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Phantse yonke intombazana inomgangatho othile wokubonakala kwayo, ekuphambukeni apho ikulungele ukuhamba ngokutya ngokukhawuleza, tyelela i-beautician okanye isebenze kwivenkile yefestile ukuze ubuyekeze i-wardrobe yangaphambili. Ukuba usemncinci, intombazana izithabathela umfanekiso wendoda efanelekileyo. Naliphi na umama wentsapho esesitheni ufuna intsapho ibhekise kuye njengenkosikazi engathandekiyo. Wonke umama ufuna ukuzingca ngempumelelo yomntwana wakhe. Ibhinqa lorhwebo lwanamhlanje aliyi kuvumela i-slips emsebenzini kwaye ayiyi kuvumela ukuba abangaphantsi basebenze ngeemikhono zabo. Konke oku kusemvelo ukuba ekuqalekeni, akukho nto ibonakalayo, engakhokelela ekuphelelweni komfazi.Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ibha efakweyo iphakamileyo kangangokuthi i-voltage rhoqo ifunekayo ukuyifeza, iingxaki ezinzima zivela.
Amajelo asoloko asibonisa imifanekiso yamantombazana amahle enomfanekiso ofanelekileyo , isikhumba esilungileyo kunye neenwele eziluhlaza. Zizungezwe ngezinto eziphathekayo, iimoto ezidumileyo kunye nabantu abatsha abacebileyo. Ngentombazana ehlala Khrushchevka kunye nonina, ulwa nokulingana okungafaniyo kunye nama-pimples kwaye uya eyunivesithi kwimitha, into ekhoyo engekho ukuvumelanisa komfanekiso wakhe kunye nobude bemilenze yakhe. Uhlala kwizidlo ezingakholwayo kwaye ubala nganye ikhalori - ngoko uqala i-anorexia nervosa ...
Intombazana enhle neyengqiqo icinga ukuba ukhethwe nguye kufuneka abe yindoda efanelekileyo. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile, sele esele ngaphezu kwemashumi amathathu, kwaye isikhulu esikuloo ndawo asizange sibonakale ...
Ungumcebisi omhle. Kuhlala kulandelelaniswa endlwini yakhe, zonke izinto kwindawo yayo, awukwazi ukufumana umbane wothuli. Ngokuhlwa kusihlwa, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile intsapho ayiphumeli ukuba ibuyele kule ndlu, ifana nayo kumyuziyam okanye kwiindawo zokungcebeleka ...
Umama usoloko evuselela unyana wakhe, ukuba ube ngumntu ohlakaniphile, ufunde kakuhle kwaye uhlale eqhubeka. Kwaye ixesha eliyinyaniso liyinyani, kodwa iminyaka yokuguquka iza, kwaye umntwana uya kuzo zonke iimeko ezinzima. Abazali abayiqondi into enokubangela umntwana wabo ukuba abe nenkampani embi ...
Umama uvelisa intombi yakhe njengentombazana efanelekileyo, ethobelayo, ihlambulukile, isebenza nzima. Yena ukususela ebuntwaneni ubambelela umnqweno wokuba uphelele, kwaye ngoku ukugqithiswa komfazi wesiphelo kuphunyezwe ngempumelelo kwisizukulwana esilandelayo ...
Intombazana eyaphumelela kwiyunivesithi ene-diploma ebomvu, iqalisa umsebenzi wayo. Uhlala efuna ukufezekisa umsebenzi owenzelwe kuye ikhulu leepesenti, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile kukho ukungabikho kwexesha. Uhlala ixesha elide, uthatha umsebenzi ngeveki, akanalo ixesha lokukhulula-ngokuqhelekileyo ube ngumsebenzi osebenzayo ...
Ibhinqa lokuthatha umhlalaphantsi iminyaka emininzi ngoku ibambe isikhundla seNtloko kwisebe elikhulu. Ulawulo luyayixabisa, kodwa luhlala kwindawo yokuxinezeleka ngokuqhubekayo - ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, abaphantsi kwabo abakwazi ukuphumeza umsebenzi ozimeleyo. Kufuneka uqedele yonke into yakho, ngamanye amaxesha ufanele ufihle kwiziphene zamagosa. Indlu yinkathazo, ukutya okuvela kwimveliso eqingqiweyo, kwaye umyeni wam ubonakala efumene enye. Xa ethatha umhlalaphantsi, akayi kukwazi ukuphepha ukucindezeleka ...
Iindaba ezibuhlungu ezinokuthi zingatsholwa zingenakubalwa, kwaye zonke ziqinisekisa ukuba ukuphelelana kwamabhinqa akuyona nto engenzi nengozi, kwaye kwezinye iimeko kunokukhokelela ekukhathazeni kwengqondo engathà sina, intliziyo yabasetyhini ibonakala kwaye, ngakumbi kunabo bonke, abantwana.
Zama ukuzithanda ngokwaloo nto, uzive uthembele, unike abanye abantu ilungelo lokwenza iphutha - kwaye ukulungelelanisa akuyi kuba kubi kuwe!