Umntwana okhulile angadluliselwa kwi-4 ukutya ngosuku. Kwaye ngokulala, ngoko yonke into iyodwa. Abanye abantwana bafuna ukulala kabini ngosuku, kwaye omnye umntu akanako ukulala. Kodwa umntwana kule minyaka kufuneka ukuba alele ubuncinane kanye ngosuku. Ubude bobusuku bobusuku kufuneka bube ubuncinane kwiiyure eziyi-10-11.
Ukusebenzisa isitya
Unyaka o-1 kunye neenyanga ezi-3 ngumyinge xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba ebhodweni. Ngalesi sihlandlo sesisu sithintela umchamo obuninzi nangaphezulu. Kwaye ngolunye usuku, umama uyaqaphela ukuba sele sele iiveli ezimbini sele zikhona, kwaye i-panties yengane isomile. Lo ngumqondiso wokuthi umntwana ulungele ukuhamba ebhodweni. Njengomthetho, amantombazana enza oku ngaphambili kunamakhwenkwe.
Ngoku kakhulu kuxhomekeke kumama. Udinga ukuba nexesha lokubeka umntwana ebhodweni, kwaye ngokuthobeka kwaye engenakho ubundlobongela. Ngaphandle koko, angamthandi kakhulu kangangokuthi uya kufuneka akhohlwe ngokutya ixesha elide.
Le ndlela yenzelwe ukuba umntwana, ngexesha efika ebhodweni, uya kubhala ngokukhawuleza apho. Unina uya kumdumisa, kwaye uya kuziqhayisa. Uya kubhala kwakhona - kwakhona afumane inxalenye yokudumisa. Emva koko uya kuqonda oko unokukholisa umama, kwaye uya kuqala ukuhlala phantsi okanye acele ibhokhwe. Mhlawumbi uya kuqonda ukuba kungcono ukubhala apho kwaye uhlale omile kunokuhamba emanzini.
Enyanisweni, oku kulula ukubhala kumaphepha, kodwa ukuphumeza esi sicwangciso kunzima kakhulu. Isitoreji sibe nomonde nokunyamezela, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ubutyebi bakho kwithuba elithile luya kukhwela ngenkani. Uya kuhlala kwaye ahlale, kodwa uya kuvuka aze enze umsebenzi wakhe omanzi imitha ukusuka kwindawo efanelekileyo. Oku kuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo kwabantwana abaselula. Gweba oko akuyimfuneko. Nokuba ukuba kubonakala kuwe ukuba uyakwenza ukuba akuthethelele. Akunjalo. Mhlawumbi kuye le nkomo ayinakonwabatha okanye uyanqikaza ukubhala phambi komntu wonke kwaye ukhetha indawo epholileyo. Okanye mhlawumbi akuzange ikhule. Musa ukukhawuleza, ngokuqhelekileyo kubantwana olu buchule lusekwe yiminyaka emi-2, kwaye nangemva koko.
Igama elinye, amagama amabini
Ngonyaka omnye nesiqingatha, abantwana kufuneka baqonde intsingiselo yendaba elula emfanekisweni, bakwazi ukuphendula imibuzo elula. Ngeminyaka yobudala ukuya kwiminyaka emibini baqonda intsingiselo yegama elipheleleyo kwaye baqala ukwakha izivakalisi zegama elilodwa. Ngeentetho zabo, kubonakala inani elincinci lamagama, elisetyenziselwa ukuveza iminqweno kunye nokubonakala kwayo: "bi" - umatshini, hamba, "gu" - ukuhamba, amahobe, njl njl. Ngethuba elifanayo ukucacisa intsingiselo yabantwana basebenzise izenzo kunye nesigama. Ngenyanga yesi-20 entetho yomntwana kunokuba malunga nama-30 anjalo amagama angcambu.
Abantwana bafunda ukubiza ezinye iilwimi ezigxininisiweyo, o, y, kunye; kunye neendonon m, n, b, c, d, t, c, n, x, l. Ukudibaniswa kweentsana eziqhekezayo azikwazi ukubiza. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuphindaphinda izilwanyana ezimbini ezifanayo ("ha-ha", "tu-tu").
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuphuhliswa komntwana, nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba intetho yakhe ihambe ngokukhawuleza kwaye ingcono, kufuneka uhlale uthetha naye. Ngoku umntwana akakwazi ukuva nje kuphela, kodwa nokuqonda intsingiselo yamagama kunye namagama ngamagama. Yingakho kungabikho mfuneko yokuba ulale kunye nomntwana, ukuphazamisa amagama. Oku kusoloko kuphazamisa ukuphuhliswa kwezinto ezisiseko zokuthetha. Chaza ngokucacileyo kwaye ngokucacileyo izinto, musa ukuba novila ukuphinda amagama abo ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Nangona ungayiqondi into efunyanwa yinkwenkwe kukuxelela, khuthaza ukuba athobise. Ukuba uqonda umnqweno wengane, kufuneka uyivakalise ngamazwi. Xa, umzekelo, umntwana uzisa incwadi, umele umbuze: "Ngaba ufuna ukufunda?". Ukuba ingqwalasela yakhe iphendulwe kwi-plate - "Ngaba ufuna ukutya?". Ungazami kuzo zonke iindleko ukuxuba i-abracadabra, leyo inyana izama ukukuzisa yona. Mxelele ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba awuqondi nto. Makhe abe nenkuthazo yokuphucula.
Amathoyizi okanye izixhobo zokufundisa?
Abantwana abaninzi abaneminyaka eli-2 ukuya kwiminyaka emibini baqala ukusebenzisa amathoyizi athambileyo kumdlalo. Akunomdla kuphela, kodwa uncedo, kwaye unokuba ngabahlobo bokwenene abagcina ubusuku bakhe, iindwendwe zakhe etafuleni, abagibeli emotweni ezivela kwiihlalo. Kulo nyaka umntwana udinga iipopu ezifana nabantu, iinkcukacha, eziphathekayo, zeplastiki ezithambileyo okanye iingubo, zamehlo amakhulu kwaye iingubo ezidityanisiwe. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kusakazeka, kwaye ezinye iinkcukacha ezincinci zingalimaza umntwana.
Abantwana sele benomdla kwiimidlalo ezibonisa izinto zemihla ngemihla, umzekelo, isitofu, ibhodi ye-ironing, izitya kunye nokulala. Abantu baseMalchugane bathanda ukukhathazeka ngeekiti ezinkulu zokwakha kunye ne "Lego" abakwizinto ezincinci. Futhi ungakulibali malunga neekrayoni zokudweba kwi-asphalt, amatshini kunye namacwecwe eminwe, iimfowuni ezahlukeneyo kunye nee cubes.
Xa umntwana edlala ngakumbi, ukhawuleza umntwana ukhula. Ukusetyenziswa ngokufanelekileyo kwemidlalo kunenzuzo enkulu. Abantwana abanomntu obandakanyeka imihla ngemihla, bahlawule ngokukhawuleza, kwaye oku kuphawulekayo ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho. Enyanisweni, kukho iindondo kunye nokuphazamiseka komthwalo. Ukuba umntwana unamathoyizi amaninzi kunye "nootitshala", ukuba unyanzeliswa kwimigangatho ephezulu - umphumo unokungafani ngqo.
Kuwuphi umdlalo okhuthaza ukuphuhliswa komntwana ukususela kwiminyaka emibini ukuya kwiminyaka emibini yokudlala-ebaluleke kakhulu, akunjalo, ukuba umntwana kuphela ophume emdlalweni into encedo. Masibhale uluhlu olumnandi, olufanelekileyo le minyaka.
Creep phantsi kwentambo.
Hlanganisa intambo ekuphakameni kwama-25-35 ngamentimitha. Kumntwana ophantsi kwakhe, "uyamkhwelisa" ngetekisi ngaphesheya kwentambo. Phinda lo msebenzi 4-5 maxesha.
Hit the target.
Nika umntwana ibhola elincinane esandleni sakhe. Mbonise indlela yokuwuphonsa kwiskotyi, emi kude kumitha 1 ukusuka kuye. Ngoku makhe azame (kwaye amaxesha angama-4-6).
Fumana i sibini.
Umdlalo owenza imemori ebonakalayo kunye nokuphucula inkqubo yokukhumbula imibala. Zama ukuthatha iimbini ezimbalwa zeemittens, iisokisi okanye izicathulo. Thatha into enye, uze ubeke eceleni. Tyalela le nto kwintsana uze umcele ukuba athole enye into efana nale: "Ay-ay-ay! Zonke iiglavu zixhatshaziwe, ngaba uya kunceda ndiqokelele? ". Ukuba kunzima ukuba unqabile ukwenza oku, uncedo. Umzekelo, khawuqwalasele inani leempawu ezahlula izinto - iphethini, ubukhulu, umbala, njl. Mnike enye into esuka kwinqwaba kwaye ubone ukuba unokufumana ididi.
Ukutshintshwa.
Beka phambi komntwana izitya ezimbini, enye yazo ezaliswe kuqala ngamanzi, kwaye ushiye enye ingenanto. Bonisa indlela ehamba ngayo kunye ncediso lwe-enema yezempilo okanye isiponji ukuba uthele ngobumnene amanzi ukusuka kwesitya esinye ukuya kwesinye. Nika ingqalelo kwintsholongwane yomntwana kunye nezandi zokutshiza, ngokusasaza kweza kunye nokuhla.
Amapokethi.
Kwinqaba leengubo okanye intsimbi enomsila uhlawula iipokotshi zezixhobo ezahlukeneyo: ingaba yinqwelo yeoli, i-polyethylene okanye i-mesh. Kulezi ziko ezingafani neepokotshi, unako ukudibanisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzibophezela: iqhosha elinomsila, i-velcro, i-zipper, ukukhwela, isaphetha, isikhonkco. Tyalela esi sakhiwo eludongeni okanye ngasecaleni lomkhumbi, uze ubonise umntwana ukuba usepokothini unokubamba iqela lezinto ezincinci ezahlukeneyo kunye nemidlalo.
Uthando lweNkundla
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe. Geza izandla zakho, uhlambe amazinyo akho uze uqoqe amathoyizi. Ukuba izakhono zombini zokuqala uninzi oomama abakhumbulayo, zithe saaza kuzo zonke iifayili zendawo. Njengoko, usemncinci, uya kukhula - funda. Ngoko ubeka umngcipheko ekunciphiseni umhlobo wakho. Emva koko, kwaziwa ukuba kulula ukufaka umntwana kwikhono ukususela ebuntwaneni. Umntwana, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuba novila aze amelane. Kodwa abazali kufuneka babonise ukuguquguquka nokunyamezela.
Futhi ukuba ngumzekelo kuye kwaye uhlale uhlambulula izinto zakho naye. Masibe "ishishini lakhe". Chaza ukuba wonke umntu unembopheleleko, kwaye ngoku baya kuyenza. Usele mkhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bayonwabile ukuvunyelwa ukuzalisekisa uxanduva lwabo "abadala". Amathoyizi ahlambulukileyo kunye nosana, kodwa kungekhona. Yaye, ukucoca, cacisa isizathu sokuba wenza oku. Mnike imisebenzi ecacileyo: faka ibhokisi kwi-shelf, uze ufake ibhola kwi-drawer. Kwasemntwaneni kwakulula ukuhamba, apho yonke into ifanele ixoke khona, kwiibhokisi kunye neebhokisi, unamathisele amacebo-mifanekiso. Faka umdlalo othakazelisayo ukwenza ukucocwa kube nqwenela. Kwaye zonke iindlela zenza ucoceko isithethe esisigunyaziso ngaphambi kokulala. Oku akuququzeleli kuphela, kodwa kunzima kumntwana.
Ukuphuhliswa kweenqwelo-mali zomntwana ukusuka kwinye ukuya kweyimihla emibini
- Uhamba kwaye uhamba kakuhle ngokwaneleyo;
- ngovuyo ukunyuka izitebhisi;
- unokuyisela kwindebe ngokwakhe;
- uqala ukutya ngokwakho usebenzisa i-spoon.
Uphuhliso lwengqondo lomntwana
- unokusebenzisa impawu okanye izandi ukubonisa uthando, umdla, ukwesaba okanye inzala;
- uyazi kakuhle umda phakathi kokungavunyelwe kwaye kuvunyelwe;
- ngaphambi kokuba upapa nonina babonise ukuthobela, banokucela umama ukuba aphenduke ukuze adlale iinqanaba;
- ukuba izalamane zithetha ngokuthe ngqo kunye naye, zize zibuze umtshato wakhe. Ekuphenduleni, ufuna ubungqina bothando.
Izixhobo zokuphucula ngengqondo yomntwana ukusuka kwinye ukuya kwiminyaka emibini
- unokubhekisela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ezikhulunywe ngokuzwakalayo;
- uyayiqonda imifanekiso elula;
- ibonisa kwinto yokudlala, umlomo kunye neempumlo;
- uzama ukusebenzisa iipensele;
- ukuguqa, ukuphakamisa ithoyizi kwaye uyithwala ukusuka kwindawo ukuya kwindawo.