Yintoni elindele emva komtshato? Ndingamkela njani le nyaniso? Ngaba ungayi kulahlekelwa intsingiselo yobomi kwaye ungayilungisi ingxaki kunye nentlungu yayo?
Uqhawulo luhlala luhlambalaza, lugxininisekile, ludidekile ebomini kunye neqabane, intlungu kunye nokulangazelela.
Kodwa, inqaku lethu liya kukufundisa indlela yokuphila, emva kokuqhawula umtshato. Ungathini isibindi emva komtshato? Ucela, ngaba kungenzeka, akunjalo? Mhlawumbi into ephambili kukuba ubonise umnqweno omkhulu wokuhlala uqine kwaye ube nesibindi emva komtshato!
Umgaqo wokuqala: yithi "akukho" ukuzisola . Funda ukuhlala ngokuzithemba ukuba uhlala wenza konke, njengoko kuyimfuneko. Nangona wenza iimpazamo, kuthetha ukuba ubomi bukufundisa ukuba ungenzi njani kwixesha elizayo. Umtshato wakho uyamkelwa njengenyaniso. Zama ukuthatha kuyo into enhle. Zama ukuba nesibindi.
Akukho zikhumbuzo ezibuhlungu zexesha elidlulileyo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba uchitha ubusika bakho ngokumamkela ngomlotha kwaye ukhumbule indlela owonwabile ngayo - oku kuya kukunceda ube nesibindi emva komtshato? Musa ukuzikhangela. Iphupha elingakumbi malunga nekamva - lonwabo nohle.
Khumbula ukuba awukho ilungu elenzakele . Ngaba ucinga ukuba wena ulixhoba? Ngaba uyazixolisa? Ewe, ukuba ufuna, yiba nesihawu kuwe. Kodwa, ngokuhlwa nje kuphela. Akukazanga ukuba ngubani ovulekileyo: umyeni wakho, owashiya akacaci, kuphi okanye kuwe-intokazi enhle kunye nantlonelo ngoku unelungelo lokunandipha ubomi kunye noluntu.
Oko kungasibulali - kusenza sibe namandla. Kwaye, esinye esinye isizathu sokuba nesibindi emva komtshato.
Ukuziphatha komfazi emva komtshato.
Uhlaselwa ngumsindo onobuhlungu nobuhlungu. Kubonakala ngathi ihlabathi lonke liye lawa, kwaye ushiywe wodwa ngentlungu yakho. Wakhe wangcatshisa othandekayo kunye nomntu othandekayo.
Amantombazana, izidalwa ezithandekayo nezihle, zama ukuba nesibindi emva kokuqhawula umtshato, zithembele ngokwakho. Wena uyidalwa enhle kunazo zonke zoPhezukonke. Ziqhayisa ukuba ungumfazi. Umlingane owayesakuba ngumyeni uya kuba soyika kakhulu ukuba yena ngokwakhe ulahlekelwe ngumfazi onjengawe.
Jonga imeko ngamehlo ahlukeneyo. Ingxaki yaphazamisa ubomi bakho kwaye, mhlawumbi, yakusindisa kuloo mntu ongafanelekanga ingqalelo yakho.
Ukwahlukana ngumsindo onamandla kwingqondo yengqondo. Kodwa, kufuneka sihlale sisesandleni kwaye senze konke okusemandleni ethu ukuba sibe nesibindi. Musa ukuziphoqa ekhoneni, fumana intsingiselo ebomini.
Yonwaba -chitha ixesha kunye nabalingane okanye abahlobo. Akukho mntu owake wakhathazwa yinkampani enomdla, ukuhleka nokuzonwabisa.
Ukudlala ngothando nabantu, ncwina kubadluli-uya kuqinisekiswa ukuba uhlukile.
Ngethuba lexesha owabe kunye naloo mlingane wangaphambili, wachitha njani ixesha lakho lokukhulula? Izindlu ezinesinyithi ngesandla okanye esitofu? Ngoku akudingeki ukuba wenze oku. Yintoni owaliphupha ngayo ebusheni bakho? Yintoni ongenayo ixesha lokuyenza? Cinga ngolu hlobo - ngoku unethuba lokuguqulela iingcamango zakho namaphupha.
Umsebenzi uyindlela enhle yokuzibhenca ekudakaleni kwaye uqaphele ukuba ufuna abanye kwaye uthembele kuwe.
Masiqokelele, ukuze sibe nesibindi emva kokuqhawula umtshato, musa ukuvumela uxinzelelo lwamazwe ngamaqiniso kunye neenyaniso, ungayithandi ukuba ungene kuyo. Umi emngceleni wobomi obutsha. Kwaye nokuba uya kuvuyiswa okanye adlule ekulangazeleleni ubudlelwane obulahlekileyo - kufike kuwe.
Ndiqinisekile ukuba uthanda wena kwaye unqwenela kuphela okulungileyo kakhulu. Khumbula ukuba ungumfazi oqinileyo - uyakha ubomi ngezandla zakho.
Impumelelo kunye nenhlanhla kuwe kwimpilo yakho entsha, inkululeko, i-Amazon enesibindi!