Abalingiswa. Into yokuqala kukuba ngubani abadlali bezobudlelwane obuye baqala. Ukuba uthando luye lwaba bancinci ababini (okanye kungekho kakhulu) bancedwa ngabanye, ngoko, njengoko bethetha kwiimeko ezinjalo-iingcebiso kunye nothando. Kodwa ukuba ungumphathi, kwaye ungaphantsi (okanye ulandelelana) - oku kuquka iingxaki ezininzi. Ayikho imfihlo yokuba ulwalamano olungalinganiyo emehlweni abo osebenza nabo luhlala lukhangeleka njengama-mercenary ukusuka kwicala elincinane. Ngako-ke, lungela ukuba loo ncwadana ayiyi kushiya nabani na ongathandangayo: emva komva wakho baya kuhleba nokuhleba. Ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ziyinyaniso, inokulimaza kakhulu. Ukuba, ngethuba lothando lwenu, uhamba kunye nendlela yokusebenza, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kucinga ukuba ukukhulisa okanye ukwandisa umvuzo kukufaneleka kwakho.
Nangona kunjalo kunjalo . Ukuba ungumphathi, kwaye into enqwenelekayo yintsimi yakho, qaphela! Ngaloo ntsapho kubakho, njengommiselo, iingongoma ezimbini: umda wobudala kunye nokungaqiniseki kwakho okuqhubekayo: "Ngaba uyandithanda ngokwenene, okanye ndikhona nje ilitye elihamba phambili kwiindawo eziphakamileyo?" Kuyavuma ukuba yixhoba lomntu onobugcisa onobuchule ayiyinto enhle kakhulu.
Kakhulu kulindeleke. Ayikho indima encinci ekuphuhlisweni kwencwadana yenkonzo kunye nempembelelo yayo kumsebenzi kunye nobomi ngokubanzi kudlalwa yilokho ukulindeleke ngokobuhlobo obunjalo, yiziphi iinjongo ozibekela zona. Ukuba uthando olunzulu nolusulungekileyo, le nto yinto enye, kodwa ukuba ushukunyuka phezulu kwinqanaba lomsebenzi - linye. Yaye ukuba ngaba zombini, yiba sele ulungele ukungavumi nantoni na. Ukuziqhelanisa kubonisa: ngokukhawuleza ukuba ulwalamano nomninimzi, uncibilikisa phantsi kobuhle bakho kwaye uyeka ukubona umqeshwa othembisayo, kodwa ubona umfazi omhle nothandwayo. Utshintshela ngokupheleleyo ukutshatyalaliswa okuthandanayo: ubiza ngokuba ngamaqhina amnandi, ukugcoba okungapheliyo, ukuncoma kunye ... akaphulaphuli iingcamango zakho ezintle malunga nokulungiswa kwakhona kwenkampani kunye nokukhuthazwa kweprojekthi entsha. Yiyiphi iprojekthi, xa ubusuku namhlanje unayo indawo yokuzonwabisa, indawo yokutyela, emva kweeveki kunye kunye ne-dacha phantsi kweengcingo ezitshiweyo kwindawo yomlilo? Ngoko, kunoko, kule ncwadana ibungozi bomsebenzi wakho, kwaye kungekhona ukunyuka ngokukhawuleza, njengoko inkohlakalo esicinga ukuba ingathembeki icinga.
Umsebenzi ukwenzela uthando. Ngokumangalisayo, kodwa impumelelo ebomini bomntu kunye nokuqhubela phambili komsebenzi kufumaneka ngabo ba phambili - ukwakha ikamva eliqaqambileyo nangaliphi na indlela. Xa intloko ingagcwaliswa "ngothando," kwaye intliziyo iyahlala ibanda, kubakho lula ukufumana iqabane lakho kwizinto ozifunayo. Inombolo yenkonzo ngenxa yomsebenzi yindlela eqhelekileyo yokufumana indawo ethile. Ukuba le yindlela yakho, khumbula: apha, njengemfazwe, kufuneka ukhangele yonke into. Kubalulekile ukunika ixesha lokuqonda "intanda", nantoni na oyifunayo kunye nokuba yeyiphi ubuninzi. Ngaphandle koko, unokuhlala kwindawo ephukileyo kwaye ungabi nantoni na. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, kubalulekile ukuba ube nomntu okhethekileyo kunye nesimo esingaqhelekanga. Kuba yile ndlela kuphela enokunyamezela nantoni na eyenza ukwanda okwenyukayo, ngokugqithiseleyo ukudlula umntu kumqeshwa wabasebenzi. Oku akuxolelwe, ngoko awukwazi ukulindela ubuhlobo obuqhelekileyo kunye noogxa bakho. Yilungiselele ukuba i-romance yakho yezoshishino kunye nokuphakanyiswa kwakho kuya kuba yinto yokuxoxwa ngabo bonke abasebenzi-ukusuka kumlindi ukuya kwisekela. Kuyo yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo uya kuhamba kunye nokugungqutyana kwabasebenzi osebenza nabo emva kwemisipha yabo kunye nokumamatheka kwabo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba inzondelelo "abanqwenela kakuhle" iya kuqala ukukhangela ukungaphumeleli emsebenzini wakho, kwaye, qi niseka, baya kubafumana. Kwaye-okanye uya kuphuma (de kube lixesha elizayo), okanye uya kubuzwa "kwintando".
Umqeshi "ngokuba"! Njengoko uyakubona, iireveli zenkonzo zinyani kakhulu kunezingozi, nangona, uya kuvuma, ubomi buya kuba ngaphandle kwabo abukho umdla. Ukongezelela, kwiqela lethu "elimangalisa", imigaqo ayinemigangatho efana neenkampani zaseNtshona. Njengoko kuboniswa iipolisi, abaqashi basekhaya, ukuba bengamkeli iveliveli kwindawo yokusebenzela, baphatha ngokunyanisekileyo. Kwaye ngokwenene, bafuna ntoni ukuxhalabisa? Emva koko, i-romance yenkonzo ihlala nemiphumo emibili kuphela: nokuba inkampani iya kufuneka ichithe imali engacwangciswanga ukunika abanye abasebenzi umtshato, okanye, ukuba akukho mtshato, enye yeqhawe leveli liyakushiya inkampani. Yonke into iyimfihlo kumntu wonke.