Uthando lwamahhala kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje

Uninzi lwabantu luphendula umbuzo othi "Iyintoni intsingiselo yobomi?" Ngokukhululeka kwaye ngaphandle kokungabaza, kungakhathaliseki ukuba nokholo, umbala wesikhumba, ubuzwe, imigaqo yokuziphatha, iya kuphendulwa ngokukhawuleza-uthando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kudlula ixesha elingakanani, iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu okanye ikhulu, iminyaka engapheliyo, uthando luye kwaye luhlala luyinto ebalulekileyo ebomini bomntu.

Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo, uthando emhlabeni luzalisa ubomi bentlalo ngentsingiselo, lubangela ukudala izinto zobugcisa kwiinkcubeko kunye nobugcisa, ukuqhubezela ukuxhaphaza, kubangele banovuyo. Uthando luyintaba yeemvakalelo ezinokubangela abantu ukuba benze izinto, ngamanye amaxesha bahlaziyeke, ngamanye amaxesha bahle, abaye bacinga ukuba akunakwenzeka. Uthando alinaso ixesha, akukho mingcele, akukho thintelo, uthando lunikeza amaphiko kwaye luvusela ezulwini abaye bafumana le mvakalelo engenakulinganiswa. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, njengokuba kunjalo, uthando luye lwahlukileyo kwaye umntu ngamnye ubonakalisa uthando ngezindlela ezahlukeneyo. Kwabanye abantu, iingcamango zothando kunye nenkululeko zizinxalenye ezingenakulinganiswa ngokupheleleyo, okubizwa ngokuba yintando yamahhala. Ngaloo thando akukho zithintelo xa ukhetha iqabane lezesondo, ingqiqo yokunyaniseka enjalo ayikho. Abantu abaphila ngomgaqo wolu thando, kholelwa ukuba a maqabane akufanele adibanise inkululeko yomnye nomnye. Ubukhwele ngabo bubonakaliso bumnini ngobunini ngokumalunga nomnye umntu.

Uthando lwamahhala luhlobo lwenselele kuluntu kwimimiselo ediniweyo yothando nomtshato. Uthando lwamahhala kwihlabathi lanamhlanje luyihlabathi elikufutshane nalabo abanombono onjalo wothando. Kulo lonke ihlabathi, ukunyuswa kwentsha kuyadalwa exhasa ezo ngcamango. Ukuba ujikeleza kwiminyaka engama-60 yekhulu elidlulileyo, unokufumana ukufana okufanayo kunye nee-hippies, ezaba nombono onjalo wehlabathi. Inomdla kukuba le yangoku inayo uphawu, uphawu lothando lwamahhala - luyibobhu ebomvu neyemhlophe. Enye yeembonakaliso zothando lwamahhala kwihlabathi lanamhlanje liyagijima. Ukuguquka ngumhlobo wobomi kwezinye izibini. Ukuguquka kubandakanya ukutshintshiselana kwezithandana zesini, okuphawulekayo nothando lwamahhala kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Kuba ngababini abambini, iiklabhu ezizodwa ze-swing zidalwe, ubulungu bokuba bubonisa ubungqina bombutho osisigxina kunye nemvume yabo yokujoyina iqela, apho bangachitha ixesha elihle kwaye baqhelane namaqabane asebenzayo.

Ukukwazi ukuguqulwa kwenzeka kwiiklabhu ezizodwa kuphela, kodwa nakulo lolwandle, i-discotheques, iivenkile. I-swing ineempawu zayo zokuziphatha kunye nemithetho yokuziphatha, yintoni evunyelweyo kunye nento engekhoyo, kwaye idla ngokuxutyushwa ngaphambi kokuba utshintshisane kunye namaqabane akhethiweyo. Kwakhona kukho imilinganiselo yokukhawuleza yokuziphatha. Abagijimi banemiyalelo yabo kwaye eyona nto yintloko kukuba akunakwenzeka ukuzama ukutshabalalisa umtshato womnye. Abaguqayo bakholelwa ukuba babhekisela kwizibini ezikhethekileyo eziphezulu kwimigaqo yokuziphatha yentlalo kunye nabangenayo ubudlelwane obufanayo phakathi kwabatshatileyo. Kweminye, ukuguquka kuyindlela ephathekayo, kuba umntu uyindlela yokuphila. Ukubonakaliswa kothando lwamahhala luba luye lwaziwa kakhulu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Ngothando olungasimahla kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, imisebenzi eminingi ibhaliwe, iingoma zeengoma ziye zaculwa, ngaphezulu kwefilimu enye idutshulwe. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba uthando lwamahhala lunika inkululeko yesenzo kunye nokukhetha, ngelixa abanye bengavumelani nalokhu kwaye bakholelwa ukuba uthando lokwenene luzinikelo kunye nokunyaniseka kumlingane omnye, ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Ezi ngxabano ziza kuhlala zize kubekho uthando emhlabeni. Nangona kunjalo ukuba kukho iimbono ezininzi zothando emhlabeni, lihlala liziva lihle kakhulu. Uthando, kwaye ubomi bakho buya kuzaliswa ngentsingiselo, kuya kukhanya ngakumbi!