Okokuthi, ngelixa umile emgceni kwiofisi yepaspoti, unokuqala unganelisekanga ngokunyamezela kwabasebenzi, kunye neyure kamva - uzive umsindo kubantu abafazi bephula eofisini ngaphandle kokulinda "ukucela nje". Ubundlobongela buvame ukujongwa ngabadokotela bezengqondo njengenye indlela yokudandatheka, kuba xa kwenzeka ukungaphumeleli kukuvumela ukugxeka abanye ngezinto ezenzekile, kungekhona. Ngokomzekelo, xa siphoswa, umsindo uhlanganisa intlungu yekhefu. Ngokwemvelo, ekuphenduleni ukubandezeleka, umsindo uvela, umnqweno wokuhlaselwa. Ekubeni ubugwenxa bunengqondo elula ukuyifumana (xa kuthelekiswa noyiko okanye intlungu), ihlala ifihla emva kwayo yinto enzima kunayo. Yaye ukuba ukuba kulesi sikhundla uqale ukwenza ngokusesikweni (kwaye kungekhona kwinqanaba eliphambili), iimpazamo ziyakwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukubona (mhlawumbi) ifihliweyo phantsi kwayo. Intukuthelo, ifakwe kwindawo ebilayo - isikhali esibi.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukubonisa njani umsindo?
Kuqala ukubona ukuvutha ngumsindo ongenamsebenzi okanye onobungozi. Ezi zigqibo aziqwalasela imisebenzi enomsebenzi kakhulu. Emva koko, umsindo ungasishukumisela ukuba siphendule okanye sitshintshe oko kubangele ukuba nakho. Akukho mvakalelo embi: "Le yinkqubo yempawu, esiyayiqonda ngayo into esiyifunayo nento engayiyo, into enokuyilwela ngayo, nokuba yintoni ekufuneka uhambe nayo. Intukuthelo ibhekisela kwiimfuno ezibalulekileyo ezingakabonakaliyo. " Ukuba asikwazi ukuyiveza ngokucacileyo, ufuna izinto zokusebenza. Kukhuselekile ukuthukuthela i-porcelain yentsapho, into eyingozi ngakumbi - kwizilwanyana zasemakhaya, ezinobungozi kakhulu - kubantu abasondeleyo. Kwinkcubeko yethu yinto eqhelekileyo yokunciphisa umsindo, okungafanelekanga. Iimeko ezingapheliyo ezikhuselekileyo zinobudlova zibonakalisa intlungu emva, intliziyo, isisu. Iingcali zengqondo zifuna ukucaphuka ngengqondo - intloko ebandayo ukuba ukhangela imbangela yengqumbo. Ukubonakalisa ngokufanelekileyo imvakalelo kuthetha ukuvakalisa ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nabanye, ukuze ufezekise. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kubhetele ukubheka isidingo esilandelayo, kunokuba ugubungele umoya ngegama lawo. Kodwa xa kukho ubungqina obuninzi, unako "ukukrazula" intsalela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. UFrud naye wabhala malunga neengqungquthela. Ukuba awunjalo, ukunyamekela iimvakalelo ozifumanayo, awukwazi ukuzenza izigqibo zakho, kuya kukunika iimvakalelo.
Indlela yokujamelana nomsindo wabanye?
Into yokuqala ofuna ukuyenza xa ubona umntu othukutheleyo ujika. Emva koko kuza ukwazi - kwaye kuyintoni na? Umnqweno wokuncedisa uvele wokugqibela kwaye kungekhona njalo. Xoxa ngezizathu zomsindo kunye nabangaphantsi kwamandla aloo mvakalelo okwangoku, engenanto. Kwaye ukuthetha malunga nento eyenzeka kuye, xa izinto ezinqwenelekayo zinikezele, zinceda gqitha. Kule ndawo kuphela kubonakala ngathi akudingekile ukuba sishuthumele imigoqo emva kokulwa. Kodwa zombini ulwalamane, kunye nobudlelwane bakho kunye naye (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, asemzini) kuyingozi ukwenza ngathi akukho nto eyenzekayo. Ukuba ufuna ukuba le nto ingabi kwakhona, kufuneka uyicacise kumhlaseli: izenzo zakhe zazingamangalisi. Emva koko unike ithuba lokuthetha ngezizathu zalo mkhuba. Umhlobo wethu omdala owayengumhlobo wayengayazi indlela engcono yokubonakalisa umsindo, kunokuba agubungele iqela. Ngethamsanqa, ekuhambeni kwexesha, abantu baqulunqa iindlela ezininzi ezinokwethenjelwa kunye nezentlalo "zokuyeka umphunga" - ezemidlalo, ezemisebenzi, ubugcisa, uncwadi, imilenze, imidlalo yekhompyutha. Kodwa iyona ndlela iphumelele kakhulu kukuba uthethe oko uvakalelwa ngokwenene ngoku.