Akusoloko kubonakala nje ukuba uza kuphumelela kwaye uyathandwa kubantu. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, indlela ozibonisa ngayo, ngaba uya kukwazi ukugxininisa isidima sakho. Ngezantsi zikho iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nokusetyenziswa kwamadoda.
- Okokuqala, umsebenzi wesetyhini ukulungiswa kakuhle. Akunandaba nokuba ubukhulu bakho amabele bubani okanye ukuba iikhopi zakho zide kangakanani - kufuneka uzinake kwaye uzigcine njalo. Ulusu lufanele lube ludaka kwaye lunempilo, iinqwelo zicocekile, izambatho zicocekile kwaye zihlambuluke, kwaye zenzeke zendalo. Amadoda atyekwa ekuzilungiseni kunye nolwasemzimbeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga ntoni ngawe. Yaye ukuba ukhangeleka njengepesenti ekhulwini, ngokucacileyo kuya kukhangela;
- Funda ngendlela enokwenzeka ngayo. Iincwadi, njengoko wazi, ziyimithombo yolwazi, ininzi apho ungacingi. Naluphina ulwazi oluye lwafundwa nguwe, luhlehlisiwe kwisigxina se-subconscious ngohlobo lwamava abalulekileyo noluncedo, kwaye luyakwazi ukuvela ngexesha elifanelekileyo ebomini. Musa ukucinga ukuba ukufunda kuyinkcitho yexesha, funda ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka nayiphi na uncwadi - isayense, ubugcisa, ubugcisa. Siqinisekisa ukuba, iinzame zakho aziyi kuba yize, kwaye nangemva kweminyaka embalwa uqonda ukuba unobungakanani kwaye unobunono onayo imithwalo yolwazi;
- Yiba nzima ngokusemandleni. Musa ukuhlala ekhaya embhedeni - ngeli xesha ungasetyenziselwa inzuzo enkulu ekuphuhlisweni kwimimiselo yenyama kunye neyomoya. Ukubhalisa kwiiklasi kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, qalisa ukudansa, uye kwiikhosi zokupheka okanye ngolwimi lwangaphandle - ngelizwi, zama imisebenzi emininzi ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuzo zonke izinto ozamile, wena, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, uya kufumana umsebenzi owuthandayo, ongayenza ngayo yonke intliziyo yakho. Yaye kholwa kum, umntu owaziyo ukuba athathwe nantoni na, uhlala ebangelwa abanye (kuphela ngaphandle kokunyaniseka okukhulu-yonke indawo kufuneka uqhubeke nomlinganiselo). Amadoda ayithandi abo abangenanto emva kokubonakala, bayaqonda ukuba umnqweno wokukhula kwabasetyhini;
- Zama ukuvula kwaye kulula ukuthetha. Musa ukuphosa iingxaki zakho kumntu, ubuninzi - ngokuzithoba kwaye ngaphandle kwezikhalazo mcele icebiso. Ewe, kukho amaxesha apho ufuna ukukhala, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuzityhalela kunye. Smile ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka - amadoda amaninzi amthandana nentombi yomfazi. Ibhinqa elihlawulwa ngamandla aphezulu linokuthi lithande indoda. Ukuba uhlala uhamba nobuso obubi okanye obubi, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukutsala ingqalelo ebantwini. Musa ukudibanisa ububele bokwenene kunye negrain engenangqiqo nangengqiqo. Akufanele uhobise nje ngomlomo wakho, kodwa ngomphefumlo wakho;
- Yenza umsebenzi-ke kufuneka ube mnandi kwaye ubabalo. Musa ukugubha, ungazami ukugijima kwaye unganciphisi intloko yakho. Umntu ngamnye uyavuya ukujonga intombazana ehamba ngokulula kwaye ngokulula, njengokungathi ihamba phezu komhlaba. Sebenza ezinqeni zakho kunye nokuhamba, phuhlisa ukunyuka okuhle-kulula, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu;
- Amadoda amaninzi ayaqaphela ukuba ahlala ethanda abo bafazi abanamehlo emehlweni abo, uhlobo "lweedemon". Kwakungekho malunga nokwakheka kwamehlo. Kunzima ukusho ngokuqinisekileyo oko kukuloo mbono esithandayo kunye nento elahlekileyo kwizinto ezibonakala zingenakuphila kwaye zibolile. Kodwa khumbula ukuba amehlo ayibubuko bomphefumlo. Futhi ungakulibali ukuvuyisa, ukuzithemba nokunyamekela - ngoko uya kuba namadoda afana namehlo;
- Yazi ukuphulaphula nokuthetha. Kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumphulaphuli olungileyo, ngubani oza kuhlala ekwazi ukuphulaphula nokuxhasa, kunye nomthengisi weendaba ezilungileyo owaziyo ukuba nomdla kumxholo okhethiweyo kwaye axhasane nencoko. Kufuneka ube yinkxaso engabonakaliyo kunye nenkxaso kumlingane wakho, ngexesha elifanayo elihlakaniphile kunye neengqiqo, ukuze angabi nakukhathazeka;
- Yazi indlela yokugqoka ngendlela ephathekayo kunye nokuhle. Iingcamango ezixhaphakileyo ukuba indoda ayikhathalele ukuba yintoni umfazi ogqokeyo, ukuba sele ekwazi ukuyenza umdla. Khetha izambatho ukuze ugxininise sonke isithunzi sabo ngokungangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze ufumane into eya kukwahlula phakathi kwamanye amabhinqa, kwaye ungesabi ukutshintsha nokuzama. Zama ukudibanisa iifayile ezahlukeneyo, uzama ukuhlala ungalindeleki kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lihle kakhulu.