Yintoni enayo engenaye? Kutheni enako, kodwa mna? Ngulo mbuzo ovusa ivakalelo ezinengqiqo kunye nezobugwenxa, ngezinye izihlandlo ezizisa iingxaki ezininzi kulabo abangenasicatshulwa ngcamango efanayo. Amaxesha avusa umona wokuncintisana, ubunzima, kodwa ezininzi zazo zihambelana nokubonakala (sithetha ngobuhle kunye nomfanekiso) kunye nesondo.
Ubuhle
Amadoda nabasetyhini bahle xa bathanda isondo esahlukileyo. Ukuqonda umfazi / umntu njengomlingani walo, singalokothi senze iphutha malunga nokuba yeyiphi isiqingatha esifanelekileyo.
Ukuba sithetha ngemilinganiselo yobuhle bemvelo kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo, imbali ibonisa ukuba iisampuli, imigangatho yobuhle iyatshintsha kakhulu kumazwe ahlukeneyo nakwizizwe. Ukongeza kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ezibonakalayo kubantu abangenawo umzimba womzimba, kwaye "nomyinge" ekubonakaleni, kukho ezinye, ukutshintsha okukhethwa kwenkcubeko.
KwiGrisi naseRoma, imilinganiselo yobuhle besilisa neyesifazana yayingabonakaliyo kwimilinganiselo yekhulu le-20 leminyaka, iminyaka yobudala yentuthuko ye-Olimpiki. NgeMinyaka Ephakathi, unokwazi ukubona indlela yokugcwalisa (umzekelo, kwimifanekiso yeRubens), kunye nokuvelisa (imifanekiso yabaphathi be-Dutch, umzekelo, oomama abakhulelweyo).
Ngaphakathi kwekhulu lemashumi mabini, imilinganiselo yobuhle bomzimba ibonakala iphilile kwaye ilingana. Okwangoku, "imfashini ephezulu" iyaqhubeka nokuvakalisa umgangatho wobungqina besifazana, njengomntu onqabileyo, ophezulu kakhulu.
Ukongezelela kubuhle bobuhle, umongo wokuziphatha, ukomoya owenziwe kwinkcubeko yabantu. Olu hlobo lusetyenziswa kubantu, kungakhathaliseki ubudala kunye nobulili, kwaye sinquma isimo sengqondo ngokubhekiselele kubulumko, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukuhlonipha umntu.
Umntu omkhulu
Kuye kwacatshulwa ixesha elide ukuba ubukho bomntu omhle akusiyo nje into, kodwa kuyimfuneko. Abafilosofi abaninzi bexesha elidlulileyo babanjwe ngombono weli nani. Ngelo xesha, ubukho bomfanekiso omhle wawungeyena umnqweno womntu. Umfanekiso omhle wawumfuneko nje.
Ngokubhekiselele kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, singatsho ukuba ngoku kukho uhlobo oluthile lomzimba omhle, kodwa isibalo asisekho indima enjengexesha lika-Aristotle. Kodwa inzala kwindawo elungileyo ayisoze yaphela. Oku kuya kuchazwa njani?
USigmund Freud uthe umntu uphila ubomi bakhe ngezinto ezimbini: ukutya kunye nokwaneliseka ngokwesondo. Isalathisi sichaphazela njani na? Ewe eyona ngqo! Ukuze ube nomfanekiso omhle, kubalulekile ukutya ngokufanelekileyo kunye nokufaneleka, kuyimfuneko ukuyidla, umzekelo, inani elaneleyo lezityalo, imifuno kunye neminye imveliso, kuba ukutya okuhlukeneyo kunokunceda umzimba ube nemali efunekayo yezondlo ezihlukeneyo, umzekelo, iivithamini.
Xa kunqongophala kwezinto ezikhankanywe apha ngasentla zichongwa ukusebenzisa izongezo zokutya ezahlukeneyo. Ulungelelwaniso ngokubhekiselele kokufumaneka kwamacandelo ahlukeneyo kukutya kwezondlo. Iqwalasela ubukho bazo zonke iimveliso zamakhemikhali eziyimfuneko ekuphuhliseni kakuhle. Qaphela ukuba abagijimi banokuziqhayisa ngomfanekiso wabo, kwaye oku akufanelekanga kuphela kuba bahlala beqeqeshwa.
Ubomi bentlobano
Ngokuphathelele ukuxhaswa ngokwesondo, kuyisidenge ukuphika isidingo somfanekiso omhle ukufeza le njongo. Indima ebalulekileyo ekuhloleni ubulili bomntu ongaqhelekanga idlala ngumfanekiso. Ngokomzekelo, intombazana esemntwini xa ihlolisisa idatha yomzimba (umzobo) inomtsalane nobukho bomnxeba womntu wesithathu, obizwa ngokuba ngumntu onamahlombe amaninzi aneemfumba ezincinci. Namela ingqalelo yamanqaku amaninzi, kodwa ngelixesha elifanayo ukubonakaliswa okugqithiseleyo kwenkalo. Kwakhona kufuneka kugwenywe, ngaphandle koko ayiyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na into entle.
Uyakwazi ukubona imizimba emihle kwiTV. Ngokukodwa kwiintengiso kunye ne-cinema. Kunzima ukucinga naluphi na umabonakude wezenzo ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwenkqubo ye-protagonist ngokulinganayo.
Njengomthetho, ukunyamekela umlinganiso wakhe kufana neentlobo zamantombazana, njengamadoda, ngoku akulula ukufumana indoda enomfanekiso omhle. Kunzima ukuthetha nokuba kulungile okanye akunjalo. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha le-Aristotle ekhankanyiweyo ngasentla, kwakunzima ukufumana indoda eyayingakhathaleli ukubonakala kwayo, isibalo nezinye izinto. Idibaniswe kwindawo yokuqala kunye nenyaniso yokuba inkcubeko yeso sihlandlo yayiyinto yobungqingili. Imitshato phakathi kwendoda nomfazi yayimvelo kwaye yayimfuneko kuphela ukuqhubeka kwentsapho. Ixesha litshintsha! Namhlanje, ubungqingili bulahlekelwe ukufaneleka kwexesha lika-Aristotle kunye nesidingo somfanekiso omhle kuluntu (phakathi kwamadoda) uye wehla ngokuphawulekayo. Ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwendoda nomfazi bendabuko, kwaye ngoku ku funeka kuqatshelwe ukuba ibhinqa lendoda litshitshiswe kuphela ngumfanekiso. Oku kunciphisa isidingo somzimba omhle.
Okwangoku, kukho iingcebiso ezininzi zokuphucula umzimba, kukho iitoni zobuchule ezikuvumela ukuba ulungelelanise lo mfanekiso. Ezi zixhobo zincinci kakhulu, i.e. "umxube" weenkqubo ezahlukeneyo, ukusetyenziswa kunye nokutya.
Kudla ngokwaneleyo ukulungisa umlinganiselo wokunciphisa ubunzima. Kwi-90% yamatyala, iifowuni zendawo kunye nokunciphisa umzimba kunxulumene nokuphulwa kwe-carbohydrates metabolism. Kubonakala ukuba ihomoni ekhutshwe yi-pancreas-insulin idlala indima ephambili kwinkqubo yokuhambisa i-fat fatcut. Ukutya kukukhokelela ekukhululweni kwe-insulin ngokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kokutya kwe-glucose egazini. I-insulin ikhuthaza ukuhlanganiswa kwamafutha kwaye ibimbela ukucoca kwabo kwiiseli ezinamafutha. Ngoko ke, kwiimeko ezininzi, akunakwenzeka ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngaphandle kokususa i-block insulin. Kwaye kuphela xa izinga le-insulin lincipha, iinkqubo zokuqhekeza amafutha kunye nokukhutshwa kwamafutha e-acids avela kwiiseli. Isisindo esiphezulu ngokwenene sinengxaki enkulu, njengoko ingaba yimfuneko yezifo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Kwaye izicwangciso ezixhoma zibonakala ngathi zihle kakhulu.
Iimeko eziqhelekileyo kwixesha la kutshanje, kukuthakazelisa ngokubanzi kunye nabemi bezemidlalo ezifana nokwakha umzimba. Leli gama elithetha isiNgesi lisamkelwa lula kwiilwimi zesiRashiya, ukuba uzama ukuyiguqulela kwiwethu, ngoko kuya kuzwakala ngathi ukwakha umzimba (umfanekiso). Eyona nto imnandi ngokuphuhliswa kwesibalo sithinteka ngokubhukuda, ngenxa yesi sizathu, asifanele sikhohlwe ngokufumaneka kwamachibi okubhukuda. Ngoku kukho zonke iimeko ezifunekayo zokulahlekelwa kwesisindo kunye nezinye iinkqubo ekugqibeleni ezikhokelela ekuphuculeni komfanekiso, into eyona nto kukuba umnqweno wokuphucula lo mfanekiso awupheli!
Njengoko ubona, yonke into isezandleni zethu. Kananjalo unokuphucula nganye, ngoko kutheni umona, ukuba unokwenza?