Ndiya kumnika umzekelo. Intombazana enye yadibana nomfana wayo iminyaka emibini, kodwa yayihlala kwizixeko ezahlukahlukeneyo. Babhalela phantse yonke imihla, kodwa badibana kanye ngeveki. Ngonyaka emva kweentlanganiso ezinjalo, baqala ukulala ngesondo. Wayesebenamantombazana phambi kwakhe, kodwa akayi. Ngethuba labo baqhelana nabo babehlala benengxabano kunye nokuxolelana, wadilela kunye namaxesha ambalwa kunye naye. Kungekudala wayeka ukumtyelela ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, njengoko watshoyo. Kwaye wayekholelwa ukuba wayemthanda ngokwenene. Emva kokuba efumene ukuba unina akayithandi, kwaye unomhlobo othile weepeni. Akazange aphendule le mibuzo, kwaye wayefuna ukwahlula. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza weza waza wanika iziqhamo ezimnandi ze-roses. Wa xolela. Yaye yaqala kwakhona ...
Kwaye ke ezinye zigqiba ekubeni ziphendule kwi-psychologist. Ingcali efanelekileyo ayinakuhlala ikunika impendulo yalo mbuzo, kodwa uya kuzama ukukukhokelela kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, uya kukunceda uqonde imeko yakho. Ngamanye amaxesha asiyazi ukuba yiwuphi umbuzo onokuwucela ukuze ufumane impendulo efanelekileyo. Ukwenza oku, udinga isazi sezengqondo esiya kwenza. Uya kukuxelela ukuba wenzeni xa ubuhlobo buphelile.
Yintoni inokuphendula impendulo yeengqondo? Ngaba unokunceda ngokwenene? Abantu abaninzi banelisekile iingxaki abacinga ukuba zimbi kuphela, kodwa bahlala bengakholelwa ukuba zilungile. Kodwa kukho njalo indlela yokuphuma, yinto nje into enhle kwaye ayikho kakuhle!
Le meko iyinkimbinkimbi kwaye idideka, akulula ukuyixazulula. Kunzima ukuthetha into xa ungayivakala, uzama ukufumanisa oko kwenzekayo, kwaye kunzima ukuhlukana nomntu wakho othandekayo, nokuba ulwalamano lwakho selufikile ekufeni. Kufuneka siziqonde ngokwenu: yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe - ukuba ube nalo mntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, okanye, nangona ulahlekelwa ngumntu, ukuvuma isikhundla sakho?
Kodwa sihlala sikhohlwe ukuzibuza into esiyilindele kwiintlalontle eziqaliswe ngakumbi ukusuka kwicala labesifazane kunokuba zivela kuye? Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba ulwalamano olunjalo lunokufikelela ekupheleni kokufa. Kulo mzekelo ungentla, imeko yinto yokuba loo mfana ubonisa umdla kumntwana wentombazana ngezikhathi ezithile. Kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba uyanyamekela ngqalelo yakhe, uthando lwakhe ngaye, kodwa ngokungekho lungele. Uthando lulawula kuphela entliziyweni yakhe.
Intombazana icinga ukuba ayiyithandi. Kodwa uyakhohlwa ukuphendula omnye umbuzo obalulekileyo: uyayithanda njani? Ngenxa yokuba sithandwa, kufuneka sizithande!
Ukuba kukho izihlandlo ezingenakuqondakala kunye nemibandela elubudlelwaneni, kufuneka zixazululwe kwaye ziceliwe ngokukhawuleza! Ungaziphindi, mhlawumbi kuya kuba sekwephuzile, ubudlelwane buyasuswa, kwaye ixesha lichithe. Kunzima ukufumana umntu omtsha emoyeni, ngoko kufuneka ukuba uzibonele oko sikulindele kulobu buhlobo kwaye ubuze umntu wakho ngokufanayo. Sivame ukuba nje singabuzi imibuzo, kwaye le yingxaki yamabini amaninzi. Akunakathethi omnye nomnye malunga noko kukukhathazayo. Kwaye oku kunokuthi kungabikho ukungaqondi kakuhle kunye nokwahlukana kobudlelwane. Kwaye umsebenzi wethu kukugcina nokuwaxabisa. Lo ngumsebenzi weqabane ngalinye kulwalamano.
Yintoni endiyenzayo xa ulwalamano lusemngciphekweni? Akukho mpendulo engabonakaliyo, kuba zonke iimeko zizodwa. Kwaye uxanduva lokukwenza oku okanye eso sigqibo sikukho kunye nawe kuphela. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba uzimisele ukunyamezela okanye cha, nokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka okanye uhambe kangcono ... Konke oku kufuna amandla nokuzimisela. Kukho ezininzi iiSoviet, kodwa isigqibo sisakho. Mamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi uze uziphendule ... Aze ungesabi nantoni na! Ubomi buhlala busoloko, nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba yonke into iphelile, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi aya kukunika iimangalisa ezimnandi!