Kwaye saqhaqhaza - kwaye sabelana nawe ngokubona kwethu! Ukuphuhliswa kwamabhinqa kumntu wesetyhini luhlobo oluthile olufanelekileyo.
Izambatho ezinqamleleyo - ingaba ingubo, ingubo okanye ingqayi - ibonakala ingathandeki kwaye ingabonakali. Oku kuqinisekiswa komnye wamadoda esixoli-ndlebe naye kuye kwasithusa. Emva koko, kubonakala ngathi kunokukhohlisa ngaphezu kwesambatho esifanelekileyo? Ukongezelela ngakumbi - izifundo ze karate, izindonga ze-shpaklevku kunye nokubhema utshayi, abanye abameli besondo esomeleleyo babecinga njengomsebenzi wamabhinqa! Ekugqibeleni ndiqinisekile ngokungazi kwimiqondo yengqondo yabantu, sagqiba ekubeni senze uluhlu lweendlela eziphambili zobuntombi. Ngokusekelwe kwiseshoni eqhutywe (kubandakanye emakhwenkwe namantombazana), sakwazi ukuchonga iimpawu ezingama-20 zendoda. Ewe, akunakwenzeka ukuthotyelwa ngokupheleleyo kuyo yonke imigaqo. Ngoko ungathathi luhlu lwethu kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukungawuthobeli ngokupheleleyo iinqwenelelo zesahlulo somntu akusiyo isigqibo esona sichanekileyo. Kule meko, njengabanye abaninzi, kufuneka ufumane umgangatho ophakathi.
Ibhinqa elifanelekileyo
Ngaphandle kwenkcubeko efanayo, kunokukho iinkcazelo ezininzi zezinto ezinjengobuntombi. Indoda enye iyachukumiseka ngabafazi abaqhubekayo nabazithembayo ababeka impumelelo yabo yobugcisa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. Enye into ethobekileyo, ezolile, igxininise kwindlu kunye nabantwana. Oomama bethu bahlala becebisa ukuba sibe namandla, kodwa bengabhaqwa ngabantu. Emva kwabo kufuneka udlale indima yentyatyambo yesondlo ekhuselekayo, enesidingo nenkxaso. Ngaba namhlanje le ngcebiso ayifanelekanga? Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukulibala izinto ezichasene nathi. Okokuqala, kufuneka sibe yinyaniso kuthi, ukuthanda kwethu, imbono yethu ebomini, iinkolelo zethu nemigaqo. Kuthekani ukuba ngaba bengabonakali kumntu? Into ephambili kukuba sikhululekile, oko kuthetha ukuba siya kuvuya ngakumbi!
Ubumnandi bemvelo kwaye ucacisiwe
Musa ukuzigijima uze uzame ukubheka zonke i-100! Lo mgaqo ufikelela kunoma yimuphi ummandla wobomi bakho: ukuphumla, ikhaya, umsebenzi. Kwinkoliso yamadoda amaninzi (kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo!) Amantombazana angenayo kunye neentlanzi. Khumbula ukuhlutha. Ngokutsho kophando lwemarike, ngexesha lokubanda, ukuthengiswa kwezinto ezonakalisayo kuwela malunga nama-70%, kodwa ubusika akusona isizathu. Uhambo olulandelayo ukuya kwi-cafe okanye i-cinema lunokuphelisa ngokungalindelekanga ngaphezu kokuthandana, kwaye ke akuyi kubakho ixesha lokuchazwa okanye ukuphoxwa kongxamiseko. Ubuncinci bezonyango. Amantombazana adibana ngokubodwa: Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufuneka sihlale sikhangeleka, kodwa ukuba umntu ubona i-mascara ekhulayo, uqala ukuhleka ekuhlekeleni okanye ukusihlambalaza ngenxa yokuba engekho ngokwemvelo! Enyanisweni, abantu bakhangwa yendalo. Ngenxa yoko, uninzi lwazo alubanga uvelwano olwenziwe ngumnxeba owenzelayo: unobunqunu kwaye awunakunceda. Kodwa phantse bonke abaphandulwana nabo babecinga indlela yokwenza iimvelo ezifanelekileyo nakwikhaya. Musa ukuyinqumla. Apha, abaninzi abantu bavuma. Nangona kwezinye iincinci ezifutshane zincinci - naluphi na i-cheekbones ephezulu kunye nabanye - i-hedgehog. Ngoko khokelwa yintetho yakho kwaye ukhethe ubude obude bezinwele zakho. Ungalimi izipikili zakho. Kubukeka buhlazo. Ngendlela, abaninzi abafana neenkqubo zokusika izipikili zabo kubonakala bengenanto.
Izambatho zihambelana nomfanekiso
Gxi ninisa i silhouette. Kulo mbandela, amadoda ahlelwe ngamacandelo: "Intombazana enamaqatha amaninzi okanye imilenze epheleleyo kwisigqatshana sesibini ikhangeleka. Kwaye ngokuphambene - phantsi kweengubo ephakamileyo okanye iengubo ezisezantsi, ngokuba imilenze eqinisekileyo okanye imilenze epheleleyo ifihliwe. " Kule ndlela kulandelayo: kufuneka sikhethe iingubo ezigxininisa kakhulu isibalo sethu, kunokuba sihambelane nemifuziselo yefashoni! Soloko kulungile. Ulibale ngesambatho sokugqoka i-terry okanye iiplannel eziphathekayo eziphathekayo zokufumana iipolka. Indlu yezinto ezihlaselayo amadoda. Gqoka iimpahla zowesifazane. Amadoda athatha inxaxheba kwolu vavanyo avuselela ngentshiseko i-sweaters, iingubo ezide, i-patants-breeches, i-ugg boots, i-overalls kunye neengubo zamadoda. Gxila kwizambatho zangaphantsi. Kwinqanaba elithi "Ubufazi besithintela", i-thong yawunqoba (ngaphandle kokuba i-edge yayo ingabikho kwi-trousers!). Ungazakheli "intombi". Ngoko omnye wamphendula "Andiboni nto ekhangayo kumantombazana azama ukuqala ukuguga kwaye agqoke izinto, njengokungathi ubolekwe oomama nogogo," uluvo lomnye umntu ohlolisweyo. Ukuba ufuna ukugqoka i-suit, ukubheja kumbala oqaqambileyo okanye isitayela esingavamile.
Imfundo ithambileyo, kodwa iyazimela
Ungafungi nje nge-shoemaker! Ebomini, konke kwenzeka, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha igama elinamandla linokuphuma. Zama kuphela, ukuba "ukuhlukumeza" ukukhutshwa kweemvakalelo ezimbi akungena kumkhwa wakho. I-Vulgarity iphakamileyo. Ukulawula ukugqabhuka komsindo. Amadoda abadliwano-ndlebe badla ngokuthiwa yi-non-femin iimeko ezilandelayo: "umsindo ngenxa yento esele idlulile," "ukuthetha ngeetoni eziphakamileyo," "uyamkela i-hysteria." Musa ukusebenzisa kwiglasi, ukuyeka ukutshaya. Uninzi lwabantu aluyithandi. Ngomfazi otshaya, njengomthetho, iinwele zizaliswe ngephunga lokubhema, kwaye le ntsizi ayinandi. Ukuba uphuze utywala, khokelwa ngumlinganiselo wenani. Ukubona komfazi onxilayo kwenza into embi. Zimele. Kwiimbono zabo kunye nezigqibo. Amadoda ayithandi abafazi abangavumi ngokuvumelana nento yonke kunye nabo bonke abantu, kunye nabangenakucala kunye nabangenayo. Musa ukuthetha kakhulu. Akunjalo nje kunye nabahlobo kwifowuni. Amadoda acasulwa xa sifuna amaxesha athile malunga nento efanayo okanye sisabela ngokungafanelekanga.
Isondo esicwangcisiweyo kunye nangoko
Musa ukufihla phantsi kwengubo. Nokuba unayo i-cellulite, ii-intshi ezongezelelweyo ezinqeni, okanye ungekho ngokwaneleyo amabele. Ngomntu wakho, ungowesifazane onqwenelayo kwaye unobulumko kwihlabathi lonke! Yiba ngumthikazikazi. Yinakekele indlela yokujonga njengento ekhohlisa ngayo. Khetha iphunga elifanelekileyo kwaye ungalibali ukubeka kwiingubo zangaphantsi ezintle. Musa ukuphuma kumfanekiso. Ngentsasa elandelayo emva kobusuku obushushu, hlala ufana no-sexy kunye nobumnene-kuya kukukhusela isimo se-seductress. Amagama ambalwa. Abafana banqwenela ukubukela, kwaye bangathethi (kumadoda, njengoko kwaziwa, i-hemisphere efanelekileyo ilawula, ngoko ke inxaxheba kubo kubaluleke kakhulu). Ngoko ke, nganye imibuzo yakho, ibuzwa ngexesha lokuthanda, liyamcasula loo ndoda. Ukongezelela, emva kokulala ngokwesondo umntu unesidingo somzimba sokulala - ungakhubeki: oku kubonisa ukuba ulungile nawe. Olunye ishishini. I-75% yabantwana bafuna ukuba iqabane labo lisebenze ngakumbi. Kuthekani ukuba ungenayo intando okanye amandla, kwaye ingaba umhlobo wakho ulindele nje iqhinga lakho? Musa ukuthukuthela uze ungamgxeka - oku kungabangela esinye isxabano. Mxubane kwaye usitshele ngemvakalelo yakho kunye neminqweno. Mhlawumbi kuya kukusondeza kwaye kukufudumise.
Yintoni ekhangeleka kwi-asexual?
Abasetyhini bagweba kwaye banzima. "Nangona nditshisa, ndicinga ukuba lo mkhuba awupheli ngokupheleleyo. Ibhinqa elitshatyalaliswa ngumsi womsi womsila uyisikizi! Ngakolunye uhlangothi, i-cigarette efanayo kwendebe yekhofi okanye i-glass yewayini ekhanyayo ingaba yinkcazelo engqalileyo, ikulungele ukuthandana. " "Ukungakwazi ukuhamba ngezicathulo ezinezithende eziphezulu, okubizwa ngokuba yi-wobbling gait okanye ukugubha ngeenyawo." "Ukutshiswa kwelanga kwi-solarium, i-bleg hair hair-peroxide, igcwele iingubo ezigcobileyo ezibomvu!" "Ndiyicinga ukuba ayikho into enomdla kumfazi ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo yamadoda (umzekelo, ibhokisi) okanye umsebenzi wezilwanyana (abalindi, amapolisa kunye nabomlilo)." Ukucoca indlu kwezinye iibhande kunye nebhasi. Amadoda ngokukodwa nangokuthe ngqo "Xa ukuhleka kwakhe kufana nokugquma kwetraktara kunye nesandi seglasi eliqhekezayo." "Ibhinqa elisela ubhiya kwigote elikhulu lilahlekelwa ngumfazi wayo. Ngokufanayo, njengokungathi umfana wayedonsa ubhiya ngotshani. " "Ngona wesifazane omhle kakhulu onomlenze wam, uya kuhlala ehlala ..."! Le nqabiso ifihla ubuhle bayo bemvelo. " Ukuba le ntombazana ibhinqa ngokwenene, iya kuhlala kunjalo, nangona isela iglasi yewayini okanye ihlala phantsi ngamadolo. Kodwa ukuba iqhube phambi kwamehlo am, ke ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane akukwazi ukuba kunye nokuthetha.