Intombazana enomdla i-swaddles i doll, iyondla kwi-spoon, idibana kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile kwaye ifundisa imithetho yokuziphatha kakuhle. Ngaloo ndlela, ngamnye umntwana ulungiselela impilo yabantu abadala. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazivele ngokwabo kule mdlalo baphumelele kwaye bathemba. Imidlalo kumantombazana, iintombi zomama - isihloko sokupapashwa.
Ukuxelisa ukuhlaziywa
Umdlalo kwintombi yomama udla ngokuqala ukususela kokungeniswa kokutya okuqhelanisiweyo: ..Lady porridge i-mishutka, i-spoon-Ole. "Ezi zenzo ezilula, umntwana uyaziphinda ngokwakhe. Ngokwenene, umxholo 'wokunyamekela' - into ephambili yokudlala kumama wentombi, . Ngokukhawuleza xa i-crumb iyakhathalela iipopu, i-hare-harered hare, okanye idoli (kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingaba yithwala kuphela ithoyiyitha kunye nayo itye), umntu unokuthi enye inyathelo elongezelelweyo ithathelwe ukuba likhule.
• Isigaba sokuqala somdlalo (iminyaka eyi-1,5-2) kukuxelisa imeko elula imihla ngemihla: i-crumb idla i doll, i-lulls, i-bathes.
• Kwinqanaba lesibini (ukususela kwiminyaka emithathu), intsana ayisayikhipheli nje iikopi ezenziwa ngabantu abadala, kodwa ibuye idlale imifanekiso. Idoli okanye ibhere lingasuka kwi-spoon nge-porridge, ingaba yinto engabonakaliyo, isaba okanye ihleke. Inkomo yenkomo, inwabile, iyabagweba.
• Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 ukuya ku-6 ubudala odlala kwiintombi zikamama, kunye nabantwana abakhulileyo sele befuna iontanga. Umdlalo uba ngumdla wendaba. Ubonakalisa ikhono lomntwana ukuba aphinde aphinde aphinde, ukukopisha indlela abanye abaziphatha ngayo. Ngamanye amaxesha umama wentombi uyadlala kwaye abafana, nangona kunjalo, indima ebelwe kubo ayiyi kuba yintloko. Umdlalo utata uya emsebenzini, uya kuhambo loshishino okanye uya kwimfazwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amanye amakhwenkwe athokoza ukudlala ngeedodoli, kodwa le nto yokuzilibazisa idla ngokufutshane. Kodwa kumantombazana eneminyaka engama-4-6 ubudala, unina-ntombi ngumdlalo oyintloko kunye oyintandokazi oya kulahleka kumdlalo "repertoire" ukuya kwinqanaba lokuqala okanye kwangoko - ukuya kwiklasi yesihlanu.
Ubaba onakekelayo
Ukuba inkwenkwe idlala needodoli ... Kuqhelekileyo! Xa uneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala, abafana, njengontanga yabo, banomdla "bafundise" umntwana, bamondla ngepuni kunye nokuhamba kunye nomqhubi. Lo mdlalo udonsa unceda umntwana ukuba akhuphe ngokomzwelo. Ufumana amava amatsha, ezama iinxaxheba ezahlukeneyo zentlalo: uyise kumdlalo, unina wentombi, ugqirha, ukuba ngaba abantwana badlala esibhedlele .Umntu ongeyena (izenzo zonke ezenzelwe ukuzonwabisa) wenza ukuba umcabango usebenze ngokwengeziwe. Ngoxa uncedo lwamapopu kunye neepopu, abafana, njengamantombazana, bafunda ukuqonda nokusebenzisana nehlabathi. ithuba wena hamba ukusuka ngaphandle kwaye ngaxeshanye ukuqonda omnye, ephelisa uhlobo ngokwasengqondweni, ngokuthi "ukwenza phandle" iingxabano.
Thenga idoli
Iphoyinti yokuqala kufuneka inikezwe kwinto engaphantsi kweyure kunye nesiqingatha. Kuze kube lelo xesha, umntwana uya kumphatha njengamanye amathoyizi, ezama ukuqonda ukuba uthanda ntoni. Ngokukhawuleza idodoli eyabiza iya kudibaniswa kwezinye iindawo. Kamva inkwenkwe, ibukele iindawo ezikuyo, ifumanisa ukuba nale nto yokudlala ingenza ezinye izinto ezinomdla. Ukuhlamba, ukuguqula iimpahla - ezinjalo zokuphatha umntwana uya kuphinda rhoqo imihla. Ngoko kweli nqanaba lokuqondwa kwehlabathi, ezifanelekileyo kakhulu azizona zihle kakhulu, kodwa njengemidlalo yokusebenza. Ngokomzekelo, iidonki ezigqithisileyo, ezithambileyo kunye ezimnandi kumgca. Okanye amathoyizi ezenziwe ngeeplastiki eziguqukayo ezihlambulukileyo. Intombazana engaphezu kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala kufuneka isele ithenge idodoli eneenwele ezinde, ezinokuhlamba, ezidibeneyo kwaye ziboshwe kwii-pigtails. Xa ukhetha umdlalo, jonga ukuba akuyi kuba ngumqhubi weemvakalelo zengqondo, ukucinga ngomntwana, kodwa uya kushiya uphawu kumpawu zalo. Ukudideka kwemifanekiso yabasetyhini nabantwana, uphawu lweedodoli zanamhlanje, ziphazamisa i-crumb: nokuba unakekele idoli, okanye uzame ukufana naye. Abaninzi beengqondo zeengqondo bancoma ukuba bayeke iidokodo ezibonisa abesetyhini abadala. Emva kwakho konke, u-Masha, uBarbie okanye uKatyya akudingeki ukunakekelwa ngumama. Ngoko ke, umdlalo wendabuko kumama wentombi kunye nawo awuyi kusebenza. Ekuqalekeni, kulungile. Nangona kunjalo, kusebuntwaneni ukuba imodeli yokuziphatha komama izayo ibekwe. Umgaqo owodwa: idonki ayidingi ukulala ngesondo. Ingane iyigqiba isigqibo sokuba ngubani uya kuba ngumdlalo.
Ukuhamba nomqhubi
Emva kweminyaka engama-2-3 umdlalo ngokuthe kancinci uba nzima, kukho imfuno yezifundo ezintsha. Ngokomzekelo, ngoncedo lweempahla zokudlala ungazilungiselela ukusela itiye. Oku akumnandi nje, kodwa nesifundo esibalulekileyo. Ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinane zezithuthi, umntwana ufumana ingcamango yombhalo: ufunda ukuthulula amanzi, ukuyeka ngexesha. Enye into esetyenziswe kumdlalo ukususela kumlinganiselo ofanayo ngumqhubi. Ukuhamba nomqhubi weetoyi kuphucula izakhono ezinkulu zomntwana, kukhulisa ukuxhamla, kuba umntwana kufuneka aphenduke, wehla aze akhuphuke.
Sibheke kuzo zombini!
Kubazali, umdlalo kumama wentombi unokuba yindawo yokugcina yolwazi olufanelekileyo. Ukubona okungekho mboniso womdlalo wentombazana (unyana) kunye nedonop kuya kukuvumela ukuba wazi kangcono umntwana wakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaphazamisi kwisenzo kwaye ungabikho izimvo kwizinto ezenzekayo. Kulo mdlalo kunye nedonsa, umntwana wenza iindima ezimbini - iintombi kunye nonina. Ukuthetha idoli, iingubo ezidangayo ("Andifuni ukuya enkulisa!"), Uloyiko ("Ndiyesaba ubumnyama"), intukuthelo ("Uthembise ukuba uya nami kwi-zoo!") Kodwa ingqalelo ngakumbi inomdla womama. uthetha nomntwana? Ngaba uhlala ehlazileyo okanye ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kwakhe? Ingaba uyayinyamekela umntwana okanye nje uyayinyamekela? Ngaba unomama udumisa ngokubalulekayo? Inomdla kakhulu kunye nomdlalo odibeneyo kwiintombi zomama. Xa udlala idonsa, inkunzi iya kuphendula imibuzo, enokukhathalelayo (unokubuza idonki into engayithandiyo, indlela evakalelwa ngayo). Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana omncinci uphosa isantya kwisitolo, ngolunye usuku olulandelayo, mcele ukuba adlale indima yomzali. Unokunyaniseka ngokubonakalisa into engabonakaliyo, kodwa akunakulungeleka ukulingana neemeko zangempela-umntu omncinci uyazicingela.
Yintoni emdlalweni kufuneka uqaphele?
• Ugonyamelo olunamandla. Ukuphazamiseka kukuphazamisa okanye kukuphula idoli. Esi sihlandlo sokucinga, mhlawumbi ukhethe indlela yokuziphatha engqongqo kunye nosana, uyimjezisa kakhulu ngenxa yokungaziphathi kakuhle.
• Ukuphindaphinda amabali. Umntwana ulahlekelwa yimeko efanayo. Ngokomzekelo, intombi iphinda iphinda idlwengule kwakhona: "Uyintombazana embi, kufuneka ucele ibhokhwe!" Uninzi lwabo, ngokufuna kwabo umntwana ukuba bazifundele ebhodweni, abazali bawunqamle intonga. Umdlalo ubonisa ukulwa, ukuxabana, ingozi kwisitrato, ukudlala le mizuzu kuya kunceda umntwana akhuphe iinkumbulo eziyikrakra.
• Iinjongo zesondo. Ukuba kukho "izibhedlele zokulala" kumdlalo, awudingi ukuchukumiswa yi-little-know-all, kodwa ukubuyela kumntwana wengqondo yengqondo. Olu lwazi olufunyenwe ngaphambi kwexesha lunokulimaza i-psyche.