatshatileyo, mhlawumbi awuyi kudlula igalelo lomyeni wakhe.

Abasetyhini baxhambileyo abachitha imali eninzi kwizinto ezingadingekile

Okokuqala, akukho "izinto ezingadingekile". Nakuphi na ukuthengwa kuzisa ukwaneliseka kowesifazane, nokuba kuyisetyenzana esisebenzayo sokuthuthumela okanye italeni ecacileyo ekhishini. Amadoda ayasebenza nakakhulu ekuthengeni kwabo, ininzi bathenga into entsha ngokutshintshana kumdala, sikhetha ukuba nelungelo lokukhetha. Yingakho iesibini izihlangu zikunceda intombazana ukuba ivelele. "Ukufunwa" kwethu kuya kuba "kufuneka ukuba" kwaye kukulungele ukuphikisana nathi ngexesha elinjalo. Nangona ukuzama ukuphendukela kwisimo esivakalayo kusasazo, kodwa kungekho kwifomu ekhohlakeleyo. Ndixelele ukuba kwezi zicathulo ze-suede kunye nengubo yakhe eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, intombazana yakho ibukeka ibhetele kunezona "zikhonkwane" ezesabekayo kwi-hairpin ye-centimeter hairpin.

Ukuhlamba, ukucoca, ukupheka - i-destin's woman

Ndixolise, ngaba yilapho ichazwe khona? Ukuba le ntombazana yavuma ukuvuswa ekuseni ngefom yekhofi kwaye ngexesha elifanayo libethe ihembe lakho ukuba lisebenze, awuzange usebenze ngamandla, kodwa ungakhathazeki, akuthethi ukuba kuqhutywa ngumsebenzi wokusebenza. Ziindlela zamabhinqa ezibonisa ukukhathazeka kwabo. Yaye, kholwani mna, kungekhona wonke umntu obenomdla. Ngoko endaweni yokuthabatha impumlo yakho kwaye uyifumene, dumisa umsikazi wakho kwaye umbulele ngenxa yesenzo.

Umfazi omhle akanako ukuqonda

Ewe, siza, woza! Kuye kwenzeka ukuba ngoku, yonke intokazikazi enhle kufuneka abe nesitifiketi kuye, eqinisekisa ukuba i-IQ yakhe iphezulu kuneleyo yenkomo? Le mpazamo ikwaxhalabisa inqaku elithi "blondes - fool". Qonda, ekugqibeleni, ukuba le ngqungquthela isisondele. Inkosikazi enhle inokuba yinto enobulumko ngaphezu kwakho, nangona kunjalo, ubulumko bakhe abuyi kuvumela ukuba ibonise, kuba umntu kufuneka abe yinkokheli, kufuneka aphumelele iqabane lakhe ngamandla kunye nengqondo yakhe, ngoko ke, ubuhle, kufuneka sifihle ubuchule babo ngokusebenzisa isilumko esisisidenge.

Iingxoxo zabafazi

Uyiqonda ntoni na? Ewe, eshahleni sonke sihlezi (kwaye ngoku! Ingqalelo)! Ewe, ewe, amadoda anjengewethu afana nokuba kwixesha leziganeko. Kwaye baya kuxela umngane obalaseleyo ngeendaba zakutshanje. Amadoda nje asebenza ngamaqiniso, kunye nabasetyhini bancedisa ngokuvakalelwa kwabo. Kodwa inkohlakalo yabesifazane ibonakaliswe kuphela kwiimeko apho ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo kwizesondo ezifanelekileyo azikho. Kodwa xa umgqatswa ohloniphekileyo ebonakala ekugqibeleni, iingxoxo zefoni malunga "nezicathulo zikaNatasha ezintsha" kunye "nomyeni waseMatykin" ziphela kwimvelaphi, kuba ufuna ukuzakhela inhlebo ngaye, imbangela yayo ingaba yinto eyiyo.

Owu uThixo wam, bayazi ngokwenene

Masibhekane nalo, siphila ecaleni lamadoda kwiminyaka emininzi, kwaye ngeli xesha bekufanele lwanele ukufunda enye into. Kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Ngoko ke, kwakhona ukukhalaza kumhlobo wakhe: "Akayiqondi," cinga ngokucophelela, kodwa ayiqondi kakuhle. Mhlawumbi umntu wakho uyazi ngakumbi ngawe kunokuba ucinga.

Yethu imikhwa

Ukuze ukwazi ngokwenene umntu, kufuneka ukhangele, usebenzise oko kwaye uyigcine, eqinisweni, eyenzekayo kwinkqubo yokwazisa. Sinikela kuphela ngolwazi ngomlomo malunga nokusebenza, ngoko ungamangalisi xa kusasa iikomityi zeeshukela zivela kwikomityi yakho, kunye neefake zekhekhe ezithandayo kwi-saucer, ongayithethi ngokuzwakalayo. Yaye yonke into yokuba indoda yakho iyayiqwalasela. Yaye makamlibale malunga nomhla wokubanga kwakho kokuqala, kwenzeka kanye kanye ngonyaka, kodwa ubonisa ukunyamekela kwakhe kwizinto ezincinci imihla ngemihla.

UMnu Freud uxelele ngezinto zonke

Umntu ngamnye ngeli xesha uzama ukubonakala engcono kunokuba uyinyani. Kodwa nakwizinto ezinzulu kakhulu ezizayo okanye emva koko ziphuma, kwaye ubuso boqobo buvuleka. Ngoko intombazana engathethiyo kwintsapho entle inokuthi ibe ngumthandi weBDSM, kwaye uKlabersha onomdla uyisimboli esona sikhokelo sePushkin. Ewe, kukho amadoda angenakukubona ngaphezu kwempumlo, kodwa kukho abo bajonga le ntombazana ngezinye iixesha, bafunde njengencwadi evulekileyo. Kulowo nalowo kuthi, kukho isazi sengqondo esingakwazi ukuhlalutya nje ukuziphatha okucacileyo, kodwa ifihliwe. Oku kuthetha ukuba akathethi kangako kwizenzo esizenzayo, ngokunjalo nento esiyenzayo. Kwaye abantu baye bafunda ukudibanisa ezimbini kunye ezimbini: ukujonga kwakho, isenzo, ubuso obusondeleyo buxelele ngawe, kwaye kuninzi ngakumbi kunokuba uthethe.

Amadoda afundiswa ngabasetyhini

Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuba loo mntu akazange aziqhayise ngokuzimela kwakhe kunye nokuzimela kwakhe, iingcamango eziphambili zobomi, ubudlelwane kunye nabasetyhini babekwe ngumama wakhe. Nguye umzekelo wakhe owabonisa ukuba i-duma yangempela imele ibe yintoni. Kwaye lo mfanekiso uya kumsukela, ufune ukuba yeyiphi impawu umfazi wakhe kufuneka abe nayo. Amantombazana athetha ntoni kumakhwenkwe akhe malunga nokuba unina ulungisa i-borscht enomnandi ngakumbi, uyasusa kaninzi, amaqhosha angenqunywanga njengaye ... Kodwa unina naye uyisampula enkulu yowesifazane, ububele, ubuhle kunye nolwazi lwe-kladezemin. Emva koko, ngubani na, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uxelela njani unyana wakhe, kutheni uNatasha ovela kwi-7-B engamkhangeleli, kutheni umfundi onyaka wokuqala u-Olenka edibana nomntu ophumelele ngakumbi, kutheni uDariya Sergeevna evela kwisebe le-accounting engavumi ukumbona. Ewe, kwaye kwenzeka! Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba uthembekile wakho unyana womama. Kunokwenzeka ngenxa yokukhuliselwa kwakhe ecaleni kwakho, ngoku ulungile. Ukubukela umama wakhe ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nomququ, indlela yokuphuma kwiimeko ezinzima, indlela yokusombulula iingxaki kunye nokunyamezela ubunzima, indlela abakhathalela ngayo abathandekayo bakhe, umntu ozayo uyafunda ukuqonda nokuqonda abafazi. Ngoko ke ulungele ukuba "ekunciphiseni" wena, umntu uye wafumana unxulumano oluqinileyo.

Kwaye ekugqibeleni ...

Madadekazi othandekayo! Vula kwaye uqondeke. Mhlawumbi amadoda kunye ne-lyubyaetzgadyvat ukuvukela nokukhalaza kuzo zonke iindawo zokukhangela eziyimfihlakalo kunye nengqiqo, kodwa bathatyathwa kwabo abangazami ukuzifihla zabo izinto ezisisiseko, abanokuzivakalisa ngokuzikhuselekileyo baze bangabi nokwesaba ukuba ngabakho. Kwaye kusekho iimfihlelo ezininzi esingazifuni ukuba siyazi malunga nesiqingatha esinamandla sabantu.