Inyaniso kukuba ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuthatha inyathelo eliqinileyo, kuyimfuneko ukucoca ngakumbi ingxaki: ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ukuhlukaniswa, indlela ekubonakalisa ngayo kunye nokuba yintoni inokuyicaphukisa. Xa unokukuchonga ngokucacileyo konke oku, umsebenzi wokuphelisa le mpazamo uya kuba lula.
Yintoni eyedwa?
Sinezizathu ezithile ezibizwa ngokuba yivalledness. Inyaniso kukuba inika umntu iingxaki ezininzi. Kunzima kuye ukuqhagamshelana nehlabathi langaphandle, oko kuthetha ukuba ulahlekelwa uthando, iimvakalelo, amava kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi zobomi umntu ovulekile.
Ukuvalwa kungabonakaliswa njengento yokulungiswa kwezinye izinto, iziganeko, iipatheni zokuziphatha, ukucinga okanye ukuqonda kwehlabathi elisijikelezayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuvela njengempendulo kwisiganeko esithile ebomini. Ngokusekelwe kwiimeko ezimbi ezifunyenweyo, umntu uqikelela ukuphuhliswa kwesiganeko ngasinye kwaye alingazami ukusebenzisa ezinye iziphatho. Ngaloo ndlela, ingxaki ayisombululwanga.
Ngosuku ngalunye oludlulayo, umntu ohoxayo uya ngokufudukela kwilizwe langaphandle, ukulahlekelwa nayiphi na intsebenziswano kunye nemeko yangaphambili. Oku kutshintsha ukukwazi kwakhe ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu, ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nobudlelwane obuhle.
Izizathu zokuzihlukanisa
Phakathi kwezizathu eziqhelekileyo:- Uloyiko
- Intukuthelo
- Ukungaqiniseki
- Ukuzidla
Zonke ziyimiphumo yeemeko ezichasileyo ezingazange zifumane inkcazelo engqiqo kunye nesisombululo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Ukwesaba kuvelisa ukungakholelwa. Umntu uvale ngokwakhe, kuba ukholelwa ukuba le yindawo ekhuselekileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku kukukhohlisa, kuba umntu onjalo akafuneki ukuba acaphuke. Intukuthelo kuyo yonke indawo kunye nayo yonke into - umphumo onengqiqo wechungechunge olusisigxina kwilizwe langaphandle.
Ekubeni kunzima kumntu ovaliweyo ukuba ahlanganyele namanye amava, ukuhlambalaza kuqokelela ngaphandle kokufumana indlela engokwemvelo. Utshabalalisa umphefumlo umphefumlo kwaye umphumo obi kakhulu unokuba ngumsindo kunye nomnqweno wokuphindezela.
Ukuzithemba okuphantsi, ukungabi nantembelo kukuthintela umntu ukuba angadibanisi nabanye. Ukholelwa ukuba akafanelekanga ubomi obulungileyo, kuba akahambelani nemigangatho ephakamileyo kakhulu, esoloko edlalwa ngokukhawuleza. Kule meko, ukuvalwa kukuba isisombululo esilula. Ekubeni oku kulula kunokuba uzame ukufezekisa iinjongo ezithile okanye uhlaziye iimfuno zakho.
Ngokugqithisileyo, ukuziqhenya ngokuqhelekileyo kuba sisizathu sokurhoxiswa. Kodwa oku akukhethi kukhetho lomntu, kodwa unyanzelekile. Ekubeni akayihloneli kwilizwe elingaphandle, abanye abantu bayaziqhuba bodwa. Ngenxa yoko, baqala ukuza kuye kwaye akanakho enye indlela yokuphuma.
Indlela yokurhoxisa ukuzihlukanisa?
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuphilisa naluphi na isifo ukuqonda kwayo. Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba le yimeko engafanelekanga kwaye engavumelekanga ekukhuseleni ukuba uphile ngokugcwele kwaye ujabulele ubomi. Kukho ubuchule obuninzi obunceda ukufumana indlela yokubuyisela.
Ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo
Le ndlela yindlela entsha, ekhoyo namhlanje ephakamileyo yokuthandwa phakathi kwabantu abafuna ukuphumelela ebomini. Kukho uluvo lokuba umntu uyakwazi ukuzenza yena kunye nesiphelo sakhe ngokucinga ngezinto ezintle kunye nesimo sengqondo esithile.
Zama ukuzixelela ukuba kukho abantu abakufutshane nawe. Akukho nto yimbi kwaye akukho bhetele kunani. Akukho mntu uzama ukuhlazisa, ukucaphukisa, ukugculela. Baxhala nje, phambi kwabantu abangaziwa kunye neentlanganiso ezibalulekileyo.
Iiklasi eziqhelekileyo ziya kukunceda uqinisekise ingqondo yakho kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyisombulule ingxaki yokuzihlalisa.
Hamba phambili
Le nkqubo iya kufuna inkalipho enkulu kuwe. Ingundoqo yinto yokwenza oko kanye ebangela ukwesaba kuwe. Umoyiko wokuzibandakanya kwisitalato? Yenza konke ixesha. Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa ukuba ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu ukwesaba kuyaphumelela kwaye umntu uvulekele ngakumbi kuluntu.
Into ephambili kukuba kuqaphele ingxaki kwaye uzame ukusombulula. Sebenzisa zonke iindlela zokuphucula ubomi bakho, kuba unayo yedwa. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngokwakho, qhagamshelana neengcali.