Isi sibini sichitha ixesha elininzi kunye, kwaye akukho zihloko abazingathethi ngazo. Nangona kunjalo, njengezibini ezitshatileyo, amaqabane amancinci awakhulumi ngento yesondo, okanye esi sihloko asiqhelwanga kakhulu. Kwaye kuluntu, igama elithi "isondo" lithatyathwa ngolu hlobo ngolu hlobo ngokuthi "malunga nalo" okanye "isihloko esingenanto". Nangona phakathi kwabantu kunye nesihloko sesini, kunye nakwezinye izihloko zobomi akufanele kubekho nayiphi na imiqathango. Kodwa amantombazana angakwazi ukwabelana ngokucacileyo zonke iimfihlo zabo ezithandana kunye neentombi zabo, kunokuba kunye nomhlobo okanye umyeni wabo. Kukho inkolelo yokuba ezo ngxoxo zihlala zikhokelela ekubhujisweni komanyano.
Ubuhlobo besondo buyinkimbinkimbi kwaye bubuqili. Ukunyanzeliswa kwesi sihloko kungakhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Ukusebenzisana ukwabelana ngeengxaki zabo zesini kunokuchaphazeleka kakhulu. Abantu abandezelekayo bahamba kunye nokudandatheka, i-migraines kunye nezinye iingxaki zempilo. Ngendlela, i-World Health Organisation-WHO ivelise iingxaki zesondo kwi-register yayo yezifo ezibi.
Uthando ngumvakalelo omangalisayo owenza ukuba kuxhomekeke kubantu. Ngoko ke, ulwalamano oluthile olunxulumene nothando lunokugula. Ingabangela iimeko ezahlukeneyo zengqondo kunye neengxaki. Iimeko ezinjalo zingaphendulwa kuphela ngeengxoxo kunye neengxoxo.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba akusiyo yonke inceba kunye nesimo sengqondo sesondo esingasempilweni. Iingcali zengqondo zithi iimvakalelo zothando kunye nezifiso zesini zivela kwiminqweno efanayo kunye nokuhlonelana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abatshatileyo kunye nabalingani kufuneka baxhasane, bathethe naliphi na isihloko baze bafumane iimpawu ezingenayo. Ukuze le miba ibonakale, ayifuni nje ukuchitha ixesha elide kunye, kodwa ukuthetha nezihloko ezingenanto.
Ekuqaleni kolwalamano oluthandanayo, abantu abanothando banomuva wokuphakamisa umvakalelo ophezulu, bahlukana nokunyaniseka. Nangona abathandana belele bancinci, badla encinane, baziva bevuya kwaye banamandla. Kodwa nayiphi na inqanaba lobudlelwane ludlula.
Oogqirha banokuqinisekisa ukuba uthando lunobuthi. Emzimbeni womntu othandweni, izinto ezikhethekileyo ezifana nezivuselelo ziqala ukuphuhliswa. Iipropati zifana nezidakamizwa - yi-serotonin kunye ne-phenylethylamine. Ezi zinto zingabangela ukunyuka kwe-adrenaline. Kwinqanaba elithile kulwalamano, kunokubakho ukuvakalelwa ngumlingane. Kule meko kubalulekile ukuba uthethe, kodwa ukuba amadoda akulungele ukuthetha, ke amantombazana akafuni ukuthetha ngezihloko ezingenanto.
Ukuthetha ngezihloko ezifanelekileyo kunokusombulula imibuzo enzima kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza emva kwentetho, intombazana iqala ukukhawuleza, ngaphezu koko, ilahleka ixesha lokulimaza kunye nokuziphatha okubi. Abathandayo embhedeni baqala ukuva iimvakalelo ezintsha. Indoda iqala ukubonisa ingqalelo kwaye iyenze iziganeko zesondo. Amantombazana ayalahla zonke iindidi zabo. Emva kwengxoxo ephosakeleyo ininzi isele isigqityiweyo ebhedini. Amantombazana aqala ukwenza izinto ezingazange zenzeke ngaphambili nangakumbi nabathandekayo abathandekayo. Khumbula ukuba ukuphepha ingxoxo engathethekiyo, kunokubangela ukuphuka kothando okanye ubudlelwane beentsapho, amaqabane aya kuqala ukukhangela enye into.
Amantombazana akhetha ngokwabo ezo ziqabane zesini, kwaye ke ama-satellites ebomi, abanempawu eziphuphayo. Emva kweentlanganiso ezithile, unokufumana ukuba iqabane lakhe aliyindoda yamaphupha. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, amantombazana aqala ukuziphatha ngokwahlukileyo. Amanye amantombazana, elahlekelwe iiglasi ze-rose-colored, alumkile kwiintlobano zawo. Abanye baqala ukukhangela ngakumbi nangaphezulu, bahlale bekhulile kwaye bazame ukunyamekela loo mntu ngeemfuno zabo. Kwaye kunye namanye asemantombazaneni kwengqondo bayincoma ukuthetha nomlingane wabo.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zifumene ukuba ukungafuni ukujongana neengxaki okanye ukuhlehlisa isigqibo sabo kwisithuba esilandelayo akusayi kunceda kulwalamano. Emva koko, imiba eninzi kwiintlobano zesini isenokusombulula kuphela ngoncedo lomlingane.
Usosayensi owaziwayo waseMelika waseNew York, uSara White ubamba izigulane zakhe ezihlazo. Ngokuqhelekileyo izigulane zivula imiphefumlo yazo kwizengqondo zengqondo. Nanku ugqirha oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala uSara White uzimisele ukuzibeka phambi kwezigulane zakhe ngendlela engokoqobo. Okokuqala, i-psychologist idibana nezigulane kwiingubo. Ngeli bali labo, uqala ukuthatha iingubo zakhe. Ekugqibeleni, uthabatha i-panties yakhe kwaye asasaze imilenze yakhe. Ngokwe-psychologist yaseMerika, ubunqunu bangela abantu bangabi nanye. Ingxoxo edibeneyo ithatha abadibaniselwano kwi-core. Esinye iseshoni sonyango lwama-nude lixabiswa ngama-150. Ngendlela, ininzi yabathengi bakaSara White ngabafazi. Nangona izazi zeengqondo ziyabona le ndlela yokuphathwa kwengqondo njengononografi, kutheni ukuba iintloni ezithembekileyo zingaqinisekanga ngale nto. Intombazana inokudlala indima yesigulane, kwaye indima yodokotela ohambayo iya kufumana umfana. Kungenzeka ukuba le ndlela iyinguqulelo, kodwa le ndlela iza kunceda amantombazana anqobe ukunyaniseka kwendalo kwaye abe nengxoxo engathethekiyo ngesondo.
Amantombazana akafuni ukuthetha izihloko ezingenangqiqo, emva kokubandlulula. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ndixoxe ngokuthe ngqo. Ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuqala ingxoxo, mhlawumbi indoda ifuna le ixesha elide kwaye unengqondo yokuxhasa intombi yakhe. Nguloo mnye wamalingani ofuna ukufumana amandla kuye, kwaye uvule kuqala. Amantombazana akufanele akwesaba ukuthetha ngokucokisekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuxelela malunga nazo zonke iingxaki okanye iimfuno zakho. Akufanele kubekho iingxaki phakathi kwabantu abathandekayo abakhathazekayo. Ewe, kunye nomlingane akayi kubuhlungu ukuba afune ukuba yintoni ebenokwenza okungalunganga. Kungcono ukwabelana ngalesi siqingatha sesibini kunomhlobo.