Njalo umbonise umntwana ukuba unomdla kangakanani ukumbona , umzekelo, ukuba uya kuza kuwe okanye uza egumbini lakho. Zama ukumncumo kangangoko kunokwenzeka kuye, ngokuzithelekileyo, ngaphandle kokulisela, ungenzi nje ngomlomo wakho, kodwa ngamehlo akho. Akunabantu abadala kuphela, kodwa nabantwana bathanda xa bebizwa ngegama. Ukuba awuqondi kakuhle intsingiselo yalo mkhuba, zibeke endaweni yomntwana kwaye ucinge ukuba bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba kufika kwakho kuya kuvuyiswa zizihlobo zakho njengokuza kwehlobo.
Cacisa umntwana ukuba ixesha lokuzikhethela elizimeleyo liqhelekile. Emva koko, abantu abadala badinga ixesha lokuqhuba ishishini labo okanye nje ukuzibeka. Kufuneka kube nemida yoqhagamshelwano lwenu kunye nabantwana. Kubalulekile ukuba inkunzi ifunde indlela yokudlala nayo ngezinye izihlandlo. Emva koko, xa umntwana edlala ngokwakhe, uhlakulela ukucinga, ukucinga kunye nokucinga. Kufuneka kuphela ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo uhlobo lomsebenzi lowo umntwana angathanda ukukwenza ngexesha ude. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo, eneneni, ukuba lo msebenzi uphathele umabonwakude.
Kufuneka ukuba uqaphele ukuba kwezinye iimeko umntwana kufuneka afundiswe ukwenza into yodwa (umzekelo, ukudweba). Emva kwayo yonke into, umntwana akanakuyithandayo, uyasetyenziselwa ukuzonwabisa kwaye nje uvila ukwenza oko ngokwakhe.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, zama ukuzithobela ngokuthe ngcembe umsebenzi othile (umzobo, ukubunjwa kwiplastiki, njl.): Kuqala uya kuhlakulela ingcamango yakhe, kwaye uya kuba ngumntu ohlala ecaleni kwakho, kwaye, emva koko, unokunika isabelo kwaye uzinze ngokuzenzekelayo ibhizinisi (umzekelo, "Ndiza kwaye ndiqikelele oko ufumene imfama").
Zama ukunciphisa ukufikelela komntwana kumabonwakude nakweminye imidiya , kuba kaninzi banika ulwazi olubi malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Yaye xa i-kid ebudeni bokuba ihlabathi liyazi kuphela, kutheni usebenzise imithombo enjalo. Kodwa, ukuba umntwana esele ebukela iTV, ke umbandakanye naye imifanekiso yamnandi, ukufundisa nokuphuhlisa iifilimu kunye neenkqubo, njl njl.
Ukuze wenze umntwana onwabe , kuyimfuneko ukumxelela ukuba akukho nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kwakhe, ingakumbi ukusebenza. Kuya kukwanelisa nje ukumomotheka kwintsana xa usebenza okanye wenza imisebenzi eqhelekileyo yasekhaya, uthetha naye. Ku luncedo ngakumbi ukuphulaphula umntwana, nokuba uyakuvimbela ekugqibeleleni into ephuthumayo, kunokuba uguqe ngaphandle kwaye uthethe, ukuze ungaphazamisi. Abantu abadala bayakwazi ukutshintsha ingqalelo ngokukhawuleza kwaye bagxininise, sikulungele ukulungelelanisa imeko. Kodwa, ngelanga, ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yobuvila bayo, senza into elula.
Apha ungadinga ubuchule bakho kunye nokukwazi ukuchaza . Kwindlu kufuneka kube nemithetho enceda ukugcina umyalelo kunye nomoya ngaphakathi kwindlu. Umntwana kufuneka akhumbule aze awenze. Chaza ukuba ngubani na oya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo ebantwaneni bakho, oko kukuthi, xa udla, ulala, uhamba, njl. Awudingi ukuvala izinto eziyimvelo kuye, kodwa zichasene namalungiselelo akho kunye nabamelwane (umz ekhwaza endlini).
Nxaxheba inxaxheba ekufundiseni umntwana wakho. Musa ukunika le nkqubo ngokupheleleyo kwi-kindergarten okanye kwisikolo. Ukuchaneka, ukuba kuyimfuneko, gcwalisa izikhalazo. Zama ukuqhubela umntwana kumacandelo ahlukeneyo okanye kwiibindi. Konke oku kuya kumnceda umntwana akwazi ukuphuhlisa ngokucacileyo, kunye nokugqiba oko akuthandayo.
Yiba ngumzekelo kubantwana bakho. Emva koko, abantwana baxelisa abadala. Ukuba uthetha enye into kwaye wenze konke okuchaseneyo, ke ungafundisi nto ngaphandle kobuzenzisi. Ngoko vumela oko ufundisa abantwana bakho kuhambelana ngamazwi nangezenzo zakho.
Ukuba unquma ukuba nomntwana, kufuneka ulungiselele ubunzima. Emva koko, ngumsebenzi onzima wemihla ngemihla - ukukhulisa umntwana ngokuchanekileyo. Ngelishwa, akubona zonke iibinibini ezilungiselela ukuba ngumama noodade bakuqonda oku. Ngokuqhelekileyo siva ngeentetho ezifana nale ndlela: "andinabantwana, akukho mntu uyifumanayo"; "Sinokuphumla okuhle, kuba kwakukho umntwana ukuba ahambe naye;" "Musa ukumkhathaza uMama noTata", njl njl. Ukukhuliswa komntwana onoyolo kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela, ukulungela kwakho umsebenzi onzima kule ngxaki enzima. Musa ukulibala malunga nalo.