Ngokuqhelekileyo, kusemzuzwana xa umfazi elahlekelwe ngumdla kwiqabane lakhe, amafu amnyama aqokelela ubomi bentsapho. Oku, ngokwayo, kunokukhokelela ekubambeni komtshato wakho. Ewe, awukwazi ukutsho ukuba uyeka ukuthanda umyeni wakho. Uyakuyixabisa, uyayihlonela, uzive ungumkhwa. Kodwa, ukuyiqonda njengendoda yobudlelwane bezesondo, unqamle. Isimo, ubomi, ubomi obude phantsi kophahla olulodwa, ukuzithiba ngokwesini - konke kukuchaphazela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kwaye ngenxa yoko, wena nje, kwinqanaba elincinane, qinisa ukuba ulale naye. Nangona kungekafiki kuwe malunga nesithixo kunye nomntu ofanelekileyo. Kwaye yonke into yatshintshwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye ingenakuguquleka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuphakama kwazo zonke iimvakalelo ezintle, akunakuhlala ixesha elide kwaye kwintsapho nganye yesibini, kungekudala okanye kamva, kukho ingxaki enjalo. Iingqungquthela kunye nokumanga akukuvuyisi, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, kubangele ukukhathazeka, kunye nokusebenza komtshato, ngoku umsebenzi, ibhizinisi elinzima kunye nokubopha. Oku, kunene, kukunqongophala kwindlela yokuphila yobomi, kwaye kukhokelela ekuxabaneni okubangelwa ukunyaniseka kwakho. Ngoko uphuma njani kule nkinga ebunzima kwaye uziqonde ukuba wenzeni ukuba indoda ibe ngumfazi ayithandeki njengendoda? Masizame kancinci malunga nale nto.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uziqonde. Ukuba unqwenela ukuba unomdla kwiqabane lakho, njengoko iqabane lomntu wesini lithetha, yonke into engezantsi ibhalwe ngokuthe ngqo ngawe. Xa, wena, uhlala wedwa, uvele uthuthuke komnye nomnye. Ukuze ube nesiqheno sobuqhayisa, kuba ungcono kakhulu kunokuba uyenaye. Unqamle ukummathisa ngeempahla ezintle, iinwele, iifom kunye nangaphezulu, iingubo zangaphantsi ezinobunxi. Ngaphezu koko, uqaphele ukuba yaba nomona ongaphantsi kwabanye abesifazana. Kwisisombululo sakhe sokulala ngesini, unesizathu esikhulu kunye nezizathu zokungazenzi. Ewe, ukuba kwenzeke phakathi kwakho, ulindele "isiphetho" ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye, ngexesha leprogram ngokwalo, awuyi kukhanda ngokubanga kunye ne-caresses. Kwaye ke songeza ukuba zonke i-preludes inxalenye yakhe, akukho nto engakumbi kunomsindo. Ngenxa yoko, awukwazi ukuphumla kwaye uhlekise, kwaye ke, entloko yakho, ingcinga ihlala iphendulela: "Kutheni namhlanje uvuma ukulala naye?". Ngokuchanekileyo, ubudlelwane bezesondo bube yinto yakho, njengento ede kakhulu kwaye ingabonakaliyo, oko kukuthi, akunakuthandeka kwaye ayimfuneko. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba uqale ukucinga ngento yokuba ulahlekelwe into ebalulekileyo ebomini, uzive uchithekile kwaye ungenelisekile ngesondo. Uqale ukuhlawula abantu abangaphandle. Xa uzama ukufumana kuzo, ungenanto ebomini. Nanku, nangaphambi kokuba uhlaselo lusekude. Nangona uya kufumana ekungcatshweni, ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kuphela kunye nehlabathi lakho langaphakathi, liya kuhlala lilibalekile kwaye lichithwa ngokulinganayo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuziva unetyala kuphezulu kunokuba ukwaneliseki kwakho. Ewe, kwaye utshintshe kule nto, ncinane. Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, uyaqhubeka ukholelwa ukuba kufuneka uhlale kunye. Lo ngowona mgangatho wobomi obalulekileyo, obizwa ngokuba ngumfazi ongagqibekanga. Kwaye ukuba uhlala ngale ndlela, ngoko kufuneka uguqule oku. Akuyimfuneko, nethemba lokuba umyeni ngokwakhe uya kuqaphela ngale nto kwaye azame ukutshintsha into ethile. Okanye uthetha nawe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukungabikho kobomi obusondeleyo, obunokutshabalalisa kakhulu isimo sengqondo salo nawuphi na umfazi. Ngokulula, xa uqhubeka uyinyamezela, ngakumbi uya kuthukuthela kwaye ukhathazeke. Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into iya kusebenza kuwe. Iqabane lakho liza kugxinwa ngokunyeliswa kunye nokuhlambalaza kwakho. Kwaye njengesiphumo esibuhlungu, oku kungakhokelela ekuphumeni kobudlelwane bakho.
E gameni lokuphepha konke, okokuqala, cingisisa ngawe. Wena ngokwenene, akunakwenzeka ukuba ushiywe wodwa. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuze uhlale uphila, uzikhathaze ngokwakho kunye nengqondo yakho. Indlela ebalulekileyo yokuphuma kule meko iphinda izame ukuthandana nomlingane wakho kwaye ngoko ke ukuzisa umtsalane wolutsha olutsha kulwalamano lwakho. Uthi, kunzima. Kholelwa kwinto ebizwa ngokuba yi-"H" emithathu, ethi akukho nto inokwenzeka. Khangela kuye ngaphesheya, awukho isizathu, usaphila nalo mntu. Kwaye, ngaphandle koko, into yokuba uyacaphukisa kuye, usenokuba neendawo ezininzi zokudibanisa. Thatha nabo abo owamthanda naye kanye, kwaye ungeze kubo. Khawucinge ngenye imeko aya kuhamba naye kwenye intokazi (cinga ngesicatshulwa sakho somzobo onobuchule, nangona kungekho nto) kwaye awuyi kuba nantoni na. Apha ke, uya kuba nombono wobunini. Uya kuyenza ngokukhawuleza ngendlela enjengomdla kunye nokuyigcina kuzo zonke iinkalo.
Kwaye, njengezongezo kwizinto zonke, ukuvuselela yonke imvakalelo yeemvakalelo, ukulungelelanisa iholide yothando. Apho wena kuphela kwaye uza kuba. Kuye, unokukhetha indawo oye waphumla ngayo, ngexesha lokuphakama kweemvakalelo zakho. Kwaye uzame ukuphinda yonke into, ulandele amanqanaba endala olwalamano lwakho.
Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhetha okulungileyo kuyakuba yintetho yakho yomxholo ngesihloko esithi: "Kuthekani ukuba umyeni waba ngumfazi ongenomdla njengendoda?", Apho kufuneka udibanise kwimiphumo emihle. Ingxoxo enengqiqo inokusombulula kakhulu. Into ephambili ayiyikiyikayo kwaye unganqikazi ukubonisa izinto ezikukhathazayo. Kwaye nonke niya kufumana indlela yokuphuma kule ngxaki. Ungabi namahloni, mnike amalinge amasha kwisini. Ndikholelwe, into entsha kunye neyokungaqhelekanga kuya kukunceda ukuba ube nomdla omtsha kwiqabane lakho, njengendoda.