Oku kuthetha ukuba, emva kokushiya isibeleko sikamama, umntwana usadingeka azive ewe kunye nawe. Ngoko kuyimvelo kwaye inempilo ukuncelisa umntwana. Thembela wena! Indlela yokufunda malunga neendlela ezisisiseko zokuncelisa, iya kunceda inqaku elithi "Ukuncelisa ukubeleka ngexesha lokukhulelwa".
Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, i-reflex yosesho iyajika ngokukhawuleza. Uzama ukukhwaza ngesisu esiswini ekufuneni ingono. Yaye ukuba uyayifaka kwisifubeni sakho ngeli xesha, ngoko kutywala, ngokuqhelekileyo akukho ziingxaki: konke kwenzeka ngokukodwa njengoko kuhloswe ngendalo. Kwingqondo yakho, okubizwa ngokuba yi-gestational dominant kusebenze: inkqubo yakho yonke ye-hormonal iqala ukusebenza kwimoqo yokuvelisa ubisi. Nangona kunjalo, ungakhathazeki ukuba i-script iyaphumeleli kwaye i-karapuz iyaziqonda amabele emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuzalwa. I-Instinct iya kuthatha! Umbeleki esibhedlele okanye iingcali zokuncelisa ziza kukubonisa indlela yokusebenzisa umntwana. Ukubanjwa ngokuchanekileyo kwebele kunomzuzu obalulekileyo. Umntwana kufuneka athathe emlonyeni, zombini ingono, kunye neninzi ye-areola. Emva koko ubisi luza kubakho ubuninzi obaneleyo, kwaye awuyi kuba nantoni na into ephazamisayo ngexesha lokutya. Kwamaxesha eSoviet, kwakukholelwa ukuba oomama kufuneka bafundiswe ukunyusa. Enyanisweni, akukho buchule. Akunzima kakhulu ukuqonda ukubetha okuchanekileyo. Yaye ukutya okufunekayo kuyinzame. Ayikwazi? Akunakuze ukhuthazelele nantoni na kwaye ucinge ukuba i-lactation iyinkohlakalo. Ezininzi iingxaki zixazululwa. Uya kuvuyela umphumo!
Ngaba ukhathazekile: kukho ubisi ngokwaneleyo? Cima i-alamu, kodwa ingento. Isifuba isebenza ngomgaqo "wokunikezelwa kwemfuneko". Xa usebenza ngakumbi umntwana usana, ubisi oluninzi luza. Ngoko yibeke kwi-squeak yokuqala! Oogqirha baye bashiya ikhefu leeyure ezintathu phakathi kokutya. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala umntwana ophilileyo uyadla ... okanye alele. Ngoko ungacingi ukuba akayi kuhlutha. Kukho inkqubo yendalo yokwenza utywala. Musa ukuphazamisa umntwana xa ekhala. Kungcono kumnike isifuba. Kuqhelekileyo, ukuba umntwana usetyenziswe yonke imizuzu engama-15-30 ngethuba le-"trimester yesine yokukhulelwa" Kamva, uya kukhetha indlela yakhe yokutya - nganye iiyure eziyi-2-3. I-postpone kude kube yimiba yonke yekhaya - awuyikunyuka kwiindawo ezixhaphakileyo ze-hostess. Vumelana nomyeni kunye nezihlobo malunga nokucoca nokupheka. Gxila kuphela ekutyaleni umntwana. Yaye uzame ukuziphumla ixesha elincinane. Ezinye iinyanga ezimbalwa - kwaye uza kuziva ukhululekile. Musa ukuyondla umntwana ngomxube kwaye ungadli amanzi kuze kube seenyanga ezintandathu. Ukuba ufumana into engeyiyo ubisi lukanina, ingono yakho ayiyi kukhuthazwa ngokwaneleyo, oko kuthetha ukuba ubuninzi bebisi buya kuncipha. Uyakhumbula umgaqo: "ukufunwa kwemfuno"?
Musa ukucima i-crumb yeli thuba lokufaka isicelo esiswini sakho kwakhona. Funda ukuveza. Ukubonakalisa isifuba "ekudleni kokugqibela" emva kokutya akudingekile. Kodwa zonke iintsana zifuna iimveliso zobisi. Akwanele, ngokukhawuleza umama uya kufuneka ahambe ngeeyure ezimbalwa! Ngoko fumana ipompo yebele. Musani ukuyeka izinto ezincinci zentombazana encinci. Kubusuku ubisi buza kuninzi. Inketho elula - ukulala kunye nosana (indawo ekhuselekileyo yentsana - phakathi kwodonga nonina). Emva koko uza kukwazi ukuphumla ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi, kwaye i-crumb iya kuvuya. Ngoku siyazi ukuba yintoni efanelekileyo yokuncelisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa.